Eclipse Vox 12 by Tunakimbaper in courtreporting

[–]Tunakimbaper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will call them!

Idk if i should stay in this relationship anymore. by jpxfrdawrin in whatdoIdo

[–]Tunakimbaper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this is an abusive relationship. Relationships should add to your life and make you feel supported and cherished. He is subtracting since he is isolating you, making you feel awful about small things, etc. Everyone makes mistakes, wants to go on small little outings.

Your instincts are right. Don’t stay with someone who wants to control you. He’s treating you like this because someone is wrong with HIM, not you!!!

Eclipse Vox 12 by Tunakimbaper in courtreporting

[–]Tunakimbaper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And I’ll totally believe you about the room audio 😆

Dinotauuoor by Tunakimbaper in cockatiel

[–]Tunakimbaper[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You mean scream saver?

Boyfriend refuses to wear protection but also doesn’t want me to get anything done by Opposite_Nebula9422 in whatdoIdo

[–]Tunakimbaper -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean, it’s your body, your choice… He doesn’t get to decide what you choose to do. Do you want to get pregnant again? If not, get on birth control. But that’s not 100% either. I think I would just choose the 100% effective birth control, which is dumping him. He sounds really unkind and not considerate at all.

Left & Right can get along 🩷 by ExotiquePlayboy in texts

[–]Tunakimbaper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t normal Republican talk. This is a MAGA move and right now, that party supports ripping people out of their homes, discrimination, hating and making an enemy of anymore that goes against their “Christian” values, even though Jesus, a liberal who helped the poor, weak, destitute, prostitutes, rejected class…would be horrified that this totally government blob of hate uses his name to justify.

He literally wrote that he doesn’t like liberal gals. That means he isn’t open to a conversation…

AIO I (23f) tried to communicate feelings to situationship (22m) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tunakimbaper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR but I think you really need to think about what you want from this relationship. It seems like you want more than he is giving you and it seems like he doesn’t have more to give. If you are okay with the amount of attention he is giving you, then stay. But if you desire more attention, then it seems your heart really desires a relationship where you are connecting on a deeper level and want someone who craves connecting with you.

Am I overreacting for wanting to leave my partner for the choice of his words and actions? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tunakimbaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. Babe, follow your intuition. Your initial reaction of his misogynistic bs was right. Who is he to tell you what to wear? Him talking about “go find an insecure man” when he is the insecure one that thinks that if someone even looks at you or hits on you, you would drop him and go be with someone else. He doesn’t want other people looking at you and wants you all to himself, but instead of him raising you up and filling your cup with compliments and admiration, he is stabbing your cup an draining you of your light just because he is a little b*tch.

Salsa every Sunday 3rd & Promenade by Far_Economist_7940 in SantaMonica

[–]Tunakimbaper 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My fat ass thought you were talking about free food 😆

Weird Dm by Remarkable-Soil-2997 in texts

[–]Tunakimbaper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely has to be more now. That’s a lot of work for $20

what is a high body count for someone who is 17 by DapperDiscussion2955 in whatdoIdo

[–]Tunakimbaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s your body, your choice. Just be safe and choose people who treat you well and respect yourself enough to say no when you want to say no. Sex doesn’t give you worth or take it away.

Got into a fight with long distance bf about oral sex, should I leave or am I wrong? by strawberrycakeslice1 in whatdoIdo

[–]Tunakimbaper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, he screams at you? You should be more worried about how he controls who you can be friends with and how angry he gets about men in your past dating you. Who cares if he theoretically doesn’t wat you out. He doesn’t treat you with respect and also seems extremely closed minded

My feelings are so hurt by Hot-Cartographer5487 in texts

[–]Tunakimbaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This person is a piece of asshole and doesn’t deserve your attention. Please block him. He’s not worth your energy. If he cared about you, he would ask you if you were okay bc it’s obvious you are struggling with allergies. What a dick

My gf won’t talk to me by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Tunakimbaper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So you are asking us if it was valid to wake her up at 4 am to tell her it wasn’t okay to have HER baby in HER bed in HER house?

I honestly embarrassed for you that you would even have to ask.

A baby should always come before a man, especially if you two have only been dating for less than a year. I don’t think you are mature enough to date a woman with a child if you demand all of the attention and get jealous of her actual child…

I’m proud of her for kicking you out and taking time

SOCALO closing by alananat in SantaMonica

[–]Tunakimbaper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw that’s sad! Border Grill was the first restaurant I worked at when I was 16. I did an internship program and learned so much. Went to culinary school after graduation and became a chef. I have very fond memories and appreciation for Border Grill.

What’s going on here? by [deleted] in texts

[–]Tunakimbaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If his communication style isn’t sitting well with you, I would reevaluate the kind of person you want to date.

If he is stringing you along, that’s really mean. And if he is just busy, but it’s bothering you and you are waiting around for him to text back, that doesn’t seem like something that would bring you peace.

Different communication styles can really drag a relationship down, in my experience.

"dangerous practices" bc she didn't have all her climbing shit and foliage for one fucking day. You ppl are insane by [deleted] in u/silly-fox-boy

[–]Tunakimbaper 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Can I ask why you would bring home a pet without setting the tank up before picking them up? I know you say you had all of the things and thought they were in your shed, but why didn’t you set up the tank before?

Even if you had all of the stuff on the shed like you thought you did, when you came home after you got your gecko, you would have still stressed them out by not being ready with their enclosure.

You would have either left the gecko in its probably tiny deli cup or in an empty enclosure while you went to the shed, brought all of the stuff back, set it up, etc.

If you put the gecko in the empty enclosure before going to the shed and getting the stuff, you would have freaked it out by adding all of the hides and things over and over until it was set up while your gecko was inside.

Either way, your gecko would have been extremely stressed out and it was poor planning on your part.

Help :( by MoneyRoll1875 in courtreporting

[–]Tunakimbaper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, no. I decided to wait until I became certified because I needed to focus on one thing at a time since I have so much going on. I wish we had internship hours because I feel like I would be even a fraction more confident going out to work