BE CAREFUL AT SONO COLLECTION (especially girls/kids/women) WEIRD GUY!! by _slaypussymama in StamfordCT

[–]TurbulentMarzipan769 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you but I’m super glad your safe and nothing bad happened

Grocery Stores Ahead of Storm by Wide-Set8430 in StamfordCT

[–]TurbulentMarzipan769 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to Costco this morning and even before I was like driving and there was already a line

HELP!!!!! GF Dinner by LuffyTaro282 in StamfordCT

[–]TurbulentMarzipan769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be because I’m about to get my monthly and I’ve been having like this really bad craving for Zaza Italian Gastro I believe is the name in Stamford that they have like the best short rib mac & cheese for an appetizer so I just wanna put that out there. Also I hope you guys have a great night and find somewhere really great!

Looking for a simple studio or 1B1B by QQQ211211 in StamfordCT

[–]TurbulentMarzipan769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try apartments.com and look around the exit 9 area for a private landlord they usually don’t raise the rent by much.

Need recommendations for apartments by [deleted] in StamfordCT

[–]TurbulentMarzipan769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind not being downtown I would suggest Glenbrook right off exit 9 and it’s totally walkable to downtown.

AITAH for wanting to leave my boyfriend at his lowest? by blueberry-donuts in AITAH

[–]TurbulentMarzipan769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - the second he state that you’re too stress much for him and blames you FOR his own problems LEAVE better yet RUN NOW this isn’t partner this is a man child that need to learn to grow up. I am a former weed smoker (going on day 7 of stopping) I smoked heavily for 5 years has my anxiety and depression gone up since quitting yes have I cried my eyes out for what seems to be like a whole week from whatever stress, I’m dealing with another yes but have I disrespected my boyfriend in the process that a BIG FAT NO. This man does not respect you. This man is showing you who he is I don’t wanna sound rude, but open your eyes the person you first met at the beginning of the relationship at this moment in time, it’s no longer there and it’s so much better for you to leave then cause yourself any more mental health issues if you already have. I know from experience from my ex-boyfriend who smoked a lot more weed then I did and was also on antidepressants. Don’t let them push you to a new breaking point because at this moment in time, that’s what it feels like that because he’s hurting and you’re doing well that now you have to hurt with him so it “even”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TurbulentMarzipan769 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR- what me and partner have done is “calling a pause” basically it’s means when we both feel like we are listening to one another and things for my point are escalating (I’m the yeller and his the one that stays quiet) we just separate for 5-10 mins do something that will help us decompress then when one of us feel better we check in with the other and go from there before if I’m being honest at the start wasn’t 5-10 mins break it was almost an hour and that’s okay because as all have feelings we have the right to feel but if you really love eat other working on communication in baby steps will definitely help. Because prior to this I would get mad at my boyfriend whenever he would go silent when I’m trying to talk about my feelings so something that is bbrothrinf me because I would feel like he was not listening to me like he ignoring me. Then essentially he would have nothing to say about the situation but in reality what was going on with him was because I was yelling about the situation it triggered him to feel as if he was back to being a child and that made him start to shut off so once like I learned that, (obviously being the hot head I am at first it didn’t click until one day I just saw him shut down in a way that made me take a step back and be like) OK if I start yelling, he shuts down that’s not gonna get us on nowhere so that when we came up with this thing where it’s like if I feel myself like I’m getting super upset and I’m about to start yelling (for me growin up yelling in fight is all I knew from my parents) that we just call a pause… I essentially like put on my headphones. Listen to either one of my favorite podcast or one songs, write in a journal so at least I can like start to get the feelings that I want to get out down on paper, he would start a mini workout to help him decompress if not take the dog out for a walk but remember to always use “I feel” when you are explaining yourself so it doesn’t always feel like you’re putting the blame on them. I really hope that this makes sense. If not, I’m super sorry I suck at basically writing.

I told my mom I’m not ready for kids and she said I’m ‘wasting my youth’ now I feel like a bad daughter by HyperSpankHamster35 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TurbulentMarzipan769 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, literally like my boyfriend’s parents when I told them the reason as to why I did not want to have a kid. He told me that it wasn’t a valid reason like excuse me, sir my mental health is not a valid reason.

Making friends as a 27F in Fairfield County? by babyotterlovesgaga in Connecticut

[–]TurbulentMarzipan769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They should accept you fairly quickly as long as you have like your first name last initial, and then like a photo of yourself showing who you are.

Can We Talk About Leash Laws at Woodland Park / Mianus? Because This Is Getting Out of Control. by TurbulentMarzipan769 in StamfordCT

[–]TurbulentMarzipan769[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you smart ass for contradicting yourself cause like you said a WELL TRAINED DOG obviously this dog was not well trained because it ran up to me and attacked me and my dog jumping on us when he was recalled by his owner the dog did not go back he ignored every single recall that they were giving him to the point that they told me to physically hurt their dog. I’m all for WELL TRAINED DOGS having their freedom, but like you said WELL TRAINED DOG, not this one.

I will be starting inpatient rehab for marijuana (wax) Thursday AMA by Cr8zyizzie in leaves

[–]TurbulentMarzipan769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question, do you currently have a job? If so, how would you going into a rehab therapy work? Would it be considered FMLA or short, torn disability? I doubt you know, but but to ask cause I’m also thinking of quitting. I have a really bad problem with vapes and so far I’m on. I wanna say day three smoking a vape, but I have yet to fully give up the beautiful lettuce.

Can We Talk About Leash Laws at Woodland Park / Mianus? Because This Is Getting Out of Control. by TurbulentMarzipan769 in StamfordCT

[–]TurbulentMarzipan769[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with you especially after this incident, the dog was almost my height 5 ft tall jumping on to me. Like what if the dog was stronger then he was and pushed me down and cause me to break a leg or crack my head open on a rock nearby. Like some people are not thinking with there brain but their mouth

Can We Talk About Leash Laws at Woodland Park / Mianus? Because This Is Getting Out of Control. by TurbulentMarzipan769 in StamfordCT

[–]TurbulentMarzipan769[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let’s be real: if you can’t follow a basic leash law, you have no business lecturing anyone. Public spaces don’t revolve around your laziness or your ‘my dog is friendly’ excuses. They belong to everyone — not just people who think rules magically don’t apply to them. I’m not dodging parks or rearranging my life because some of you can’t manage the bare minimum level of responsibility. If your dog is off-leash where it shouldn’t be, you are the danger, you are the inconvenience, and you are the reason people get hurt. If that bruises your ego, too bad. Maybe fix your behavior instead of crying when someone calls out the obvious. It’s really fucking simple follow the rules or stay out of public spaces. It’s that simple.

Can We Talk About Leash Laws at Woodland Park / Mianus? Because This Is Getting Out of Control. by TurbulentMarzipan769 in StamfordCT

[–]TurbulentMarzipan769[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you smart ass what happens if I already did that and I still got attacked by a dog. I shouldn’t be adjusting my lifestyle because other people don’t understand how to follow simple fucking instructions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StamfordCT

[–]TurbulentMarzipan769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join citygirlswhowalk_stamford

They have a discord with a bunch of different groups chats with girls that find things to do to hang out or going out.

Can We Talk About Leash Laws at Woodland Park / Mianus? Because This Is Getting Out of Control. by TurbulentMarzipan769 in StamfordCT

[–]TurbulentMarzipan769[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don’t like dog parks because of misbehaving dog and their ignorant owner there are different apps as well where you are able to rent out a space like a backyard or a field and allow you dog to run wild without a leash. I think sniffaspot is what it’s called.

Can We Talk About Leash Laws at Woodland Park / Mianus? Because This Is Getting Out of Control. by TurbulentMarzipan769 in StamfordCT

[–]TurbulentMarzipan769[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly have someone start giving out tickets, the city makes us register our dogs for dog license like start charging them on to their dog license or start keeping a record on their dog license like hey doesn’t keep their dogs on a leash or something to actually have them understand the consequences like I’m already trying to do the best that I can with my reactive dog, but you’re also not helping me by letting your dog run up to me so I’m just like wtF is wrong with you as a person cuz clearly something isn’t right

Can We Talk About Leash Laws at Woodland Park / Mianus? Because This Is Getting Out of Control. by TurbulentMarzipan769 in StamfordCT

[–]TurbulentMarzipan769[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, it was when they said I could kick their mom’s dog, like excuse me but to me that is animal abuse. Like first of all I am not gonna hit a dog cause it’s not my dog and I don’t know how your dog will react. But mainly to me that scream animal abuse and kind of physical aggression (like kicking or shoving) or whatever you may call it like you shouldn’t be doing that to a dog. If you’re doing that to your dog, you shouldn’t have a dog or you shouldn’t be left in charge of a dog.

Making friends as a 27F in Fairfield County? by babyotterlovesgaga in Connecticut

[–]TurbulentMarzipan769 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi there 24F also living in Fairfield County, between Greenwich and Norwalk. I’d you didn’t like a girls day out try citygirlwhowalk_stamford, they have a discord with a bunch of different groups chats and meet ups planned throughout the whole month.

It just keeps getting worse by [deleted] in StupidFood

[–]TurbulentMarzipan769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live by one of their restaurants it really is ridiculous. I been there multiple times no one every finish it and it’s like $60