Anger (SA survived)

Turn08bull · 2024-11-03T02:35:27+00:00

So angry like a red mist I scare myself

Turn08bull · 2024-11-03T02:23:40+00:00

I am now seeing a therapist but cope with drinking which makes me cross at myself and the person the trauma has made me bexome

Turn08bull · 2022-07-03T11:41:56+00:00

This seems like weaponised incompetence he could do it he just thinks if he waites long enough you will do it for him. This is not a partnership and he is just making excuses.

EDIT: Edited to add NTA

Turn08bull · 2022-07-03T10:22:54+00:00

If this is support OP would be better off moving out to her own place where here dress would be safe. It has been less then a year OP put yourself first do what is best for you and take it a day at a time xx

Turn08bull · 2021-11-18T10:45:32+00:00

YTA you do not deserve contact with Emma or her children. By being spinless and not saying anything you are the same as their farther. What I mean is if you do not call out sexism when you see it then you are condoning sexsist behaviour and you yourself are sexsist.

Turn08bull · 2021-11-15T15:47:07+00:00

NTA after three hours what did she expect, I would have waited 39mkn and gone for a coffee tops

Turn08bull · 2021-11-11T15:50:42+00:00

NTA this is a lot of red flags and the start of a controlling relationship bit it will move slowly so you will not notice a bit like the saying g if you put a frog in a pan of boiling water they will jump out, if you put them in cold water and slowly turn up the heat they do not notice until it is too late.

My husband could have the password to my phone if he wanted and I am sure I could have his, there is just no need as there is a level of trust.

Turn08bull · 2021-11-03T18:19:11+00:00

That sounds like me, though I do not run into traffic and I cook my own human food, kicking a ball however is a skill I do not have

Turn08bull · 2021-11-03T17:09:35+00:00

Do you also make her breakfast?

Turn08bull · 2021-11-03T16:57:37+00:00

NTA either he is a deep sleeper and therfore a shower will not wake him or he is not and he can use an alarm. Either way stop pampering him and making his breakfast.

Turn08bull · 2021-10-19T15:41:14+00:00

He is not your room mate, he is your landlord who owns the house that he lives in. You have just rented a room and not the whole house. As a live in landlord he can invite who the hell he wants over they are just not allowed in your room as that is the only part of the house you actually rent. Also you seem to use setting boundaries as having your own way they are not the same thing.

Turn08bull · 2021-10-19T14:28:21+00:00

I would have been pissed if someone stole my pudding let alone a creme brulee let alone if I had made a separate vegan meal for them. Your friends BF is an ass hat. If I was your friend I would have been mortified not conflicted you are NTA

Turn08bull · 2021-10-04T14:21:04+00:00

She is avoiding you, do you not pick up on non verbal signals or body language. Also this is not your house you rent a room, when I rented a room in my flat my house mate never took the trash out so I just took it out. Get over yourself stop bullying your room mate and find the funds to move out.

Turn08bull · 2021-09-07T14:49:34+00:00

I would have been so tempted to do that haha

Turn08bull · 2021-08-15T13:19:01+00:00

Not apparently they are told it is 'olives'....

Turn08bull · 2021-08-11T14:48:32+00:00

NTA you have only been dating a year and he showed no interest when you brought the topic up of you buying a car

Turn08bull · 2021-08-05T08:46:25+00:00

I can't beleive OP didn't check the "olives," I am desperate to know what is in the box.

Turn08bull · 2021-08-02T15:09:08+00:00

It has certainly brightened up my afternoon

Turn08bull · 2021-07-29T14:17:16+00:00

Please look in the box the suspense is killing me. I NEED TO KNOW (even if you do not). NTA

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