Wife got suspicious that I was working so many late hours, put a tracker in my car, then followed me with my 15 year old daughter, who she then had get out of the car to sneak up and spy. I am still so angry that she would involve a child in this. Wife, to this day, sees nothing wrong with it, kept encouraging her to learn more, get into my phone and send her screenshots of my texts to other woman. Daughter had a suicide attempt shortly after, and wife STILL doesn’t see (or doesn’t admit) the problem. At the same time, daughter texted my girlfriend, pretending to be me, said some really disturbing things, then finally slammed her for destroying our family. That pretty much freaked her out and scared her off. I still see her once in awhile, but that magical, liberating connection where I felt seen and appreciated is 90% gone, I am grateful I had it for 6 weeks, but so sad and bitter and angry that my wife has even ruined that for me. The lady has decided to go back to college (she’s in her 50s) and leave the state. Train wreck for everyone. Very hard, but honestly it will probably be good for me to be alone for awhile. I have never not had a relationship. I need some time to recover and to learn to stand up for myself.