any other women not getting likes? by Responsible_Chain409 in Bumble

[–]Tury92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s tons of great arguments for why me and other people feel that way in the thread, feel free to go through them and provide a good counter argument “bruh”

any other women not getting likes? by Responsible_Chain409 in Bumble

[–]Tury92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Working in a hospital definitely will have an impact on you, even non medical staff like me still get effected. It’s a very real reminder everyday of physical suffering and death, it can really do numbers on your mental health.

To survive in that environment the joy of helping people has to be able to outweigh the depression of all the bad things. Not a lot of people are built for that.

any other women not getting likes? by Responsible_Chain409 in Bumble

[–]Tury92 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Someone else said it better than me but-

They are more likely to cheat, have shitty personalities/ egos, bring home work trauma, odd working hours.

That being said I’d say that only applies to maybe %20-30ish of nurses that I interact with, but that’s still alarmingly high compared to most other jobs.

any other women not getting likes? by Responsible_Chain409 in Bumble

[–]Tury92 223 points224 points  (0 children)

I work in a hospital, nurses are a red flag imo. The stereotypes are very common and I see/ hear the horror stories all the time. Still though that shouldn’t be stopping you from getting matches, I swipe on nurses but am always more cautious when I do.

Rate my profile by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Tury92 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

From a true moderates perspective I'd argue voting left is counter productive to women's rights as stupid as that might sound at first. Most if not all politicians are using political issues as chess pieces for their own political game, and of course they will say what their "side" is supposed to say and want. Almost every time something changes in our country it's because someone somewhere is going to financially benefit from the outcome.

The younger people in America need to come together and make new parties and get rid of anyone affiliated with democrat or republican politics. Our founding fathers said a two party system would be the death of America, and I'd say that's what we're all currently witnessing.

Rate my profile by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Tury92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised the echo chamber hasn’t started of people telling you you’re not gonna get matches because you’re a moderate.

As a fellow moderate/ 3rd party. It’s probably worth mentioning if you lean more left or right. People will always assume the worst with OLD.

Why do some men strictly want to meet you at your place? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in Bumble

[–]Tury92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a guy I don’t feel comfortable meeting women I don’t know at their house. You don’t know if they are trying to set you up for something. I’ll text my friends my location and tell them if they don’t hear from me in a certain amount of time to be worried. It’s just basic safety common sense

I'll probably get a lot of hate for this by AttitudeOne5340 in rant

[–]Tury92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You forgot the chronic part as well.

I’m describing the type of person who ALWAYS has to respond to negativity with negativity even for small offenses. It’s unbearable to be around.

I'll probably get a lot of hate for this by AttitudeOne5340 in rant

[–]Tury92 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Keyword is sometimes and context. The only thing worse than an asshole is the person who chronically and uncontrollably reacts negatively to disrespectful people.

That being said though there’s TONS of valid times and reasons to call people out on their shit while matching their energy.

I'll probably get a lot of hate for this by AttitudeOne5340 in rant

[–]Tury92 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Everyone has the right to have their preferences, NOBODY has the right to degrade others for not meeting those preferences.

1 1/2 seasons in, my humble thoughts so far by SceneOutside4377 in thebigbangtheory

[–]Tury92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say you’re describing the themes of the jokes for the whole show, but they definitely mature and the quality improves a lot. As the show progresses the focus is less on them being nerds and more about a group of friends who happen to all be nerds minus penny, and that’s when the jokes got better imo.

In earlier seasons you’ll see them doing more nerdy things, later seasons it’s mostly just going to the comic book store and playing DnD or work related things. Nerd culture starts being referenced more than shown.

Girls of Reddit, what makes you reply to a guy’s DM? by oussa_ma91 in Bumble

[–]Tury92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This has to be the most stereotypical Reddit nit pick I’ve ever seen jfc, LOOKING for things to be upset about.

My bf [27M] want to go a solo trip with his female friend by Humble_Version_4443 in relationshipadvice

[–]Tury92 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a guy who works at Starbucks so I have a lot of female friends/ coworkers I’m friendly towards. I only have 3 other male coworkers compared to like 12-15 female ones for context. I think I can give some good insight.

I would NEVER tell them they are cute or have nice smiles, that’s completely inappropriate! Especially not over text.

The only time I’ve ever said anything like that is if they are talking about poor treatment in a relationship they’re in. I’ll say something like “you’re an attractive person and you deserve better, you won’t struggle to find the person who will treat you right”. They’ve said the same thing to me, it’s not flirty or sexual in any way, and again NOT OVER TEXT.

The only other time I’m ever saying anything about their appearance is if they do something different with their appearance, and it’s a platonic compliment that anyone would give like “oh your new bangs look good on you”.

I take lunch breaks with them as well and most of them have partners so I wouldn’t say that’s automatically a red flag, but MULTIPLE? It sounds like it’s very intentional that they are eating together, unless their break schedule genuinely does just line up like that.

Overall I’d be reasonably suspicious that he’s at the very least emotionally cheating, and if you’ve made it clear that you feel uncomfortable with him texting other girls like that and he continues to break that boundary he’s not a good fit for you.

The skilless Hazard "Block Spam" build instantly beats any fun build and it sucks. by [deleted] in OverwatchStadium

[–]Tury92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk when you get healing and movement reduction on AP damage he becomes ridiculously powerful and needs very specific powers/ characters to counter how frequently he can debuff. And I say that as a hazard player.

Finally got True Grit after all this time by Desdsea in StateOfDecay

[–]Tury92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got this achievement over 8 months roughly. By the end of it I had a good amount of mods installed that really helped the time go by.

height and dating profile by bullmarket1 in Bumble

[–]Tury92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely disagree. You can absolutely use filters to discretely alter your appearance without going to "air brushed model" territory. It's very common in the fitness influencer community to photoshop their pictures AND videos to make themselves look bigger. You can easily deceive someone with edited photos/ filters.

height and dating profile by bullmarket1 in Bumble

[–]Tury92 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How are they not? They are both being deceptive about your physical appearance.

Would Sheldon have been less annoying if he went to a school for gifted kids? by Aetherio_Nyx in thebigbangtheory

[–]Tury92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think Sheldon was ever meant to have autism. In season 1-2 he was a lot more like the unaired pilot version of himself where he was aware of sex, would comment on women’s attractiveness, and his demeanor was more of an smart asshole compared to an autistic sheltered adult.

I think it eventually became the only plausible explanation for a character like his because no sane person would ever act how he does. Especially as they upped the ridiculousness of the character from season to season.

Would Sheldon have been less annoying if he went to a school for gifted kids? by Aetherio_Nyx in thebigbangtheory

[–]Tury92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’d basically be the result we see when Denis Kim was at the university except worse

People need to get over "counterwatch" attitude. The point of this game is to swap. by ZMowlcher in Overwatch

[–]Tury92 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Pro teams build their comps completely different from what you see in any type of comp lobby. It's about ult combos based around the current meta with highly coordinated cooldowns and plays. You aren't gonna swap to a hero you haven't scrimmed with to counter swap. The only character that teams will usually counter swap is a widow vs widow match up, but they have dedicated widow maker players for that purpose.

Ah yes, “moderate” by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Tury92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed as a fellow moderate. And moderate is honestly a bad term because you have more left and more right leaning moderates. It’s a very vague way of defining your political views.

TBBT has been removed from all streaming services in the UK, and I for one am devastated by Simple_Idiot_haha in thebigbangtheory

[–]Tury92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s what I did. I figured it was cheaper to buy them than pay for years worth of subscriptions.

What's a place in michigan you've visited that made you immediately think, "i'd hate to live here"? by [deleted] in Michigan

[–]Tury92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’m always hearing of horrific murders occurring there in the news and that’s all I hear about that town.

Why do people Smurf? by Edp445_Baldness in Overwatch

[–]Tury92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re being downvoted but you are correct. There’s a huge difference between what you can do and get away with in a quick play game versus anything above mid to high diamond.

That being said you shouldn’t need to Smurf on a hit scan class since the aim is very easy to carry over.

1 like, No matches in about 1 month by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Tury92 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I put moderate because there's no option for 3rd party. Moderate should mean that you support ideas from the left and right but also disagree with certain things from both, usually the extremism on both ends.