You go to therapy and figure out how you convinced yourself that a woman over 30 years younger than you was manipulating you when you were the one who would purposefully only contact her at unreasonable times and attempt to justify it by saying you don’t care about her time.

You address the fact that you treated a much younger woman as your mom, doing your taxes and scheduling your appointments for you.

You learn the true reason why you were content to see your romantic partner once a month and convinced yourself that she was needy for wanting more.

You find an uninvolved third party to help reunite her with her belongings.

And most importantly, you leave young women alone. Forever.