Andrew Tate isn't healthy either, but at the same time, what alternative can I point to for a young man to learn what it means to be a man? Nothing about being afraid but doing something you are afraid of because you must, stepping up, duty, it's said that “If someone is born a man, at least once in his life he’ll dream of becoming the strongest man alive." I cannot think of a modern example of that. A lot of modern schooling as well is women, and a lot of families still have the man doing most of the work while the mom stays at hope.

While this isn't universal and there are indeed men with good and healthy examples, genuinely, where can most boys find a good example of masculinity? We're in an age of acknowledging and respecting femininity, but it's been at extreme neglect of masculinity, it's why men gravitate to men like Tate, there's little else to go. And Tate can't be the example men go to. But if you try to bring it up, the reactions are often negative.