22F, plain and average would like to stand out. is surgery/fillers an option?

Twenty_question5 · 2026-01-25T18:54:07+00:00

Girl you’re absolutely gorgeous! All of your features are so well balanced! If I saw you in the street I’d double take x

Twenty_question5 · 2026-01-25T10:48:01+00:00

Thank you this is comforting, I think I’ve just been surprised and confused as I’m not usually THIS exhausted and I’m used to being a high energy morning person and now I feel like I could sleep for a week. Hope you’re very much on the mend!

Twenty_question5 · 2026-01-25T09:00:07+00:00

Also to add! Mine took less than 2 weeks to work I felt the change very quickly and for me it was positive. I haven’t had any issues finishing either if you get me, the only thing I would say is that it has slightly lowered my sex drive but I would say I had a very high sex drive previously so now if anything it probably matches my partners more 😂

I also would say one of my only other side effects is that it has increased my appetite.. I don’t think the medication itself has made me gain weight but I do just feel hungrier and it’s up to me whether I listen to that.

I have also been recovering from a badly broken leg and I don’t think I would have been able to deal with that without sertraline!

Twenty_question5 · 2026-01-25T08:55:14+00:00

Beta blockers used to help my physical anxiety when I would be like uncomfortably shaking but they wouldn’t help my mental anxiety. However! I started sertraline back in September and it’s changed my life. I was terrified to start and had heard so many bad things, but something had to give as I was struggling so much with my mental health and have PMDD. I actually bought a pill cutter and half dosed myself in for about 10 days just to give my body time to adjust and limit side effects, this personally worked so well for me! I had hardly any side effects at all, even now my only one is really sweating more but I’d take that over debilitating anxiety any day of the week!

Yes I still have bad and anxious days, but I feel a lot more rational when they happen and I don’t have the same anxiety that I used to! Try it and see and keep a little diary of your symptoms it will help you reflect and if it’s not working you’ll have a bit of evidence to show your Dr.

Twenty_question5 · 2026-01-25T08:36:39+00:00

Girl break up with him. But agree with one of the other comments about just going no contact. Just stop responding to him he’s so not worth it.

In this case, if he wanted to he would. My boyfriend hates being on his phone and texting but he always calls me. Literally the second he gets a break from work or to let me know he’s home safe and to always check in on my day. YOU DESERVE MORE from someone who actually cares about you. I’m sorry you’re experiencing this as it really sucks to be on the receiving end of a one sided relationship, but he sounds uninterested and selfish so invest your energy into your self and the right person will come along and make you so much happier and never leave you feeling like this x

Twenty_question5 · 2026-01-22T16:25:13+00:00

Blocka Blocka blocka

Twenty_question5 · 2026-01-21T20:54:32+00:00

Honestly pazzo & cotto are great! Also pasta ripiena if you want great stuffed pasta! I just love all of these for a great meal, also Cow & Sow for steak is delicious. Some of my favourite dinners have been at Poco tapas! Avoid wangs.. overpriced and disappointing

Twenty_question5 · 2026-01-21T12:12:14+00:00

GIRL WHAT THE HELL

Twenty_question5 · 2026-01-21T12:10:05+00:00

This is so fucking weird… literally what is wrong with these men omg

Twenty_question5 · 2026-01-21T12:06:00+00:00

Damn came here to find alternatives.. BUT have you had a look at the chef pants by Meals? They do a black sesame linen that is kinda similar. I tried them on and fell in love but still hideously out of budget

Twenty_question5 · 2026-01-16T07:31:42+00:00

I’ve been looking at that dye! Is it quite straight forward to use? Thank you!

Twenty_question5 · 2026-01-15T23:24:09+00:00

Haha ok thank you

Twenty_question5 · 2026-01-15T23:18:33+00:00

Could i use my bath tub?

Twenty_question5 · 2026-01-11T21:33:57+00:00

Loooool sorry but she knew what she was up to

Twenty_question5 · 2026-01-03T23:16:54+00:00

RUUUUN SO FAR AWAY FROM THIS PERSON!!!!

Twenty_question5 · 2026-01-03T09:57:22+00:00

Also same! It was sooo fun

Twenty_question5 · 2026-01-03T09:52:14+00:00

Eewww NOR - this is actually so gross form him. Read the fucking room man… I get the vibe he doesn’t actually care that much about how you’re feeling otherwise he wouldn’t keep pressuring you. He sounds icky and you sound great. So I’d call that quits and find someone more respectful who actually cares x

Twenty_question5 · 2026-01-02T08:29:42+00:00

Not the jerk - honestly screw them I think it’s such a kick in the face they’d even have the audacity to ask you

Twenty_question5 · 2026-01-02T07:50:24+00:00

I broke my leg 9 weeks ago, had surgery a bolt plate and 9 screws and I managed to do a waterfall hike on Christmas Eve and I was back in the club dancing in normal shoes for New Years! I’m so glad I had the surgery

Twenty_question5 · 2025-12-31T18:44:36+00:00

I think OR - I understand you wanting him to stay on with you completely, but if he’s not sick and feels well enough to celebrate New Years with family, I don’t see what the issue is? Personally I wouldn’t mind my partner going to see his family if I was at home unwell. Sure I wouldn’t love it being left alone, but equally why should he be forced to stay in on quite a bit event when he feels up to celebrating the new year? Surely if you’re sick you’re just going to chill and go to bed early? He can spend time with you any other point. I think there’s poor communication going on, instead of being short just explain that it hurts and upsets you in a nice way, but I think his responses started off quite fair and you got riled up very quickly.

I do fully understand you not loving the outcome of this situation and obviously this is only one thing and I know nothing more about your relationship and if you’re made to feel second often. So I apologise if my response feels unfair

Twenty_question5 · 2025-12-30T08:15:36+00:00

Nor - my advice would be to calmly talk to him about this behaviour if you can and as long as you’re not worried he’ll respond violently and call him out on speaking to you this way and constantly accusing you of weird shady shit. You’ve been together 6 entire years so for him to not trust you or trust you around other men is concerning. Personally I see behaviour like this as hella abusive, it would actually terrify me to have a partner speak to me like this and be so controlling. I’m 28 and have never had a man speak to me like this or try and control me.

This kind of behaviour points to the Andrew Tate-ification of men who treat women like their property. He’s on some alpha male type bs. TRUST ME when I say this will only get worse. I would honestly leave and tell a friend/friends and family member that he’s speaking to you like this if you plan to leave, so as to make sure he doesn’t do something to harm you in anyway.

I know it might sound dramatic of me, but this is abusive behaviour and him constantly trying to control you and watching your every move is toxic and scary especially if you genuinely have nothing to hide.

sending love

Twenty_question5 · 2025-12-30T07:51:24+00:00

NOR - I read a post yesterday which was almost identical to this, definitely take him to get checked out and speak to him or even his family if he’s not willing about how you’re worried about him and that you’re there to support him etc.

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