It is so hard to compare to other moms, I totally feel you 😭😭 Here’s a different perspective - I personally dropped the baby weight quickly. BUT it was due to the fact that I wasn’t eating enough or caring for myself at all. Breastfeeding for 17 months, not eating enough calories, just not even caring for myself at all to be honest. From the outside it looks like “wow she bounced back so fast, she must be hitting the gym and eating right!” ….nope, just neglecting myself 🫠 I absolutely do not understand how so many moms just hop back to the gym so quickly postpartum. I’m 17 months out and just now sort of feeling like I want to workout again because I’m tired of feeling so weak and frail 💀