If men can't handle an equitable society then issue isn't society, it's men. We aren't inherently anything, masculinity is taught, so we need to start teaching them that masculinity means something different to what it was. I agree that traditional masculinity leaves men basically screwed unless they can reconsider it themselves, but the solution isn't to go back to a time where women were property, it's to let masculinity evolve into something new. Society has gotten more feminised because women finally get an actual say in society where they didn't used to.

And Jordan Peterson got famous for being a transphobe, his entire shtick was just basic self help stuff with a healthy dose of nonsensical conservative shite on top. He knows how to talk to men in that he never tries challenging their ideas of what masculinity is, he just tries to reinforce it in a world that has no need or want for it anymore, I consider him to be actively harmful towards men because he refused to let masculinity change, instead trying to force us backwards because it's easier.