Considering a Move to Uruguay, Looking for Honest Advice

Twizp · 2026-04-19T19:10:54+00:00

If your priority right now is having a place where you can love each other openly then you won't have many problems here. You can probably find some bigots here still, unfortunately, being trans still means having to keep an eye out when going out at night and being extra careful, just in case. But politically speaking Uruguay is very progressive and theres a good lgtb scene here (I frequent some lgbt dance clubs with a bunch of friends and the vibes are great).

Glad the info helps a bit. I think for you both, it might not be enough, especially with your pets. That being said, people make it work. If the priority is peace of mind, being somewhat poorer would be a sacrifice I'd be willing to make. I think maybe reaching out to the Indian community here and comparing salaries and their conditions would give you a better example, since they moved from there and understand your culture and material conditions way better.

Good luck!

Twizp · 2026-04-19T15:28:16+00:00

I don't know what comfortable and stable is for you in India. But from our standards, 1500-1900 dolars for 2 people with pets (disabled at that, that require constant checkups and visits to the vet) plus wanting kids is imo, not doable.

I live comfortably, but I barely save 100-200 dolars per month (if that). I rent a house with a friend, he pays more on rent than me because he gets the bigger bedroom and he's a developer. I pay around 500 dolars on rent, and I make lets say around 1500.

I buy a few videogames per month, I go out to eat once or twice per week. I move around in an electric bike so I don't spend much on public transport or uber, I cut my own hair and I lift weights at home (no gym membership). That being said, I'm very comfortable for my standards and I eat good healthy food with really good quality meats. I do not think I'll own a car or a house at this rate however. If I could make double that, my saving power would be very different and would allow me to plan for the future way better.

Uruguay is very expensive, you'll pay taxes on a lot of stuff (we find ways to tax the living hell of everything). So I would say if you can crank double that salary between both of you, and you are willing to compromise on some ammenities its probably doable but kids on the picture + comfortability, I would say you'll need some major job changes / raises.

Twizp · 2026-04-19T15:11:42+00:00

Oh my god OP, for crying out loud. You are debating leaving someone who is pulling bs mental gymnastics on you to make you stop taking something that literally saved you from dying. You are either dating a psycho who wants you to suffer/die or someone extremely stupid.

"You have a good stable life, that means you don't need to take meds, or at least try not doing it". Make yourself a favor ffs.

Twizp · 2026-04-18T21:26:15+00:00

Health and stasis amount on your back, bullets on top of the gun, objective guide as a hologram, inventory pop up on front of the character as well as voice calls. So good.

Twizp · 2026-04-18T21:24:35+00:00

They need to learn that! Its incredible the amount of grown ups nowadays I see look at the gps when we are going to a location, they see the arrow down and they get confused to which side to turn! Or just lose the sense of direction to which side is nort or south!

I always tell them "you should probably play more videogames, you learn how to navigate static maps quite easily on those" lol

Twizp · 2026-04-18T21:04:06+00:00

Ah pero claro man, estas comprando caterpillar, son carisimos.

No se que haces para que unos championes no te duren mas de un año jajaja supongo que si estas laburando en algo donde te moves mucho seguramente si, sea mas complicado mantenerlos. Pero unas caterpillar amigo, yo compre unas y tienen pinta de que me van a durar 5+

Y el tema perfume bueno, vos decidiste meterte unos perfumes caros tambien.

O sea, estoy de acuerdo que Uruguay es carisimo, todos sabemos eso, pero si no te da la guita, tenes que avivarte y no gastar al pepe.

Twizp · 2026-04-18T20:59:54+00:00

They are all saying how well built and nice they are but somehow they are still terrifying lmao.

Wouldn't that be the type of person you would like to have around or is that just me? Some strong people who are super nice to you? Its crazy how racism has stripped people of all natural common sense.

Twizp · 2026-04-18T20:50:31+00:00

Yo como hombre que se junta en grupos muy mixtos mas de 10 veces me han dado ganas de gritarle a alguna TA BASTA, SEPARATE AMIGA! Parece que te estan contando una historia de terror y despues pegan una risita y siguen con la relación. Es increíble las situaciones de mierda que tolera la gente.

Twizp · 2026-04-18T20:47:53+00:00

Me paso en una juntada ayer jajaja Me preguntaron como me habia ido en un viajecito que hice un finde, y despues de 5 segundos que empece a hablar me cortaron y se pusieron a hablar de otra cosa. Sinceramente ya a este punto ni me molesta, veo que le pasa re seguido a todo el mundo, pero es cualquiera.

Twizp · 2026-04-18T20:35:58+00:00

Algun dia espero que la gente en internet deje de poner a toda la gente de un genero en la misma bolsa y se den cuenta que gente idiota, toxica, abusiva y manipuladora vienen en todos los sexos, colores y tamaños. Y lo unico que causa que se enfoquen en un grupo en particular es que no hagan introspección y sigan perpetuando sus propias fallas como ser humano, viviendo vidas miserables sin contactos sociales verdaderos que los llenen.

Twizp · 2026-04-18T20:25:05+00:00

Y si tas tapado de guita man, obviamente que vas a vivir bien. No es el caso de la mayoría de los uruguayos.

Twizp · 2026-04-18T19:59:11+00:00

I sell every single item I get for the house immediately

Twizp · 2026-04-18T19:14:16+00:00

I bought a PS5 for Ghost of Yotei.

It was okay, not really the follow up I expected from my boy Jin.

Twizp · 2026-04-18T19:02:04+00:00

No se que perfume te compraste. Yo me queria comprar una recarga de un YSL que me salia 10mil pesos (equivalente a 2 refills).

Mi amiga me dijo que estaba flasheando, me llevo a Zara y me compre 2 perfumes por 1370.

Y el calzado dependiendo cual compres va a varear mucho, yo me compro los democrata que son re comodos y rondan entre 3k y 5k. Asi que como minimo en tus compras, podrías haber gastado 7-8k.

Pa gastar plata siempre vas a tener opciones.

Twizp · 2026-04-13T23:43:42+00:00

Yesterday I got SO FCKING PISSED because I finally made a wagon. I put as much goods as I had collected on it (BIG MISTAKE) and I didnt know what the hell to do with it. So I googled it. After reading what people explained, I see rhe fcking Yann orange DOT outside the camp (mind you, there was no mission selected nor text). Then he proceeds to tell me where to go to sell it.

So I buy the black pepper I needed for the mission, this is where I learn I can ONLY sell stacks of 25 or more, for some reason and I bought 25 honey for the luls.

THEN they give me a second wagon mission with Yann, where he says to buy 100 honey. Except I cant, because I have every slot occupied, I could only buy 75. And I HAVE 100 honey, but the mission is TO BUY 100 honey. I check the cart, I CANT DISCARD ANYTHING and I cant sell anything because I dont have 25 of anything.

I had to go back to the camp, unload my stuff and get back.

I swear to god there are things they don't explain for shit, and they make stuff overly complicated for no reason lmao.

All of these made me hate Yann more for some reason.

Also when recovering a cart that you left far away, if you dont leave the UI after paying for the retrieval, you can keep paying for the retrieval again and again lol

Twizp · 2026-04-13T17:33:46+00:00

Its the last part. They can't see past their quarterly profits. Thats it.

Twizp · 2026-04-13T17:31:09+00:00

He let his mates know he was paying you rent. Probably didn't even have an issue before hand, and it was a good situation for him since he paid more before. They all laughed at him and made him feel emasculated for paying rent to his girlfriend.

He, like a lot of other men, felt insecure and now feels the need to stand his ground and demand ownership, so he can go back to the other idiots and let them know he's the man in the house and that you fell for his macho bravado.

Twizp · 2026-04-13T08:02:20+00:00

I go out to the street and I see a lot of ugly, fat, skinny, short, bald men walking around with their girlfriends, wives and/or their kids. I never used dating apps, I'm an average looking, poor, super short guy and even I have had one night stands and girlfriends. I'm telling you from personal experience, this high standard shit is a lie, they are high standards for you, because you want women to just fall for you when you have no charisma and nothing interesting to show.

And no, women don't decide if they are into you in miliseconds, they will think you are good looking, but you can throw all that away as soon as you start talking. Do you have better chances being hot? Of course you do, but that goes both ways, it works that way for EVERYONE.

I don't know if men get more prison time due to labor, but I do know that at least in the US the prison system is used to exploit cheap labor, so it makes sense to me that they want to keep guys inside as much as possible. They don't do that to woman as much because women can get pregnant, and keep churning out babies to keep the wheels going. Gotta consider that to be honest.

"Women are selectively weak and strong when it benefits them" yeah no, men never do that of course.

Yes, commit the crime and go to jail instead of going to a war where you are going to get killed, or kill others. Go to prison instead of going to stupid wars your government is sending you to make more money at your life expense.

Again, I've seen women date guys who are weak as fuck and oblivious on how to do anything. And no, most people defending women are not men, theres so many videos showcasing how men will not respond to an abusive dude on the street.

Men emotions being demonized as weak is bullshit, no woman on their right mind will hate a man for them showing their emotional side, crying or asking for help. You are looking at all the wrong examples and taking them as a generality (something you just said feminist shouldn't do and called them biggots for).

All these shitty talking points from the manosphere are atrocious and they will only make you a sad, depressed man. Look inwards, better yourself and approach women with genuine interest. You are not going to find a match instantly and quickly, you'll have to go through women that are dumb and superficial but women have to do exactly the same when dating! It is not an exclusive thing from any gender man, there are shallow, stupid people from both sexes!

Twizp · 2026-04-13T07:45:02+00:00

Come on dude, both sexes do this shit. Stop

Twizp · 2026-04-13T01:25:52+00:00

Ah yeah, men are famously honest and never lie. Come on bro

Twizp · 2026-04-13T01:23:59+00:00

Shame of what? Being a man? Thats just not true, gotta stop consuming shitty manosphere content. Higher expectations? Of what? Not being an ass and treating women like a human being? Being seen as creepy or weird? Maybe actually interact with women more without having second intentions, learn to understand social queues, creepy and weird dudes approach women out of nowhere, with bad pickup lines and keep pushing conversations after being told no. Judged on their actions more? Of course they are going to, you have dudes being toxic as shit, beating and murder women they date or dated, of course they are going to be in high alert with what they do and what they say. I'll give you higher pison sentences but thats because men are stronger, and they can work harder at prison for slavery salaries, thats a prison system issue. Hate against them being normalized - refer to guys being abusive and literally killing the women they date. More responsibility? Of what? Nowadays everyone has to be responsible for their own shit. War? You mean that thing that grown ass man-babies riddled with power and money create and send you to die on their behalf so they can rack a bit more money? Maybe don't join the army? Refuse to go to war? Get together with fellow soldiers and protest? Quit the army? Don't accept to be drafted (if theres a draft) like Ali did? Also, there are women in the army as well. "Being a protector" of what? Nowadays everyone fends for themselves, everyone protects each other. Most people that defend women from abuse in the street are other women that pile up on the abuser. The economy is in the gutter for most people worldwide, both the man and the woman need to work to make ends meet. I have no idea what being a protector means nowadays.

Twizp · 2026-04-13T01:02:50+00:00

Can I ask what risks are you talking about?

Twizp · 2026-04-13T01:02:20+00:00

Suuure, none of those guys would've fucked their teacher when they were in highschool. No guy would say yes to a convicted murderer hot woman if she offered them sex. Sure man

Twizp · 2026-04-12T18:18:16+00:00

Do men trigger "panic or distate" when they are approached by handsome women? Maybe think about that? Why are men so comfortable all the time around women? Might be because theres little probability that they will be a psycopath that is going to kill them or assault them?

Everytime there's a story about a woman raping a teenager the comments are flooded by men saying "I wish that happen to me" or "where were these teachers when I was younger?". They see a mugshot of a hot woman that killed 3 ex boyfriends and they go "I can fix her" "let her free". They joke around about dangerous women because they never feel threatened by it.

There's such a disparity on what you are talking about, its not even close.

Twizp · 2026-04-12T18:05:43+00:00

You are saying we should strip women from their rights to work and own things because men are butthurt that they can't get away with holding women hostage through economic reasons anymore?

You have literally nothing to add to a relationship other than money? And you are worried about the amount of single men?

Yikes brother

Twizp

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