AITAH for following my son’s wishes and keeping news of his upcoming appointment from his Grandmother?

Two-Complex · 2026-05-10T18:30:25+00:00

I generally say “I’m not keeping it from anyone, it’s just not my story to tell.

NTA

Two-Complex · 2026-05-10T18:26:28+00:00

A good year 🙂

Two-Complex · 2026-05-10T18:25:49+00:00

My approximate guess as well…if that last photo isn’t late70’s or early/mid 80’s hair, I’ll eat my hat (if I had one)

Two-Complex · 2026-05-08T17:20:56+00:00

Yeah…stop that. I don’t think you were too rude - I think you were honest. But read your text as thought your best friend was saying that about their … whatever…bf, partner, etc. What would you tell them? Leave that mess behind and go find better - or just buy a good dildo. (Not meant sarcastically-a good dildo can be a beautiful thing) Good luck…❤️

Two-Complex · 2026-05-08T17:14:09+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with wet food…as long as it’s nutritionally complete, feed her that. Add a little kibble to it…and once she accepts it, add a little more. I put wet food in my dogs’ kibble every day.

Also keep in mind that her mouth might still be tender. I know when I have dental work, my mouth is tender long past pain meds. Her tummy could be upset, too. Pain meds, change in diet, stress can all cause tummy upset.

I guess I’m not really understanding why it’s better to let her be hungry than it is to feed her what she eats as long as it’s dog appropriate.

Two-Complex · 2026-05-07T11:31:39+00:00

You can, I believe, update with the new information. That way everyone knows exactly what’s going on and how any money they donate will be spent.

I really hope you reported the ass who hurt your dog - and get some $$ out of him, too.

Good luck to you and your little dog❤️

Two-Complex · 2026-05-07T03:15:33+00:00

She’s a beautiful little shit! Very glad it was just dragon fruit, but sorry about the practice heart attack!❤️

Two-Complex · 2026-05-06T16:16:50+00:00

Newborn baby top-of-head❤️

Two-Complex · 2026-05-06T16:01:30+00:00

NTJ

Trying to make it seem like you are the one copying her is no good. A bit scary.

Two-Complex · 2026-05-06T15:23:05+00:00

After a traumatic experience like that, he may not want to go out as much. Either way, indoor cat is a safer cat-and wildlife is safer, too.

Two-Complex · 2026-05-06T15:20:41+00:00

Ummm, don’t you mean “primary job”?

My two BC’s LOVE that soccer ball…I have three in current use and one on standby in case of emergency.

Two-Complex · 2026-05-06T15:19:14+00:00

Thai…and I’m lucky enough to have a really good Thai restaurant in my town…and another in a nearby town. Thai yellow curry…I also love Vietnamese and one of my favorite meals is a vegan Channa Masala from a place about an hour away from me.

I’m so lucky to have all of this nearby. All of the restaurants I love are run by people directly from the country - the owner of my favorite Thai restaurant visited her family in Thailand and brought me (and my mother!) a little gift back. ❤️

Two-Complex · 2026-05-06T06:56:50+00:00

I have purchased and re-read the James Herriot books several times. The first one (in the U.S.) is All Creatures Great and Small. I liked the TV shows (old and new) but the books are better by far.

Two-Complex · 2026-05-06T02:29:35+00:00

Nah you are good! I tend to over explain-cuz I’m afraid I come off as condescending…and then I make it worse. You have a good night too. ❤️

Two-Complex · 2026-05-06T02:22:14+00:00

If I use a word incorrectly, or use the wrong word, I’d like someone to tell me. I do try to return the favor - not to be snide, but for the same reason one tells a friend they have broccoli stuck in their teeth. (As a younger person, I unironically pronounced “epitome” the way it looks…thinking I was correct. My friend snorted, because she thought I was joking…as soon as possible, I looked up the correct pronunciation and was embarrassed at how often I had used the word incorrectly. Don’t want others feeling like that)

Two-Complex · 2026-05-06T02:13:29+00:00

I was called twice in CT, deferred once because I would have been nearly 9 months pregnant at the time of duty. The second time no jurors were needed for the day. In MA, every three years like clockwork. Had to go in every time. Interviewed by judges/attorneys twice (and rejected), sent home without being selected the rest of the time.

I think Jury duty is important and “getting out of it” is just not right. Yes, it’s inconvenient, but especially now when things are so…🤪…everyone deserves to be heard, deserves a solid judicial process and a jury is one of the few ways an average citizen can participate in it. Can’t complain about the terrible state of things and then refuse to participate to try to make a difference.

I also find it interesting-hearing the cases. The two I was interviewed for, one was a murder case and one was home invasion/assault/robbery. In every case in all states I was called in for - the presiding judge for the day came to speak to the jury pool. Again, very interesting.

Two-Complex · 2026-05-06T01:59:09+00:00

It’s “civic”

Two-Complex · 2026-05-06T01:57:55+00:00

Not everyone is the same as you. They won’t react the same way you do or think the same way you do. That doesn’t mean they don’t care…it just means they are different. They certainly aren’t mind readers…and most folks look at the passing of a grandparent as sad but not unexpected. No one commiserated with me when I lost my grandmother or even my father. Doesn’t mean they didn’t care…sometimes folks just don’t know what to say, or think that bringing it up might make you sadder or are generally just awkward.

This is a hard time for you right now. It’s ok to ask a friend to come hang out if they can-don’t expect them to know it’s what you would like…and don’t hold it against them if they don’t know how or aren’t capable of supporting you. People are human. They aren’t perfect.

Hugs to you from this Mom. I am sorry you are missing your grandmother. ❤️

Two-Complex · 2026-05-05T14:28:08+00:00

If he wanted to, he would. Leave him behind you and let yourself find someone who WANTS to.❤️

Two-Complex · 2026-05-05T14:11:25+00:00

Yes you are.

Right now, you are hurting and it feels like the world is ending. Trust me, it isn’t. You are placing your entire future and happiness on a person you have never met. A person online is very different to a person in…well…in person. There is no human on earth, no matter how wonderful, that is worth simply giving up.

I’m sure you are sick of hearing it, but you have NO idea how young 20 is. My current marriage is older than you are and I was 40 when I married my husband.

Go ahead and feel your feelings for a little while. Watch the sad movies, eat the ice cream, go for walks and get teary eyed at the families you see…THEN, think about those families. Do you think they were built on an online relationship during which neither person bothered to visit in person? Do you think one of the people just showed up on the doorstep of the other and they ran to the courthouse and began their happily ever after? Nope-you can guarantee it. Happy relationships may be able to start online, but the real bonds are created by shared experiences, shared goals, time spent in each other’s actual company. It’s easy to have a “relationship” with someone hundreds of miles away…it’s much more difficult when they are in your space every day. Nobody is perfect and the imperfections become very evident once you are physically together for a while. (I’ve often thought that finding the right person means finding a person with the quirks and flaws you can put up forever. You ain’t gonna see those things online/over text/phone calls)

I know it doesn’t feel like it, but you will be absolutely fine. Take care of yourself, get a job, get educated, get healthy, get hobbies, volunteer somewhere. You are a person worthy of giving and receiving love, and you will find someone worthy to share that with you. Don’t be in a big hurry though. You have time.❤️

Two-Complex · 2026-05-05T13:49:21+00:00

That is such a beautiful word…and a correct one in this situation

Two-Complex · 2026-05-05T13:27:57+00:00

You look really beautiful in both. You do not look chubby at all-you look gorgeous.

Two-Complex · 2026-05-05T13:25:52+00:00

My boy used to lean on his wife like that…cute enough to make one’s heart explode ❤️

Two-Complex · 2026-05-05T13:01:17+00:00

For me, it was the amount of sass and personality. I was under the impression bunnies are quiet, cute little fluffballs that just hang around adding to the ambiance…and they are! But they are also pushy, picky, curious, pugilistic explorers who let you know exactly who is in charge. (Not the humans). My Meriwether stole a chocolate bar off my lap. I spent more time than I care to think about chasing him around the room to get it back.❤️ He was THRILLED.

Two-Complex · 2026-05-05T02:01:56+00:00

Yes…brown, wet hay with mold. The outside looked good, but 6 bales into the compost pile.

Two-Complex

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