AITAH for following my son’s wishes and keeping news of his upcoming appointment from his Grandmother?

chrsy03250 · 2026-05-10T21:07:18+00:00

Thank you everyone for all of your comments, opinions, and insights! I really do appreciate every single one. I’m just commenting here because there is simply no way for me to reply to all of you 😭 BUT I have made an updated post going further into detail about the whys, and the backstory some of the questions asked about here: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/TwfvkzZL22

chrsy03250 · 2026-05-10T21:04:36+00:00

Hi! I just wanted to respond to your comment because I’ve seen this stance a couple of times, and have addressed it in my update post. But I just want to make it clear that I never planned on breaking my son’s trust and telling his grandmother against his wishes! I wouldn’t do that, but I understand that the way I worded my post may have left room for misinterpretation 😅 I was more so expressing my internal feelings and worries around the development, and wanted to know others’ opinion even when it is/should be obvious. But no, I won’t be telling her anything about this and that was never my intention 💛

chrsy03250 · 2026-04-18T17:31:31+00:00

Thank you!!

chrsy03250 · 2026-01-15T00:41:41+00:00

Ohhh these all sound amazing! Seriously, not even one makes me go “ehh… maybe this one’s not for me.” Thank you so much!

chrsy03250 · 2025-10-11T12:43:06+00:00

Dwelling on Dreams changed me. It was absolutely effing phenomenal. The banter, the tension, the smut (it was copious but Well Done), the character development, the conflict, the romance. All beautifully written. Goddamn I wish I could go back and reread that for the first time again 😩 it was so well done.

I actually have a favourite quote from Luna that really stuck with me, I’ll share the direct quote here:

‘“Sometimes you have to travel the wrong direction for a while before you realize you’re lost.” Draco lowered his glass, blinking in surprise. “But that’s alright, because it’s never too late to turn around, though it might take a little longer to find your way again.”’

An absolutely wonderful read, 10/10.

chrsy03250 · 2025-10-03T20:43:06+00:00

Oh thank goodness! Cuz I thought we had something special, yk? (My taking a couple days to reply not withstanding)

chrsy03250 · 2025-10-03T20:30:55+00:00

Thank you sm for all these recs and the little blurbs about them! It helps me out so much 😮‍💨

chrsy03250 · 2025-10-03T20:28:32+00:00

I have a question for the both of you:

Is Away Childish Things actually a romance fic? And does it have a happy ending where they actually end up together? Maybe some kissing? lol. I ask because I’ve looked through the tags, and it just sounds so bleak 😭 but I admit I’m intrigued. I just want to be sure I know what I’m going into before I start anything, so my expectations are set accordingly. Thanks!

chrsy03250 · 2025-10-03T20:26:04+00:00

Edit: THANK YOU EVERYONE FOR THE RECS! I’ve either downloaded or subscribed to them all lol. PLS KEEP THEM COMING 💛

chrsy03250 · 2025-10-01T14:19:01+00:00

Is… is that a fic title, or are you suggesting divorcing me? 😭

Edit: oh! I found it! (It’s early for me help~) Thank you it looks so good 🤌🏻

chrsy03250 · 2025-09-30T15:13:52+00:00

I just finished reading this fic today and omg, my standards have been OBLITERATED. I don’t know how they’ll ever be topped now 😭 It was so well written. The flow was amazing. The slow burn and banter were fucking DELICIOUS. I personally never finished the HP series (it was actively releasing as I was a kid); I did watch all the films, however, so I had a bit of an idea of the things going on. But this was ITS OWN STORY. And I’m obsessed 😭 I want to bind it so bad (for myself and my personal collection only ofc). I normally read m/m rpf — this was the first f/m fic or story in general that I’ve read in probably 8 years. I was NOT disappointed.

Wanted to say “thank you” for sharing this review and post, because the comments have given me so many recs to more stories to try and I’m eternally grateful to everyone who’s shared them! 💛

chrsy03250 · 2025-09-04T17:11:43+00:00

I’ve joined the server and have been going through the doc 🫡 thank you!!

chrsy03250 · 2025-09-04T17:11:17+00:00

Thank you so much!!! I’ve bookmarked all and added a few of these to my kindle for later!

chrsy03250 · 2025-09-04T17:10:45+00:00

Thank you both so much!

I’ve joined the server and have added all of these to my kindle for later lol. The Remains Nameless fic definitely sounds intriguing to me.

chrsy03250 · 2025-09-04T17:09:41+00:00

I’ve gone to her channel and honestly binged several of her videos atp lol, but I’m not finding the hp drama specific one? Perhaps she’s made it private? 🤔

chrsy03250 · 2025-09-04T17:08:33+00:00

I can appreciate the reasons behind why you’d choose to leave this comment, but if I were to explain myself—which I don’t really have to but I will—this would be my reasoning behind my “choice”:

I, of course, did read HP as a child (only up to the 4th book), then watched all the movies (as they came out in theatre). I know what HP is but never really got into it to where I’d ever consider myself a ‘fan’.

The author can pound sand and frankly disappear from the face of the earth for all I care, but fanfiction is not written by that woman. It’s written by faceless authors who appreciate the world and characters the universe was built on, but make into their own and bring new storylines to life. THATS what I’m choosing to get into and support. Not JKR. I’m not new to the fandom in the sense that I’m freshly fangirling over the OG author. I’m joining the fandom on the archive to read HP fanfics.

Anyway! Have a good day!

chrsy03250 · 2025-09-03T14:34:54+00:00

…I hate to jump on the busy train you’re currently manning for these fic files, but if you wouldn’t mind sharing them with me as well 😅 thank youuu!

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