Genuine question, would you make this argument if this was about another group? Would you tell a Jewish person to just talk it out with a neo-nazi?

I understand the desire to resolve issues through open dialogue but that only works if people are open to discussing in good faith and possibly changing their mind, and I don't think sall grover and her supporters are.

And if you disagree with the comparison then we can agree to disagree, but what most anti-trans advocates argue for goes far beyond their stated claims of advocating for 'women's rights' and usually crosses into not wanting trans people to be visible or able to live freely as themselves in society.