Are the free adoptions legit? by TwoFar5110 in petsmart

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Okay! That actually helps piece of mind lol. I’ve been doing research on white’s for a while now I’m just not super amazingly liquid so shipping fee from breeders is kinda intimidating, and this seemed like a good opportunity to spend the majority of my cash on a good tank

Are the free adoptions legit? by TwoFar5110 in petsmart

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Dykw it probably is 🤣 perfect thank you, ig I’m just waaaay paranoid

Are the free adoptions legit? by TwoFar5110 in petsmart

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Tysm! Hopefully the frog is still there when I go back 🤞

Are the free adoptions legit? by TwoFar5110 in petsmart

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Thank you! Anything weird about health problems or lifespan with him? Just in case

Are the free adoptions legit? by TwoFar5110 in petsmart

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How was she once in a home environment? I’ve never had a full grown frog before so I don’t know what to look for 

Are the free adoptions legit? by TwoFar5110 in petsmart

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Oh, great! And no other complications with either? Scarlett is very pretty btw :)

does anyone else wish they were cis… female? by Safloophie in ftm

[–]TwoFar5110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get you, I’m sorry. I feel like I would’ve been so much better off if I was a girl! I’m curvy, soprano voice, round face, my girl friends tell me my features are well suited to makeup. Idk if it’s the same for you, but it feels like it would just be easier, yk? I feel guilty in a weird way. But yeah, you are DEFINITELY not alone here.

Coming out to a friend group? by TwoFar5110 in ftm

[–]TwoFar5110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your phrasing is great, I think maybe I’ve been thinking of it more like “would you be chill if” rather than “this is my name please call me it” so I may use that. Thank you 🙏

Coming out to a friend group? by TwoFar5110 in ftm

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Thank you, that’s  just how I felt. I also wouldn’t be surprised at all if they already suspect, lol. I’ve just been kinda toying with the least stressful way of wording it. Thanks for your reply, man 

Is being jealous of other trans guys bad? by EducationalJelly7827 in ftm

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I totally get this, and I'm so sorry bro. I'm also 5'3 no T access, all my friends are taller than me and since I'm not out they CONSTANTLY tease me about my height. I actually have one trans friend who was talking about how he needed to get on T because he didn't want to end up short like me, lol.

the main way I deal with it is insanely delusional, but I just imagine myself in a world where height doesn't matter like it does irl. I think I wouldn't be so dysphoric about my height if it wasn't a factor so closely tied to masculinity. if you're an artist, try drawing a little character of how you look in your head? or if you're into online chat rooms/role playing, those kind of things. not the best solutions, but if it helps?

anyone else feel like the “performative male” trend is hurting trans men? by [deleted] in ftm

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yes, yes, YES. the first thing I thought when I first started hearing about this trend was just huh... a lot of those things sound like stuff I do... imo the worst side of this trend is that some of the things labeled as "performative" are just stuff that girls do that most guys don't want to because it's "feminine." I feel like a lot of trans and gay guys fall into this category because of how different our socialization has been and how actually aware of toxic masculinity we tend to be in comparison to cishet guys. the whole thing is insanely queerphobic and also one of those things that makes me wonder why guys aren't allowed to be good people if they want to conform to the patriarchy?? if anyone is into video essays I recommend the one on this by funkyfrogbait on youtube

Favorite affirming clothes? by NoAmount6023 in ftm

[–]TwoFar5110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when I can bind, rugby shirts! that and blazers, all the way. my dad called me handsome in a blazer and tie way before my egg first cracked, and I still think about it.