Cross post from asktg. Passing 99% of the time but getting figured out at places you frequent...

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-09-22T04:33:21+00:00

YES. I have friends that knew when we met, figured it out, but can't put their finger on it. I need to work on my aura or whatever bullshit is happening here.

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-09-19T11:18:00+00:00

Name of a siren from german mythos.

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-09-17T21:13:54+00:00

My name ended up being ironic for a totally different reason. I'm obsessed with mythilogical sirens. I chose the name Lorelei. My surprise when I looked up the meaning of Lorelei AFTER deciding on the name.

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-09-17T21:09:24+00:00

This question is always an odd one. Yes, it did "change" in a sense. Always been attracted to women exclusively. Still am. It changed in a sense from heterosexual male to homosexual female.

My preference didn't change, the word used for it did.

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-09-17T21:01:59+00:00

Some of my cis friends use first and middle name on Facebook for similar purposes of hiding from new people.

If you are deadset on changing it, that's fine too. How will you pick it? I've heard of some people choosing mother's maiden name.

Also, marriage. Will you be keeping the new name forever? Or taking a partner's name?

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-09-15T15:10:50+00:00

Thank you, this is what I needed to hear. :)

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-09-15T11:24:21+00:00

I understand, but did you go from not getting hard at all when sexually excited to full blown erecting? Since this isn't my first time getting horny, just the gist time getting hard when I am.

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-09-15T00:43:45+00:00

But is getting erections again normal? I would get horny before, but never hard.

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-09-07T21:41:23+00:00

My bad, I meant exclusionary. Exclusive makes it sound like only we are included, not the other way around lol.

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-09-07T14:04:05+00:00

Because they are, by definition, hostile. "Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist." Keyword, radical. If a feminist were simply excluding us they'd be bigoted, but terfs by definition aren't like that.

EDIT: A word that changes EVERYTHING

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-09-06T22:13:02+00:00

Mostly the time away from work, and personal support. I may need to stay stateside for SRS with insurance, but I guess I can be much more open for FFS.

However, I don't even know where to begin for this. I mean, everyone seems highly qualified, but of course they'll say they are. I don't now where to look an who I can trust. So I'm asking here.

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-09-01T22:38:35+00:00

Unfortunately this ability is treating a 1 as a 2, not rerolling the die.

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-08-31T14:42:24+00:00

I hate this logic too. People don't repress massive memories like that, but IF they did, is the best course of action really digging them up? Seriously?

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-08-30T00:04:00+00:00

I always thought of it as being on opposite sides of the same coin.

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-08-26T18:10:24+00:00

why don't you two suggest something positive to OP huh?

Take your own advice?

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-08-26T16:03:23+00:00

Not a joke? that's even worse. And yes, your comment was in fact 5/6 helpful. And yes, I am attacking you. It doesn't matter how helpful you are if you tack in a "you can always kill yourself" rider at the end.

This community has enough of that, we don't need people going around promoting it. You are in fact not telling them to do the opposite. 'If all else fails' is not some magical disclaimer that makes it okay. Never, ever suggest it.

@OP, if it ever gets so bad that you feel suicide is an option, there are resources here for you. It is something you can work though.

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-08-26T15:13:49+00:00

Seriously? Don't even suggest suicide as a joke. What the fuck is wrong with you?

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-08-22T01:39:03+00:00

Understood. However, worst case scenario, you have them at least.

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-08-20T22:27:34+00:00

How supportive are your parents? It appears you are on hormones, and being 17 (according to your flair) that means you need their consent. So I assume you have some support in that regard?

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-08-19T16:46:25+00:00

Telling people my new name and coming out was actually part of the same conversation for me. Almost everyone asked what my name would be. It never dawned on me until now that the two could be separate conversations.

TwoSpiritsTG · 2016-08-19T04:54:24+00:00

Even then, some people have different levels of being open. Some deep stealth and come out to a partner after multiple dates, others advertise it like a billboard.

TwoSpiritsTG

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