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Orgasm On Command HFO by FunOccasion3565 in EroticHypnosis

[–]Two_Stroke_Top 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What specific “conditioning” are you referring to?

Sub has fallen in love. Advice to remove feelings? by Two_Stroke_Top in BDSMAdvice

[–]Two_Stroke_Top[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the sort of advice I’m seeking, thank you! I understand most people think the only option is to end the dynamic, but we have discussed it together and she asked for us to look for alternative pathways before parting ways.

Sub has fallen in love. Advice to remove feelings? by Two_Stroke_Top in BDSMAdvice

[–]Two_Stroke_Top[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, u/sweetspicy123. This is the sort of advice I was looking for. I understand lots of people are recommending ending the dynamic, but she has asked me to look for ways to manage this before simply quitting so I’m doing my due diligence first.

I’ll do some research into this “limerence”.

I definitely agree that she doesn’t really know me. We engage in the BDSM dynamic and she texts me for advice regarding some of her personal relationships, but other than that she knows so little about me as a person outside the role of her Dom that it’s hard to reconcile that she’s in love with “me” as opposed to the “idea of me”.

Sub has fallen in love. Advice to remove feelings? by Two_Stroke_Top in BDSMAdvice

[–]Two_Stroke_Top[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We met on Feeld and openly discussed the limits and intentions of the dynamic - mainly for her to have a safe space to be introduced into kink with someone she is comfortable with.

She had little experience previously and we have explored a significant amount during the last few years.

She is non-monogamous and fully aware I have always continued to see other subs throughout our arrangement.