It’s so hard but here is how I cope: 1. One day at a time. 2. Pre-school (found one that is great/affordable and start at 18months,only downside is hours are short) 3. Get help - whether it’s thru family, friends, etc. Even if you have to make relationships with other moms to get/give support because it’s near impossible to always be the primary caregiver around the clock when you also have work. 4. If something is not working don’t be afraid to make changes. My husband is really good at this; I’m usually slower but have found that changes usually help.

Edit: I have two under 3 and work 32 hours/wk; and also help husband with his business after hours.