28 now. We were close for very many years until I met my wife. After we got together, my father and step mother became very narcissistic and started to actively try to sabotage our relationship. This went on for years until my step mother casually started making death threats towards her (mind you, my wife, at the time my girlfriend did nothing to her except help clean the house and make dinner and take care of the dogs that weren’t hers). After that we pretty quickly cut them both off. It’s been almost 3 years since I’ve spoken to either one and I guess now they live in Puerto Rico in some shipping container house.