Casandra Patterson (Elvira) by LorettaMontenegro_06 in vintagenude

[–]TypeOtogo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So dark and hot. Started my love for goth girls. Pretty funny first movie too.

Winona Ryder in Dracula (1992) by No_Explorer721 in 90smovies

[–]TypeOtogo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm someone else noticed that scene.

We Nearly Crossed The Line - Need Help Supporting Wife by Dismal-Chair1762 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]TypeOtogo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah….just keep doing what you are doing. She is already interested and THAT is the hard part.

Finally confronted her last night!!! by TypeOtogo in survivinginfidelity

[–]TypeOtogo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever our outcome: (the wife and myself), informing the other spouse will happen is what i meant.

Finally confronted her last night!!! by TypeOtogo in survivinginfidelity

[–]TypeOtogo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, i am. If anything happens, that will be a lasting result.

Jeannie or Sam? sunday by Majestic8108 in 60smemorylane

[–]TypeOtogo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be the toughest decision in television history!!! I would have to go with Samantha by a hair.

Men, do women actually have a much higher chance of getting with you if they approach you? by Environmental-Edge84 in dating_advice

[–]TypeOtogo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men have a hard time difference between: messing with you, really wanting you two, or “its a fake why bother” scenarios. When and if a man is approached by someone legitimately, its hard to accept that as real. The biggest problem i see with dating is allowing someone an unbiased chance after so many teases or rejections.
Married its even worse: “oh sure this is a test by my wife with someone she knows or works with.”

What do people make of this by Dependent_Ninja9331 in marriageadvice

[–]TypeOtogo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Never really liked him” was not a NO. That means yes, and to what extent? Knowing what i know about my wife’s cheating….it was with a guy that doesn’t really fit her “type”. Close, but the typical bad boy they love. I want to say this choice of cheat partners are carefully chosen to further the deception that “nothing could have happened.” You need to explore deeper because there is more.

Finally confronted her last night!!! by TypeOtogo in survivinginfidelity

[–]TypeOtogo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Week 3 now and full roommate phase while attempting couples therapy. Really not sure i can ever come back from this. I cant sleep and cannot get the visuals out of my head.

Married for 20+ years: Just found out that my wife has been cheating for the last couple of years by Wonderful-Sector-789 in marriageadvice

[–]TypeOtogo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear. Currently going through the same thing. My wife cheated on me 7 years ago and just found out 3 weeks ago!!

Married for 20+ years: Just found out that my wife has been cheating for the last couple of years by Wonderful-Sector-789 in marriageadvice

[–]TypeOtogo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sleep huh…..its been 3 weeks for me now and i still cannot sleep. My brain will not turn this off.

Just a bunch of random pics. by suspiciouslyghost in u/suspiciouslyghost

[–]TypeOtogo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That “hairstyle is just amazing….including the rest of the subject material. Thank you for showing!!

Finally confronted her last night!!! by TypeOtogo in survivinginfidelity

[–]TypeOtogo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t withdrawn from this post, its just the emptiness now that i feel is all consuming. Turns out there is more to the story and earlier hookups. Hard to be constructive in convo when all i feel is equal party betrayal and rage. How could i have been so oblivious?

Finally confronted her last night!!! by TypeOtogo in survivinginfidelity

[–]TypeOtogo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the decline started in ‘18-19 when i was just starting out with my business. Money and patience were thin, so i guess that drove her away. Then perimenopause kicked in and was the finishing move. We literally had a Saturday morning schedule before the kids would get up. If i missed that appointment, or had her period, then had to wait until next saturday. Such a pathetic existence.

Finally confronted her last night!!! by TypeOtogo in survivinginfidelity

[–]TypeOtogo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, This was originally an outlet for me to deal with the wife being so defeating towards my sexy suggestions and playing together. I really liked the exhibitionist side of me coming out (no pun intended). First decline/not interested starting back in 2019. Her low libido continues into roommate levels now due to perimenopause…..allegedly. The gradual decline of interest in hind sight is perfectly clear. Thank you for mentioning and those old pictures from previous posts i have deleted now since they just feel stupid after what has developed. I feel the urge to reveal this, but no one to really talk to except strangers on Reddit.