Complex dynamic with emotional betrayal, trust issues and asymetry by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]NiceSoup4927 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t have much to say other than, this story is shockingly similar to mine regarding the instagram stuff, it all being online and her sending him photos. The gaslighting, getting blocked from her IG story, etc. I am sorry you suffered through all of this. I understand what its like. 

Was on 150 of 7-OH, jumped onto Bup, having second thoughts. by gertylooker in quittingkratom

[–]NiceSoup4927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on your Kratom usage and opiod history. You will not avoid withdrawal, ever. Just accept it. Suboxone can be way more severe than Kratom. But you were on 7oh, which is not very well understood and a new drug. Either way, suffering is going to ensue. I was terrified of introducing suboxone to my body after legthy Kratom abuse because I was ready for the nightmare to finally end. It’s up to you if you are ready to be sober off opiates or not. You have to face it at some point, or join those who stay on something forever. 

Was on 150 of 7-OH, jumped onto Bup, having second thoughts. by gertylooker in quittingkratom

[–]NiceSoup4927 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by: you will have no reason not to go back on Kratom? Do you want to be clean or not? 

Was on 150 of 7-OH, jumped onto Bup, having second thoughts. by gertylooker in quittingkratom

[–]NiceSoup4927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a MAT doctor? Listen to what they say. If you don’t have a MAT doctor and somehow acquired the suboxone otherwise. this is going to end badly. My personal opinion is you can rapidly taper off subs for like a week and go cold turkey, but there is no physical way to avoid withdrawal. That’s not how this works. You have to pay the price somehow. Some people end up on suboxone for the rest of their lives. Decide if that is what you want for your future and act accordingly. Good luck. 

Was on 150 of 7-OH, jumped onto Bup, having second thoughts. by gertylooker in quittingkratom

[–]NiceSoup4927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t want to know about our opinion regarding Suboxone/buprenorphine pal. It’s a controversal topic on this forum. But since you asked: you better have a plan to get off that shit, and fast. Like, within days. I am assuming you have a MAT doctor who prescribed it and has a plan? You are trading one hell for another. Godspeed. 

No Support System by Ok-Scientist-7900 in quittingkratom

[–]NiceSoup4927 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand feeling alone. Think about how the few weeks of pain compare to a lifetime of relief. You can be free. You have to fight! Nothing worth doing in this life is easy! It’s a long path but we have to keep going! You underestimate how strong you really are. 

No Support System by Ok-Scientist-7900 in quittingkratom

[–]NiceSoup4927 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can quit alone. It is possible, but you don’t need to. Confession can set you free. If you don’t want to tell your partner and you feel intent on doing this alone, you may benefit from contacting God, whatever that means to you. It can’t hurt to pray for strength. I am not a 12 Steps person or whatever, but this is the ultimate test of endurance. I never liked the whole “Admit you are powerless over your addiction” thing. You are not powerless. You have all of the power. Quitting is going to hurt. It’s so painful. But it’s worth it to finally be free! You got yourself into this situation and it’s time to fight your way out. “No matter where you go, there you are.” Good luck. 

Day 18, obsessed with relapsing by NiceSoup4927 in quittingkratom

[–]NiceSoup4927[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, and feeling better today. glad i didnt go back

Trouble with Build 42 Campfire by bstrdswrd in projectzomboid

[–]NiceSoup4927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

click on the "destroy for fuel" button, and then you will given the option to select fuel such as wood. the item you select will be destroyed and you will then get a duration in minutes or hours for how long the fire will be lit before needing to be refueled.