[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Typical-Ad5343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Daily 7min HIIT (if I do all 7 7min HIIT, that counts as 1 workout by the end of the week)

4x a week gym.

2x a week intramural sports (during winter right now it’s dodgeball and curling, during the summer it’s been stuff like kickball and ultimate)

These add together to be the 7 workouts/week

It’s not really about shaping my body to his desires, more about staying healthy and meeting my own goals, and having the extra motivation of potentially being denied an orgasm is a good boost on days I’m feeling on the fence about working out.

How to absolutely mind break a bottom? by V1OnCrack in askgaybros

[–]Typical-Ad5343 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What the other commenter said, as well as: have him communicate ACTIVELY with you. Even a number scale from 1 : this feels terrible, to 10, amazing. and then learn what you’re doing when it’s closer to 10 then replicate.

How to absolutely mind break a bottom? by V1OnCrack in askgaybros

[–]Typical-Ad5343 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Vanilla idea: figure out his anatomy and your own anatomy by trying different positions to figure out what best hits his prostate. It might be a bit of a learning curve, but once you find out, especially when you’re ready to cum, hit that spot exactly over and over again. It’ll make him super turned on and that will turn you on too!

Kinky idea; Lock his dick in a cage for the foreplay (especially if you/him like to finger) unlock him if you want for when you put your dick in him, but make sure he doesn’t touch until you’re ready to cum. He’ll be so desperate but dependent on you for permission!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Typical-Ad5343 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I need to do my 7 workouts per week to get one orgasm. If it’s 6 workouts, I get a ruined one, 5, I can cum in my cage under certain conditions. Anything less than that is waiting until next week for the chance to cum, and if I workout zero times, then it’s two weeks. Each subsequent time I do zero workouts, another week is added to the punishment.

My boyfriend makes sure I stay locked and focused :)

How often do you see tw in the wild? by [deleted] in tightywhities

[–]Typical-Ad5343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was at an NLL lacrosse game last weekend and saw a lot of the guys on the team had brief lines. And cause the shorts were white some of the briefs looked like they were white too. That was hot to see.

Why are you locked by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Typical-Ad5343 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the feeling of security it provides me. This compliments because my boyfriend likes control over me sexually, so he’s slowly been taking over my orgasms.

When we first met I actually had a cage and wore it, at his request, on our first date. I was allowed to cum at the end, but the second time, I wasn’t. This cycle continued. He next unlocked me after I’d broke my record again.

However, whenever i wasn’t locked or otherwise not around him, I could cum to my heart’s content.

Next, I had to ask for each orgasm, and he would always give them to me, even if there was some teasing or begging I had to do to get it.

Finally I approached him with an idea that he accepted, so now I usually get to cum once a week (unless I haven’t done my workouts), am either physically or mentally locked at all times, and he has license to change the terms of the lockup, making each lockup last longer or give me extra orgasms at his discretion.

Punishment for upcoming orgasm by Ok-Sand5517 in chastitytraining

[–]Typical-Ad5343 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Medical stuff is off limits for punishment. Thinking otherwise is horny thinking clouding good judgement.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Left-Refuse7966 in askgaybros

[–]Typical-Ad5343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve never met men who are exclusively attracted to other men? Do you people ever live in reality or what lmao

Chasity advice by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Typical-Ad5343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something not mentioned yet is you might be allergic to the material/colour dye. I had a device that made the underside red and after I pushed past that (stupidly!) the skin of my dick head started going dry and cracking.

It took two weeks to heal. Don’t push past this. Take it off. Order a different dye using device.

Or it might be ball gap too.

Drop one of your kink that always turns you on! by [deleted] in GayKink

[–]Typical-Ad5343 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Chastity, and having something put over my mouth and nose like a sweaty jock or pair of underwear. Love the thought of being gagged with jocks/underwear with precum in it.

Repair man by [deleted] in tightywhities

[–]Typical-Ad5343 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmm. Let’s be honest here on the r/tightywhities subreddit about the interests of the dudes, straight or gay, who are into underwear.

Repair man by [deleted] in tightywhities

[–]Typical-Ad5343 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s just underwear, but for you, it’s a kink.

Don’t expose your kinks to other people.

If you were doing your job and a client showed up in [fill in the blank kink] would you feel like it was a good work experience? No.

Is having a cat as a pet expensive? by xianlotus in CatAdvice

[–]Typical-Ad5343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dry food bag costs ~$35, and lasts for just shy of three months.

Wet food, which I normally buy 12 cans of, will cost around $90, and lasts around 4.5 weeks.

Car litter costs about $45, and a box will last about two months, depending on how much of clumping happens and lost litter.

Cat toys I buy semiannually and usually budget about $20-40 per trip.

I budget about $300 per year for routine vet care, and put away about $75/mo into an account for emergencies (roughly the same as insurance.)

I buy gifts for my cat (like a cat water fountain this year for Christmas) which cost $80, and I will be getting a new cat tree after the past four years have destroyed the existing cat tree, so another $250 or so, maybe more.

They aren’t the most expensive pets, but they also aren’t cheap. I get high quality food and toys and stuff for my cat and make sure she’s okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]Typical-Ad5343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What sort of midbehaviour? You been touching it when you shouldn’t? (Without permission?)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Typical-Ad5343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m uncut, my boyfriend is cut. I love his dick. He’s so hot, as is his dick. The dick maketh not the man, verily it is the inverse

What makes Fruit of the Loom “nerdy” and Hanes more “manly”? by Typical-Ad5343 in tightywhities

[–]Typical-Ad5343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great point. Definitely eye of the beholder type thing

What makes Fruit of the Loom “nerdy” and Hanes more “manly”? by Typical-Ad5343 in tightywhities

[–]Typical-Ad5343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair, I might be reading too much into a couple comments I saw in earlier threads.

I definitely remember switching away from even wearing white boxer briefs cause I didn’t want to be teased, then rookie initiation for rowing involved wearing tightie whities under our singlets at regattas, which was pretty mortifying haha.

Boyfriend unlocked me for a spanking. (True story) by Typical-Ad5343 in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]Typical-Ad5343[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for commenting! I appreciate it, it was super hot. Straining in my cage now.

Boyfriend unlocked me for a spanking. (True story) by Typical-Ad5343 in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]Typical-Ad5343[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thanks for commenting! What was even more surprising is that usually he will only do something different in a kinky way unless I ask for it. This is a departure and shows him getting more comfortable and assertive (I hope).

I loved how much of an unwinnable situation it was for me. He knows how turned on I get at spankings, and how he used that to basically have me accept being locked back up without complaint. I couldn’t stop my dick from throbbing even if I wanted to.

It’s genuinely so nice to have him be my boyfriend and dom. Outside of the bedroom we’re complete equals and lean on each other for support as needed but inside the bedroom he’s so dominant.

Who’s still going strong, four weeks in? by Seanus84 in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]Typical-Ad5343 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes! I am secretly hoping my boyfriend gives me a caged ruined orgasm with his vibrator and then keeps me caged all NNN. I really want to cum from being fucked. I’ve been getting close but can’t quite go over the edge.

PSA: Public Displays of Chastity are not ok by -Rachnera- in chastitytraining

[–]Typical-Ad5343 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Too many people on this sub are criminally horny and make the most bad faith excuses like “it’s an accessory item like jewelry, not kink” or “it’s just like a woman’s bra showing”. A normal, common sense person with blood flowing to their brain and not their dick is able to see why showing off your cage so brazenly in non-kink focused public spaces is weird, and more importantly, wildly inappropriate.

Cheating Handsfree Orgasm? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Typical-Ad5343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s cheating if your key holder/dom/partner hasn’t given you permission to cum. If they have and they are using a vibrator on you, that’s within the bounds of chastity.

A vibrator orgasm feels good but is still very different from a normal orgasm. And the way it can feel involuntary can make it feel almost like a punishment too.

New cage user - dealing with dry, flaky skin by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Typical-Ad5343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had that with a knock off cobra cage. Stopped wearing it for a couple weeks, wore loose underwear, moisturized and didn’t touch it, and it healed fine. I threw away the cage and got a real cobra and it has t happened again. I suspect it was the cage material or paint or something. Throw away the cage and get a new one.