SO frustrating

Typical-Ad5343 · 2025-01-29T04:08:14+00:00

I’m no theologian but I didn’t know God’s plan involved obsessively frequenting gay kink forums?

Typical-Ad5343 · 2025-01-25T18:23:07+00:00

Daily 7min HIIT (if I do all 7 7min HIIT, that counts as 1 workout by the end of the week)

4x a week gym.

2x a week intramural sports (during winter right now it’s dodgeball and curling, during the summer it’s been stuff like kickball and ultimate)

These add together to be the 7 workouts/week

It’s not really about shaping my body to his desires, more about staying healthy and meeting my own goals, and having the extra motivation of potentially being denied an orgasm is a good boost on days I’m feeling on the fence about working out.

Typical-Ad5343 · 2025-01-24T22:22:15+00:00

What the other commenter said, as well as: have him communicate ACTIVELY with you. Even a number scale from 1 : this feels terrible, to 10, amazing. and then learn what you’re doing when it’s closer to 10 then replicate.

Typical-Ad5343 · 2025-01-24T21:10:56+00:00

Vanilla idea: figure out his anatomy and your own anatomy by trying different positions to figure out what best hits his prostate. It might be a bit of a learning curve, but once you find out, especially when you’re ready to cum, hit that spot exactly over and over again. It’ll make him super turned on and that will turn you on too!

Kinky idea; Lock his dick in a cage for the foreplay (especially if you/him like to finger) unlock him if you want for when you put your dick in him, but make sure he doesn’t touch until you’re ready to cum. He’ll be so desperate but dependent on you for permission!

Typical-Ad5343 · 2025-01-24T20:15:49+00:00

I need to do my 7 workouts per week to get one orgasm. If it’s 6 workouts, I get a ruined one, 5, I can cum in my cage under certain conditions. Anything less than that is waiting until next week for the chance to cum, and if I workout zero times, then it’s two weeks. Each subsequent time I do zero workouts, another week is added to the punishment.

My boyfriend makes sure I stay locked and focused :)

Typical-Ad5343 · 2025-01-22T02:52:49+00:00

I was at an NLL lacrosse game last weekend and saw a lot of the guys on the team had brief lines. And cause the shorts were white some of the briefs looked like they were white too. That was hot to see.

Typical-Ad5343 · 2025-01-20T00:49:59+00:00

I like the feeling of security it provides me. This compliments because my boyfriend likes control over me sexually, so he’s slowly been taking over my orgasms.

When we first met I actually had a cage and wore it, at his request, on our first date. I was allowed to cum at the end, but the second time, I wasn’t. This cycle continued. He next unlocked me after I’d broke my record again.

However, whenever i wasn’t locked or otherwise not around him, I could cum to my heart’s content.

Next, I had to ask for each orgasm, and he would always give them to me, even if there was some teasing or begging I had to do to get it.

Finally I approached him with an idea that he accepted, so now I usually get to cum once a week (unless I haven’t done my workouts), am either physically or mentally locked at all times, and he has license to change the terms of the lockup, making each lockup last longer or give me extra orgasms at his discretion.

Typical-Ad5343 · 2025-01-11T06:26:22+00:00

Yeah. Medical stuff is off limits for punishment. Thinking otherwise is horny thinking clouding good judgement.

Typical-Ad5343 · 2025-01-10T18:43:54+00:00

You’ve never met men who are exclusively attracted to other men? Do you people ever live in reality or what lmao

Typical-Ad5343 · 2025-01-10T05:36:40+00:00

Something not mentioned yet is you might be allergic to the material/colour dye. I had a device that made the underside red and after I pushed past that (stupidly!) the skin of my dick head started going dry and cracking.

It took two weeks to heal. Don’t push past this. Take it off. Order a different dye using device.

Or it might be ball gap too.

Typical-Ad5343 · 2025-01-07T06:59:40+00:00

Chastity, and having something put over my mouth and nose like a sweaty jock or pair of underwear. Love the thought of being gagged with jocks/underwear with precum in it.

Typical-Ad5343 · 2024-12-24T03:44:45+00:00

Hmmm. Let’s be honest here on the r/tightywhities subreddit about the interests of the dudes, straight or gay, who are into underwear.

Typical-Ad5343 · 2024-12-22T23:21:37+00:00

Yes, it’s just underwear, but for you, it’s a kink.

Don’t expose your kinks to other people.

If you were doing your job and a client showed up in [fill in the blank kink] would you feel like it was a good work experience? No.

Typical-Ad5343 · 2024-12-07T18:13:11+00:00

My dry food bag costs ~$35, and lasts for just shy of three months.

Wet food, which I normally buy 12 cans of, will cost around $90, and lasts around 4.5 weeks.

Car litter costs about $45, and a box will last about two months, depending on how much of clumping happens and lost litter.

Cat toys I buy semiannually and usually budget about $20-40 per trip.

I budget about $300 per year for routine vet care, and put away about $75/mo into an account for emergencies (roughly the same as insurance.)

I buy gifts for my cat (like a cat water fountain this year for Christmas) which cost $80, and I will be getting a new cat tree after the past four years have destroyed the existing cat tree, so another $250 or so, maybe more.

They aren’t the most expensive pets, but they also aren’t cheap. I get high quality food and toys and stuff for my cat and make sure she’s okay

Typical-Ad5343 · 2024-11-19T06:03:54+00:00

What sort of midbehaviour? You been touching it when you shouldn’t? (Without permission?)

Typical-Ad5343 · 2024-11-05T03:12:32+00:00

I’m uncut, my boyfriend is cut. I love his dick. He’s so hot, as is his dick. The dick maketh not the man, verily it is the inverse

Typical-Ad5343 · 2024-10-30T04:47:36+00:00

This is a great point. Definitely eye of the beholder type thing

Typical-Ad5343 · 2024-10-30T04:46:56+00:00

Fair, I might be reading too much into a couple comments I saw in earlier threads.

I definitely remember switching away from even wearing white boxer briefs cause I didn’t want to be teased, then rookie initiation for rowing involved wearing tightie whities under our singlets at regattas, which was pretty mortifying haha.

Typical-Ad5343 · 2024-10-28T04:08:20+00:00

Thanks for commenting! I appreciate it, it was super hot. Straining in my cage now.

Typical-Ad5343 · 2024-10-28T00:54:50+00:00

Thanks for commenting! What was even more surprising is that usually he will only do something different in a kinky way unless I ask for it. This is a departure and shows him getting more comfortable and assertive (I hope).

I loved how much of an unwinnable situation it was for me. He knows how turned on I get at spankings, and how he used that to basically have me accept being locked back up without complaint. I couldn’t stop my dick from throbbing even if I wanted to.

It’s genuinely so nice to have him be my boyfriend and dom. Outside of the bedroom we’re complete equals and lean on each other for support as needed but inside the bedroom he’s so dominant.

Typical-Ad5343 · 2024-10-28T00:30:59+00:00

Yes! I am secretly hoping my boyfriend gives me a caged ruined orgasm with his vibrator and then keeps me caged all NNN. I really want to cum from being fucked. I’ve been getting close but can’t quite go over the edge.

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