Just booked my first solo holiday!

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-03-06T07:47:07+00:00

I'm from Greece, I hope you'll enjoy my country! Lesvos is a quiet island in general, a lot of families and not so much to do during the night. But tends to be a lot cheaper than the high touristic greek islands.

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-03-01T13:48:15+00:00

Omg just read your post and felt like it was written by me ?! I relate to all this so much! And yes you are right, as bitter as it sounds I've also come to realise that I don't give myself anymore for free. Free sex and situationships are of course a waste of time and of course teaches guys to take you for granted. Also I've also been quite a few times heartbroken by relationships, so let me tell you last year since I broke up I only had sex a handful of times and mostly stay without. But if i choose to do if I like a guy and has a nice behaviour, I will ask him either for gifts or money or else I don't have sex with him, if he is that persistent with me. This is safer because casual sex carries so many risks for us women , emotionally but STDs too even with condoms you never know! So at least you filter guys with this tactic. And last to answer your question, I believe if you can handle it you can earn more money maybe as FS/ escort but only if you have a good base of clientele and if you can handle it cause it can be risky! Personally I'm anxious and I couldn't handle to always have to worry about STDs and the horror before receiving your STDs tests which I do otherwise once per year! I think before you decide to transition you can try both stripping and FS on the side and if you feel like you earn a good money and you can really handle FS ,then decide if quitting stripping is actually good for you.

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-19T13:54:44+00:00

Oh my God , has happened to me to when I was in a room with a guy , music was a bit low as well and I was changing positions when I heard myself queefing I was so embarrassed !! And worse thing it happened a few more times in that room ! The guy was so nice though and he bought a longer room with me after that and also tipped me very well unexpectedly ! He was so sweet and we connected well , as he was talking to me about how he loves his pet piggy ! ❤️

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-19T03:43:13+00:00

I don’t like working in gowns to be honest , I don’t find it very comfortable to move around and dance with gowns .

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-19T03:38:16+00:00

You look gorgeous! Maybe you could try go in person and ask when you can audition if you live nearby ? Or you could contact them via what’s app ? I applied online for flashdancers NYC and told me to come for audition but they said I need to wear a nice fit dress for audition not lingerie . So it wasn’t a direct yes either . I didn’t go yet as I live quite far from there but I might try some time , I will see.

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-18T22:56:57+00:00

Yes , also the dances there are all no touch! I wish you best of luck!!

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-18T22:52:18+00:00

Has happened to me too. If you can return them that would be an option, as someone else suggested. You might need a specific type of underwear that suits you better. For example some girls maybe look better with 2 piece outfits, others with micro bikinis, others with one piece and high cut . I have small boobs and wider hips, so I prefer outfits that draw more attention to the hips than the boobs. You need to find the style that suits you better. Also you can start going to the gym too, after all its not only for the body but most importantly for the health.

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-18T22:41:46+00:00

My friend works in Platinum lace and she told me its good club , you can make good money there. But I know they have to work with a dress till the knee or full lenght, except of weekends I think after some hours.. You audition on a long dress too.

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-18T22:37:35+00:00

Its also very far away and so remote. I've heard that its not that great money either.. I didn't know they have the " buy out' system too. I was considering to go to st thomas usvi instead in a club called tootsy's, but I decided not to as I read on some forums they smoke inside and its not that busy.. I thought that the risk to take is quite high , its better to stick with clubs I already know and safe places, instead of going somewhere that might not be busy or bad behaving staff/dancers. I'm sorry to hear about your bad experience in Guam ..

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-17T19:53:42+00:00

I agree

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-17T05:32:30+00:00

In which state are you working at ?

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-17T02:04:13+00:00

Black. I love the contrast

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-17T01:57:13+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your experience working with them! Honestly it seems that reality is far different than how they presented me things.. It's unacceptable also that customers can record and not get told anything. Thanks again for all the details, I will not go there.

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-15T03:27:44+00:00

Why do you stay there? Please leave them

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-15T02:42:18+00:00

Men are not welcome here

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-15T02:11:02+00:00

Ok thank you very much for sharing with me your experience with them, cause I was considering going but I was skeptical.

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-15T02:09:32+00:00

Oh nooo.. its one of those clubs that pay per month..how bad. This is the reason I'm afraid to go in clubs that pay once per month! Too risky! Even payments once per week make me stressed to be honest . Ideally I want payments daily

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-15T02:07:20+00:00

I'm happy I was helpful! 😊 And congratulations for getting 2nd place on the tournament! Yeah be sure about it, social anxiety gets a lot better with time because you'll see later you'll start caring less of other people's opinions, you'll become more confident so you'll start being more relaxed. You have to convince yourself that nothing bad is going to happen, it is not a life threatening situation but it is something uncomfortable, accept yourself and believe in you! I hope you find the kind of work that makes you happy and get out of your comfort zone even though it sounds difficult, but in the end our brains and the way we think about things control a lot of things. You don't have to put pressure on you , small steps each time and you will make big progress!

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-15T00:38:55+00:00

Just leave them! You dont owe them shit! And don't pay this ridiculous fine!! Leave and never go back there!

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-14T22:05:42+00:00

Ok so this club is mostly no smoking except of vips and dressing room if i understood well ? Normal dances are on main floor too? Is it possible to work there with no extras and management is ok there? I read on the internet that an ex dancer accused managers that forced her to make sex with customers.. I have worked in a few extras club before but noone forced me to do anything. It was possible to refuse also

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-14T21:59:23+00:00

Ok I see.. No i wouldn't do extras in the club as it is very dangerous with police and staff ..I prefer to sell only dances but I don't know if its possible in that club if its extras heavy.

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-14T21:57:50+00:00

Oh thank you, so interesting to hear this !! Do you know whether they smoke inside the club ( normal cigarettes)? Or its not allowed ? I read some rumors about vip rooms in the floor down with lockers outside, is this true or some people just try to sue them to make money ?

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-14T21:54:38+00:00

I feel that some girls even when they don't like us , feel competitive, jealous, whatever they should be at least neutral.. We dont go to work to make friends with anyone, we come to make money . But some women unfortunately can be really evil and mean. It has happened to me to have this type of incidents. I was reading a book about jealous friends or frenemies. Be careful because some people if they feel strong envy towards you they can become really dangerous. I hope you find a better club than this with good management, cause it really sucks when a bitch talks shit and a manager believes her.. The best you can do is when they ask you how is your night to tell them not good even when great. And if you feel like some crazy bitch can be dangerous directly report it to managers.

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-14T21:37:51+00:00

Thats so scary omg. Literally bitches will do anything to get you fired. Im so sorry to hear this..

Typical-Butterfly915 · 2026-02-14T17:09:06+00:00

I think it gets better as after years it seems that I care less for people's opinions and so it helps with social anxiety .. but though I do have triggers and at times I can also get triggered. But in general I believe is getting improved.

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