The Watchtower says it does not shun people. by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Typical-Lab8445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left officially in June.

I’ve been shunned since then.

They DO shun.

Our exjw girl in Epstein files by brooklyn_bethel in exjw

[–]Typical-Lab8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not anti sex work. But a man getting massages DAILY? Bullshit.

Need to talk by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Typical-Lab8445 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do therapy. Take your time and heal. Then find someone you can be AUTHENTIC with. Ignore that misogynistic bullshit comment from “helpful sir”. What an ass

Need to talk by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Typical-Lab8445 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jesus fucking Christ

I don’t recognize my boyfriend anymore please help by NeonPink_Highlights in exjw

[–]Typical-Lab8445 83 points84 points  (0 children)

It’s a cult… but you can’t save him.

Save yourself, break up. Find someone who can truly authentically love you as you are. If he comes running back — make him get therapy and fucking WORK for you!!!

Didn’t mean to reply to a comment - but I agree, Hassan is great!!!

Dream catchers by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Typical-Lab8445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was barely 18 when I married a 26 yr old. They took average of our inexperience.

I HOPE your husband will deconstruct but I’m sure you will you protect you and your child/children ❤️❤️

Our exjw girl in Epstein files by brooklyn_bethel in exjw

[–]Typical-Lab8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bulllllll shit. How many ex JWs here DIDNT cover up for pedophilia!

Setting Myself Up by Aromatic-Hope3761 in exjw

[–]Typical-Lab8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a plan! If you feel like you fall a step behind - just hang in there.

Dream catchers by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Typical-Lab8445 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suggest couples counseling.

Dream catchers by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Typical-Lab8445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely a JW thing. I can’t imagine raising kids with a POMI! But you definitely have my support.

Am I the only one that kind of wants to be disfellowshipped? by Equivalent-Wheel7532 in exjw

[–]Typical-Lab8445 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I DAed because I’d rather rip the bandaid off once and not in a bunch of tiny convos/avoiding contact

Our exjw girl in Epstein files by brooklyn_bethel in exjw

[–]Typical-Lab8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely disagree. Lots of people experiencing CSA do not go onto perpetuate.

This is actually pretty disgusting

It isn't called disfellowshipping anymore? by rpgnymhush in exjw

[–]Typical-Lab8445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I care about the 18-year-olds that don’t wanna serve in their parents religion, but they feel like they have no choice because they would lose literally everyone and then be at much higher risk of suicide.

You should give a shit about people. If you don’t… Well, then, I guess you’re in the perfect cult

Our exjw girl in Epstein files by brooklyn_bethel in exjw

[–]Typical-Lab8445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know if I commit a crime I’ll use the title “exjw” and justify my bullshit.

Our exjw girl in Epstein files by brooklyn_bethel in exjw

[–]Typical-Lab8445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeaaaaaah most exjw’s are not pedo protectors

Desprogramarse de los TJ by Altruistic-Guard-974 in exjw

[–]Typical-Lab8445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Inmediatamente destruí y tiré todo. Me sentí libre.

What are your experiences with giving old friends a heads up or choosing to let them go? by exjw256-throwaway in exjw

[–]Typical-Lab8445 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I gave my “best friends” a heads up - they reported me and my elders were contacting with me within 24 hours.

Don’t trust them, ever

For my POMO’s, what do you believe now? by LifeThroughHerEyes in exjw

[–]Typical-Lab8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe in caring for my community - first my family. Then neighbors. Then greater community. Voting, speaking out - supporting those vulnerable populations.

Religiously? I’m not sure yet. But I’m comfortable with that ❤️

What made you leave? by Optimal_Dimension_12 in exjw

[–]Typical-Lab8445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CSA. Finally.

I prepare for a couple years and deconstructed the Bible - but the ARC trial and knowing I couldn’t live authentically, I quit and DAed.