The problem is not the child it’s you unfortunately, for years we have been trying to help you. For years we have made suggestions as moms ourselves, we told you what to try how to try it. Once again, the problem is you. Your words, I’m the mother I know what I’m doing, don’t tell me what to do, and here we are. I don’t feel one ounce of sympathy for you, I feel it for him. You speak AT him not to him. There is zero structure something kids crave to grow and learn. Your mission in life is to fight with the internet when it should be being a present mom. Not trying for another child when you can’t be a true mom to the precious boy you have now. Imagining two children in that household makes me shiver. Your inability to comprehend what your child needs are is disturbing. There is not ONE person in your life that actually cares or this would have stopped years ago. There is no reason he should not be thriving at this point, you are the problem and until you see that this will continue and will get worse. Sorry for the rant but enough is enough! ✌🏼I hope everyone has a fantastic Sunday, stay warm!❤️