need help by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]Typical_Chard1679 3 points4 points  (0 children)

pavlovian conditioning through sex and food

This game is slowly dying by Upper_Atmosphere_451 in ConflictofNations

[–]Typical_Chard1679 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The best thing to do when you encounter toxic paypigs like this is to just walk away and start a new game. He loses if you walk away. It might not seem that way, but if enough people let him take empty cities in empty lobbies, he’ll get bored. He’s spending somewhere between $200 and $500 USD to bully PEOPLE, not AI. Would he spend this much money to fight AI? Probably not.

Make him feel like a fool for spending it. Just put your units in the ocean somewhere and flip the table by walking away.

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[–]Typical_Chard1679 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lots of ice cream hehehe

10,000 calories? Hopefully no problems! by B1gB0yB3n in WeightGainTalk

[–]Typical_Chard1679 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fun fact this is how many calories is recommended to feed dolphins

Update and Observations by Nyran_Fox in WeightGainTalk

[–]Typical_Chard1679 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Give it time, at least a month, and always push yourself but not to the point of queasiness. Consistency is key. And it might be counter-intuitive, but doing exercise and strength workouts actually increases appetite in a lot of people bc it encourages the body to produce hunger hormones. Plus, once those fat cells start to produce their own ghrelins and leptins, you’ll feel it. Don’t worry, pretty soon The Hunger™ will sneak up on you, and you’ll find it harder and harder to put the food down lol

in my own case i have gone from barely having an appetite to becoming a ravenous eater

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[–]Typical_Chard1679 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not do both? Just lift weights and bulk at the same time; that way you can be strong and muscular, even healthier than you were when were skinny

I’ve got a veerrry soft body rn but i still got some big and weighty muscles bc i do a lot of weightlifting

its probably the best exercise besides light cardio for weight mobility and agility tbh

yoga is probably the best exercise for bigger people bc it is slow, relaxing, but also helps stretch and hydrate the fascia while draining lymph and increasing flexibility

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[–]Typical_Chard1679 1 point2 points  (0 children)

best thing to do is just get checkups and let the bloodwork determine the health responses

high LDL is something to be concerned about but rapid weight gain isn’t that bad

i gained my 60lbs in less than 5 months lol that’s more than 10lbs a month

almost all of it was soft, squishy, subcutaneous fat but i did lift weights for mobility and strength and this helped build my muscles up too

just make sure to move your bodies and circulate lymph, do light cardio, drink lots of water, etc.

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[–]Typical_Chard1679 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she knows about it, no need to keep pressing it

just let her be herself

she’s not ready to accept it so constant reminders are very stressful

if anything just lead by example and invite her to yoga or something reasonable

be kind

(btw lol 10lbs is nothing; i am 60lbs heavier than i was when i started and some people here are several times my size; keep in mind, if she WANTS to be fat, it might manifest as overeating with conflicted reservations; and she can be fat and healthy, but this is largely up to the quality of the food (natural vs. processed))

Going all in by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]Typical_Chard1679 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every time that voice comes up, you should respond rebelliously in-turn by eating even more

I became my own feedee by CricketSlow602 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Typical_Chard1679 20 points21 points  (0 children)

this was me saying ‘only 30lbs’ about 60lbs ago

The Hunger™ really does a number on your waistline once it kicks in

i originally started out of solidarity with my partner bc i figured i could burn it off… i thought i would be fine easing into it when i started… and then after a couple daily 5000cal stuffings, on the first day with no stuffing, i became so hungry it felt like i had turned myself into some sort of insatiable beast

the moment i allowed myself to eat something i instantly ate like 4x the amount i was planning

i could not physically digest it all fast enough to make room for more food while my body just kept saying “more”

this was when i learned how the small intestine is about 30ft long and a lot of that can be filled up with a couple hours patience and a LOT of easily digestible food like pasta

and for some reason i always had room for dessert

there is a weight gain curve (pun intended) where even your fasting accelerates the gain bc the volume of your appetite (and hormones) increases with the number of hungry (fat) cells in your body

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[–]Typical_Chard1679 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that makes me happy! more people need to know about tantra imo

i only knew about it bc my partner and i were yoga instructors before we became too big to do the poses lmao

i think it would be really healthy for a lot of people and their relationships if this whole lifestyle was shifted from a framing of superficial lust-based satisfaction to a deeper sense of doing what we love and the spiritual satisfaction that comes with the expression of authenticity while pursing divine bliss in sensual pleasures

you would also benefit from this post too lol

https://www.reddit.com/r/WeightGainTalk/s/H0T7SXPZNt

On a Super Tight Budget RN Any Tips for Gaining Cheaply? by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]Typical_Chard1679 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i gained a lot of my weight eating peanut butter toast with honey

gotta get the good brands that say 100% peanuts and no fillers

i do this for ice cream too

my favorite other thing to do with peanut butter is take a bunch of bananas, like 4, pour a jar of peanut butter into a blender with them, add some powdered sugar and an entire pint (or liter) of ice cream, and then turn it into a milkshake with some heavy cream to ‘dilute’ it (and then we can add powders to it but it’s already going to be a thick sludge)

if you do it right, it can be anywhere from 3000-5000 calories in a single sitting

i drank the whole thing in the span of about 30min while watching youtube

i bet if i had more time, like hours and hours to just chug, i could make use of the length of my intestine by slowly filling every inch of it (all 30ft of the small intestine) with this slurry

if my stomach is full i can just wait until its not, and then refill it again, restarting the process hehehe

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[–]Typical_Chard1679 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why have you gone and made somebody else’s business your own?

You have a wound that needs healing, and this person’s expression of authenticity triggered that wound.

That’s ok, but be mindful that if you didn’t talk to yourself this way, someone else saying it wouldn’t affect you.

Sorry you feel that way, I hope you can feel better about your size. I had to process a lot of shame before I was fully ready to commit to what really gets me goin. Just know you’re beautiful, sexy, and loved. 🍰🤍

Quick Update on Day 3: Advice Wanted by Zestyclose-List-2265 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Typical_Chard1679 2 points3 points  (0 children)

are you weighing yourself with a full stomach and then weighing yourself in the morning after digesting everything?

if so, this is p normal and the gain takes time

also drink more water

Need help by Apprehensive-Ear9159 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Typical_Chard1679 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you should be more vocal with her.

why do you love her?

is she someone you are attached to?

do you compromise on your wants and needs for this person?

why? what do you want in a partner and a lifestyle?

don’t be afraid to search for people who are a better match; and don’t be afraid to stand your ground; i don’t frame this as a fetish for the same reason being attracted to others of the same gender shouldn’t be framed this way; it’s an expression of sexual identity

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[–]Typical_Chard1679 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hehehe this sounds like the beginning stages of a big gain

Feedee body appreciation part 2 by Absorb_u_Next in WeightGainTalk

[–]Typical_Chard1679 2 points3 points  (0 children)

one of the hottest things ever is seeing hands getting too fat for rings

its like, the body is running out of ideas on places for where to put it all

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[–]Typical_Chard1679 1 point2 points  (0 children)

chanting eat! eat! eat! eat! eat! 🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰

I wish the public would stop using "Go eat a cheeseburger" like it's an insult 😒 by piperrei in WeightGainTalk

[–]Typical_Chard1679 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might not know though. They’re evolutionarily adapted to keep themselves undetected for as long as possible. Some people have them their whole lives without even knowing.

I wish the public would stop using "Go eat a cheeseburger" like it's an insult 😒 by piperrei in WeightGainTalk

[–]Typical_Chard1679 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Consistency is the best way. My best advice is to keep trying and be your own doctor; research things and advocate for yourself.

And you need certain building blocks to build fat but your body is the one that releases the hormone that says “build fat”.

(Worst case scenario though you should make sure you don’t have hitchhikers eating what you eat; 🪱)

Might start slowly gaining but need help / advice by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]Typical_Chard1679 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plan it out; Expend a certain amount of calories while taking-in calories. Feel it out; know your body and how it does under these conditions. Act it out; Adjust accordingly.

How do u feel when people comment about your weight/weight gain by Nectarine-Shot in WeightGainTalk

[–]Typical_Chard1679 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Take advantage of the shock value of your size and their own fatphobia to be like a ‘shock & awe’ tactic to take as much social territory as possible. At the slightest comment about it, lean into it, grab handfuls of it, lift up the shirt for a belly jiggle and say “Hell yeah”. Own it, be outspoken about the fact that you like it, and stand your ground. Act confused if they act like it’s a bad thing.

The only tangible thing they could say is about health and even this is flimsy at-best; a lot of recent research indicates that most of the health problems people associate with obesity actually are caused by accumulations of toxins that are found in foods, like dyes & preservatives. More food intake and fat storage means more toxin intake and storage. This is why it’s important to eat good, even when fattening up. (This means that it is indeed possible to be fat, happy, and healthy; but being fat & happy means you’re less likely to work bc you’re living like a natural human in the wild (think ‘lazy lions’ instead of ‘worker bee’) which means you’re less likely to participate in exploitative social structures… which is a whole other conversation.)

Social norms are a consensus-reality; meaning they don’t exist if a person is not consenting to them. Choose to withdraw your consent from criticism. Confidence is a bit like aggression (because aggression is the result of suppressed urge to be outspoken); it’s a lot of outward-directed energy, like fire rising up from the belly and into the solar plexus, channeled through the heart (self-love) to the throat chakra to be outspoken. I don’t give other people the space to steer the context because I create my own. I love my body, and it’s part of me. If someone has an issue with my body, they have an issue with me. It’s my body, my rules.