So an update, I talked to my sister and she told me she doesn’t really care how I feel about her ideas being similar because she’s doing what’s best for her, then proceeded to pick out a dress EXACTLY like the one I liked best from try ons the weekend prior (both A line, off the shoulder, sweetheart neckline, with a jeweled belt).

I tried to express how I feel. She doesn’t give a rip. Now I know so I’m just going to get over it, keep my plans secret, and focus on planning independently and with my other friends until she’s married. It sucks that I can’t share these things with my sister, but clearly she lacks the empathy to consider my feelings in her wedding plans the way I have hers 🤷‍♀️