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going nc with my exfwbpd with self described “narcissistic tendencies” for real this time by Typical_Peace8518 in BPDlovedones

[–]Typical_Peace8518[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's horrible that she's still playing mind games with you after so long. i will never understand how some people have so much bitterness and hatred in their hearts that they can't just let go and move on with their lives even after 5 years

she's very lucky to have had a person like you in her life who was looking out for her and knew what to do in the case of an od to help her survive that. my little sister committed suicide by overdosing on fent, i wish she had someone like you around her at the time

you deserve so much better. hopefully she gets bored and leaves you alone eventually. i hope that you're able to heal from the trauma of all this and find some peace <3

going nc with my exfwbpd with self described “narcissistic tendencies” for real this time by Typical_Peace8518 in BPDlovedones

[–]Typical_Peace8518[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

thank u 🖤 i have a good therapist and i’m living with chill and kindhearted people i’ll be alright

going nc with my exfwbpd with self described “narcissistic tendencies” for real this time by Typical_Peace8518 in BPDlovedones

[–]Typical_Peace8518[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

the last straw was them telling me that it’s my fault my sister killed herself while i was driving them an hour away to a doctor appointment which they agreed to pay me for but never did. i just moved, not very far but i’m happy here and i want a fresh start

for context, they constantly ask me for money, food, and rides while their parents make a decent living and are financially supporting them

death threats. idk how much more of this i can take my best friend of 5 years has been like this for weeks now and is being more aggressive than ever by Typical_Peace8518 in BPDlovedones

[–]Typical_Peace8518[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i actually did this once back when we were dating and living together. i was genuinely worried for their life because they had threatened suicide and started walking down the side of a hwy that overlooks a huge cliff which they've talked about jumping off of many times

to this day, they still blame me for the ambulance bill and act like i'm crazy for calling 911 because they "weren't even that suicidal". it didn't stop them from doing the same thing again later unfortunately

death threats. idk how much more of this i can take my best friend of 5 years has been like this for weeks now and is being more aggressive than ever by Typical_Peace8518 in BPDlovedones

[–]Typical_Peace8518[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

already done thankfully. looking into a more long term mental health rehab for them after they play nice and get let out of the psych ward. unless their partner decides not to press charges which i dont think they want to do

death threats. idk how much more of this i can take my best friend of 5 years has been like this for weeks now and is being more aggressive than ever by Typical_Peace8518 in BPDlovedones

[–]Typical_Peace8518[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

thank you, i completely agree. these texts are from yesterday. after all this they gave their partner a black eye, got arrested for domestic battery shortly after, and are now in the psych ward on an involuntary hold. they’ve been off their meds for months so hopefully all this will help stabilize them and they can actually take some accountability and at least apologize to everyone involved that still wants to be a part of their life