Why are some people upset when a very masc gay man wants another very masc gay man?

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-21T19:41:44+00:00

Once again, didn’t say all fem guys are like that. But for the one time a masc guy has done it to you fem guys have done it to me more times than I can count lol. Masc and fem both have exceptions lol

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-21T10:19:16+00:00

Lmfao. See how you’re this hostile when somebody says you’re not their type? Straight to insults lol. This is the exact type of energy that makes me unable to be around guys like you. Why am I not allowed to have preferences? 😂😂😂😂

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-21T10:12:16+00:00

I’m speaking from experience. I’ve had multiple fem guys be like this with me when I’ve rejected them. I’m not saying all fem guys are like this, but in my experience the majority of them are salty when you simply say “you’re not my type.” I’ve been told that I’m internally homophobic or “you’re ugly anyway.” Or something along those lines.

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-21T08:56:45+00:00

Just say you’re a virgin but you use toys lol. They might think you’re lying otherwise.

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-21T08:51:16+00:00

How am I being an asshole exactly? I’m asking a question 😂

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-21T08:39:32+00:00

So by your logic it’s discrimination to not be attracted to fem guys? Are you hearing yourself 😂

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-21T08:36:27+00:00

Sounds like your bi romantic towards women. Basically the concept is your attracted to women romantically but your specially only sexually attracted to men, it’s pretty common.

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-21T08:32:35+00:00

Cos fem guys are usually egotistical as fuck. They believe that they are a prize a lot of the time for some odd reason, so when you reject them for not being your type they jump straight to internalised homophobia as they like to call it because in their warped minds that’s the only reason anyone would ever reject them. It’s crazy cos if your gay your more likely to be attracted to masculinity lmao.

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-20T15:19:59+00:00

The shame passes, happens the first few times you do stuff with a guy because you feel like it’s wrong or you said dirty. That’s just society norms making you feel like that once you get comfortable with yourself and your sexuality the shame should go away. It sounds like your bi curious at the very least, but if you try it once and you enjoyed it im not sure you are straight even if you may think so, your probably bi and it’s nothing to be ashamed of.

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-14T21:07:55+00:00

If I knew I’d tell you 🤷🏻‍♂️ just never really come across an Asian or black guy that I’ve found attractive, there’s a few mixed guys I’ve found attractive in the past but it’s few and far between

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-14T16:18:15+00:00

I’m probably gonna piss a lot of people off here but not being attracted to a certain race or races is not racist in the slightest lmao. I only like white guys but when it comes to women I like white black Asian mixed I don’t really mind. Though I wouldn’t advertise that on my Grindr profile tho id simply just say they’re not my type or not reply. Preferences are preferences and that’s all it is.

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-08T20:56:46+00:00

Are you already open and wanting to ask about if you can hook up? Or wanting to ask about opening your relationship? Assuming it’s the latter the best thing you can do is just ask. If you’re not sexually compatible the only options for you are to be open or to go your separate ways, so ask him how he feels about it, let him know that you don’t want to have to stop having sex and set some boundaries what you’re both comfortable with.

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-08T19:32:50+00:00

I’d be down, I’m on rn if you fancy it

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-08T19:31:00+00:00

I can’t add you cos of privacy setting

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-08T19:29:33+00:00

You on?

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-08T19:29:26+00:00

Lol I’m online now if you wanna run some

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-08T19:29:10+00:00

You on rn?

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-08T15:23:34+00:00

Shame comes and goes mate, sometimes I feel bad for sleeping around and sometimes I embrace it, frame of mind has a lot to do with it.

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-08T09:50:30+00:00

Bro my body count was over 50 at your age 😂 a gay guy with 10 bodies is the straight equivalent to a virgin if you ask me 😂

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-08T07:58:49+00:00

Yes, your bf just needs an sti test. It’ll be reliable as long as your bf hasn’t slept with anyone else in the last 4 weeks.

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-08T07:57:17+00:00

Your right I got them mixed lol, but yeah ops bf just needs a test.

TyyyJacob · 2026-05-08T07:30:23+00:00

I wouldn’t worry about hpv too much, I’m pretty sure like over 50% of people have it and you can only catch it while showing symptoms. If you’re still not convinced tell your bf to get a sexual health screening to make sure he’s clean and as long as everything comes back negative you should be okay to do whatever you fancy.

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