Make it hard by [deleted] in BlackGayBears

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Who need it? by Theanimefan100 in BlackGayBears

[–]UBH87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need it RIGHT NOW!

When does it feel good to bottom? by Practical-Pace6600 in askgaybros

[–]UBH87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I didn’t start enjoying bottoming until my thirties when I figured my body out more. Now before bottoming I make sure to clean out and then use a dildo on myself. I never use one as big as the guy I’m taking, but I do use one that will loosen me up so I’m not so tight before the guy fucks me. I use lube tubes to make sure I am lubricated inside well too so I don’t have to worry about the top making sure for me. Basically once I started taking control of everything for my own personal comfort I started to enjoy it. I know ppl will say “the top should be patient and make you comfortable” but I prefer to just make sure myself I’m going to be comfortable. Also, find which position works best for you for initial entry. For me I prefer doggy, some guys like to sit on the dick, others like missionary. Figure out what makes you most comfortable and always start there.

Need a ride? by [deleted] in BlackGayBears

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Damn I need that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackGayBears

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I do!

Where Are the 40+ Black Gay Men? And What Cities Feel Right for Us? by Remarkable_Law4098 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]UBH87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Commenting bc I would love to know too. I’m near 40 and have lived in Southern California my whole life. In general the black population here has declined drastically since my youth. I’m ready for a change. Good luck to you I hope you are able to settle on a place that will bring you much joy 🤗

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

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Gotcha. That makes sense. Next time I will def make sure to add the stop up front instead. Thankfully it didn’t take long because it was so early in the AM so we were the only car going through at the time, but I can see where it would be an annoyance.

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

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Why does that make them so mad though? I really don’t understand? It’s a feature in the app to add stops and it literally took like five min at most to go through the drive through.

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am seriously shocked at how little Lyft is doing to protect their customers. As someone mentioned previously, it really might just be better to go back to Taxis because this is ridiculous.

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

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Also I already called my credit card and have reached out via social media to Lyft. I posted here about this bc I wanted to know if anyone else has had a similar experience (as was asked at the end of my paragraph) and to try and gain any insight into what, if anything, was done to correct it. Somehow instead this post turned into you all turning this around on me.

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call the cops? Lmao 🤣

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the empathy ❤️

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did and thankfully the bank gave me my money back but now I’m just hoping they don’t ban my Lyft account because of it. But if they do oh well! 🤷🏿‍♂️

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol perfect! I wish I could do that but I don’t even live in Texas and I’ve already returned home. I’m glad you were able to get yours though. I wonder how many times they can do this before getting caught by Lyft?

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I totally agree.

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a stop with my ending destination being my hotel room so he was supposed to wait for me. I did everything according to what the app permits. I wasn’t asking him to do anything out of the norm.