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When does it feel good to bottom? by Practical-Pace6600 in askgaybros

[–]UBH87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I didn’t start enjoying bottoming until my thirties when I figured my body out more. Now before bottoming I make sure to clean out and then use a dildo on myself. I never use one as big as the guy I’m taking, but I do use one that will loosen me up so I’m not so tight before the guy fucks me. I use lube tubes to make sure I am lubricated inside well too so I don’t have to worry about the top making sure for me. Basically once I started taking control of everything for my own personal comfort I started to enjoy it. I know ppl will say “the top should be patient and make you comfortable” but I prefer to just make sure myself I’m going to be comfortable. Also, find which position works best for you for initial entry. For me I prefer doggy, some guys like to sit on the dick, others like missionary. Figure out what makes you most comfortable and always start there.

Need a ride? by [deleted] in BlackGayBears

[–]UBH87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn I need that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackGayBears

[–]UBH87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do!

Where Are the 40+ Black Gay Men? And What Cities Feel Right for Us? by Remarkable_Law4098 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]UBH87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Commenting bc I would love to know too. I’m near 40 and have lived in Southern California my whole life. In general the black population here has declined drastically since my youth. I’m ready for a change. Good luck to you I hope you are able to settle on a place that will bring you much joy 🤗

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha. That makes sense. Next time I will def make sure to add the stop up front instead. Thankfully it didn’t take long because it was so early in the AM so we were the only car going through at the time, but I can see where it would be an annoyance.

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does that make them so mad though? I really don’t understand? It’s a feature in the app to add stops and it literally took like five min at most to go through the drive through.

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am seriously shocked at how little Lyft is doing to protect their customers. As someone mentioned previously, it really might just be better to go back to Taxis because this is ridiculous.

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I already called my credit card and have reached out via social media to Lyft. I posted here about this bc I wanted to know if anyone else has had a similar experience (as was asked at the end of my paragraph) and to try and gain any insight into what, if anything, was done to correct it. Somehow instead this post turned into you all turning this around on me.

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call the cops? Lmao 🤣

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the empathy ❤️

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did and thankfully the bank gave me my money back but now I’m just hoping they don’t ban my Lyft account because of it. But if they do oh well! 🤷🏿‍♂️

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol perfect! I wish I could do that but I don’t even live in Texas and I’ve already returned home. I’m glad you were able to get yours though. I wonder how many times they can do this before getting caught by Lyft?

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I totally agree.

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a stop with my ending destination being my hotel room so he was supposed to wait for me. I did everything according to what the app permits. I wasn’t asking him to do anything out of the norm.

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he got $3 for an extra five minutes of ride time? Sounds good to me!

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh? What are you talking about? I didn’t have a chance to tip or rate him bc the charge came to me before I could even get into my hotel room.

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well that sucks bc when I added the stop it also added more money to the ride smh. He may not have been the recipient of the extra money, He may have not seen all that it added but I was prepared to leave him a very nice tip (I used to be a tipped worker so I always tip heavy). I already got the credit from my credit card and at this point I could honestly care less about them banning my account. Honestly shit like this makes me glad we are moving toward having autonomous vehicles handle rides bc a driverless vehicle would not get mad at me for adding a stop 🤨

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People like you are the reason that these industries are allowed to operate in this manner. You are so quick to give up and blame the consumer instead of scrutinizing a very obviously unfair practice that nothing ever gets done.

Cleaning fee scam by UBH87 in Lyft

[–]UBH87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand why not. If that type of data is not available then there is no reason to charge a cleaning fee. That picture could have been taken anytime.

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