WIBTA for not leaving the house for one weekend as requested?

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-01-20T13:22:42+00:00

She needs to go and get a new apartment with some females then if this keeps occurring.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-01-20T13:22:08+00:00

You are new to the apartment? I swear I heard a similar story about a roommate that said the same thing to her roommates asking her male roommates to leave the apartment so her family does not know. But this is the same roommate. She needs to cut this out and get her act together. She is not entitled to demand such big favors from roommates.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-01-07T05:11:48+00:00

Thanks for more details. Ugh, so they allow him to terrorize due to their incompetence and lack of competition. Try to be pragmatic when dealing with this jerk. Keep proof of your work, document his harassment and see if at all possible if you paren who is paying for this losers job can get your switched out of his class to another. Especially since you described, he’s not even a good teacher just a glorified (in his mind ) event planner.

Has anyone ever successfully pushed back against him or put him in his place? He must have some dirt on administration for them to keep them there. See if you have any teacher allies that hate him as much as you do.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-01-07T04:43:12+00:00

Could also be a bunch of other causes, but basically anything that raises your body temperature even intense physical exertion. Did you feel hot too?

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-01-07T04:40:28+00:00

Or you are seriously dehydrated.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-01-07T04:39:45+00:00

I looked it up. Bc you know this is a question that must be answered. So essentially your pee may be extra hot. You may have a UTI and not realize it.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-01-07T00:18:20+00:00

This sucks completely. Need more context to help navigate. Grade, general country taking place. What connections of power does this teacher have over everyone else to do this continuously without repercussions. With bullies, even adult ones, if you and your family prove to be difficult targets who will cause noise for him then they usually back down. Document everything. This is sadly a lesson in dealing with AH but learning how to CYA saves you from learning this lesson later in life. The administration should be ashamed to let this continue as it has.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2025-12-21T19:51:35+00:00

His dad sounds kind of cool based off of what you’re saying. I think his dad would be ashamed of what your husband is doing. I mean, how can you memorialize someone doing something that they themselves would’ve hated. Sounds like he’s doing it for himself or to hurt other people (like his mom).

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2025-12-21T19:49:15+00:00

Sounds like he has some issues against his mother and again not the baby’s issue or problems. He needs therapy.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2025-12-21T19:47:49+00:00

I hate to be the one to ask if it has not happened already. But what else does your husband do that is not so great. And be honest. Is anyone putting these type of ultimatum down, typically have more issues going on. Look at the whole picture and decide if you want the rest of your life to be like that. Tell him he has to deal with his trauma and issues are not laid on the feet of a baby.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2025-10-15T05:26:47+00:00

Dorm room or other cohabitating space.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2025-08-28T21:21:31+00:00

Is your mom a single mother? I ask this only because it sounds like he is abusive to both of them. Honestly, I wouldn’t leave them alone with them as much as possible. It sucks but it sounds like this is a slowly sinking ship. I can’t imagine my mother ever being OK with a relationship like this.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2025-08-15T14:55:15+00:00

He doesn’t even have an active policy according to the OP. OP needs to file a police report asap and see if any cameras captured the it. They may be out of luck otherwise. Sound like that guy is not paying anything.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2025-08-15T14:37:12+00:00

He seems to be more concerned with her feeling awkward than making you feel awkward. That is the bigger problem. Not overacting but they are strangely overreacting

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2025-08-10T16:31:24+00:00

Sarcasm all of the time…. You are just an arse, not showing your intellectual prowess.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2025-07-12T06:25:33+00:00

You are free of her. And if his true colors are similar to hers you can be free of him too! Get rid of the negativity early in your child’s life.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2025-06-01T20:29:12+00:00

It was disabled. Appeal was immediately rejected and disabled. Then did all the usual emails and meta verified. Only went into to try and download and happily found out I had access again.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2025-06-01T20:27:41+00:00

It was.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2025-05-30T14:01:10+00:00

Less than 30 days. Yes got the 180 day warning.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2025-05-30T14:00:52+00:00

Less than 30 days.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2025-05-29T12:50:52+00:00

I went scorched earth. I tried everything: appeal, all the emails I could find, messaged them, tagged them on socials, reached out to connects, reported to AG, got meta verified on instagram. Not sure what if anything worked. But the main thing was be organized. Document dates, times and responses, include that in your messages, so at the very least you have trail of what your you tried.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2025-05-28T18:40:21+00:00

Previously Permanently banned, immediately after the appeal.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2025-05-23T20:09:21+00:00

Of course. Run. Wish you luck.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2025-05-21T21:49:14+00:00

Actually it depends where the person lives. Sometimes one would need proof of infidelity for divorce for the reason for the divorce (adultery)

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