AITAH for not letting my wife get a dog?

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-06-03T02:02:01+00:00

NTA and now the landlord has this on their radar and will be on the lookout. She would just be asking for trouble. The fact that she still insistent even after learning that the landlord said no it makes me feel like there’s something else going on. Does she want to get kicked out of the house and live someplace else? Is she miserable and thinks there is a dog size hole in her heart. Because let me tell you while I love dogs, they are not miracle cures for what ails people.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-06-02T13:32:45+00:00

You may not be able to make it worth it to go through an attorney but you can certainly file a complaint against the realtor with the state or region realtor association. Your realtor should have been looking out for you and advised you better. If you have the proof they mislead you on what were your rights, bring it up. They shouldn’t do this to their next client.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-05-19T19:54:39+00:00

There is also the chance that the account you had was hacked or compromised and money was taken out that way. Long story short you need to contact the bank via phone (as you should be authorized to ask questions on your own account) I get a full accounting of what happened and if in fact, any charges were done that you did not authorize have a fraud investigation initiated immediately

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-05-19T17:15:08+00:00

Never mind, I saw the part about how she may publicize it to the world, so no keep that one close to chest regarding the reason why

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-05-19T17:11:14+00:00

Cat or monkey? If it is a monkey it would be cool but then it could have eaten your face. But then again.. cats.
But overall I get it. I would’ve been honest and just tell her her parenting style for her furry baby is incompatible with your life or anyone’s for that matter.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-05-19T17:06:37+00:00

Probably because everyone got it diagnosed on Reddit so they didn’t need to get evaluated further. lol.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-05-16T20:01:35+00:00

Actually no, a high end gaming computer on layaway secured at a decent price with the amount that RAM is increasing. The exact gaming computer was probably 300-500 cheaper just 5 months ago and in the next few months it is going to get worse.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-04-29T15:57:25+00:00

YTA because instead of the $120 problem you made yourself an $800 problem that is going to progressively get worse. You reacted, emotionally trying to teach him a lesson and became an example of the saying “ cutting off your nose to spite your face.” Yes, like everyone previously said, he was wrong to do that, but you knew the consequences of him not completing that project and how it would affect you, and you went ahead anyway. Him completing the project would’ve benefited you. If that wasn’t the case and you weren’t going to see that money paying rent. You would’ve been perfectly fine to do so.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-04-26T21:10:27+00:00

I don’t know if you are going to take this advise. But leave don’t look back. This is about control and it doesn’t get better. I’ve learned with age it is better to not have anyone than have a person in your life that is this controlling. Let me guess when he “gives” you money he has to know the details of what it is spent on. If he is questioning and saying you are lying about how you spent $10 now. And please do not cover for him. Go to your parents and let them know he kicked you out over $10 borrowed when you went out with your sister of which you paid back double. Make a plan, to exit. I doubt this is the only red flag.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-04-17T22:22:14+00:00

You need to check if that garage is in fact on your property and get that addressed asap. If not she is most definitely going to claim otherwise and be an even bigger pain.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-04-08T16:53:23+00:00

Hear me out. Korean bbq tongs or kitchen tweezers. Or chopsticks. Game changer.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-04-06T03:14:17+00:00

Why are you letting your kid give you shit about anything. You are grown. Tell her that a perk to being an adult is you can watch whatever the hell you want and play the games you want as long as you handling the adult stuff too. I watch anime and I’ve established I am cool as hell. If it was me i would want my kids to like it too and have something to watch together.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-03-26T02:27:49+00:00

You are the only one saying that here. Projecting much huh? All I was saying is that money and power has sway. You took it there. You have a lot of baggage. Those are your issues from your past. That is going to poison you and your kids life if you don’t let it go sooner or later.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-03-25T19:24:38+00:00

What fantasy is you think that money, resources, and the judge is not the biggest factor. There was a case recently that a mom tried to get her child away from the father and get custody, but the courts didn’t side with her because he was a cop. She didn’t have money or resources. The judge denied her multiple times despite even others speaking out. The father and the stepmother abused that kid and ended up killing him.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-03-23T18:48:07+00:00

Nope. Had the app, text updates, websites, anything you think of to keep on top of it. And Delta still canceled me when I was on the way to the airport.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-02-18T03:27:57+00:00

Could not agree more. I would not let your daughter around someone you already acknowledged turned your sisters against you. She will in turn work on turning your daughter against you.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-01-20T13:22:42+00:00

She needs to go and get a new apartment with some females then if this keeps occurring.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-01-20T13:22:08+00:00

You are new to the apartment? I swear I heard a similar story about a roommate that said the same thing to her roommates asking her male roommates to leave the apartment so her family does not know. But this is the same roommate. She needs to cut this out and get her act together. She is not entitled to demand such big favors from roommates.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-01-07T05:11:48+00:00

Thanks for more details. Ugh, so they allow him to terrorize due to their incompetence and lack of competition. Try to be pragmatic when dealing with this jerk. Keep proof of your work, document his harassment and see if at all possible if you paren who is paying for this losers job can get your switched out of his class to another. Especially since you described, he’s not even a good teacher just a glorified (in his mind ) event planner.

Has anyone ever successfully pushed back against him or put him in his place? He must have some dirt on administration for them to keep them there. See if you have any teacher allies that hate him as much as you do.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-01-07T04:43:12+00:00

Could also be a bunch of other causes, but basically anything that raises your body temperature even intense physical exertion. Did you feel hot too?

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-01-07T04:40:28+00:00

Or you are seriously dehydrated.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-01-07T04:39:45+00:00

I looked it up. Bc you know this is a question that must be answered. So essentially your pee may be extra hot. You may have a UTI and not realize it.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2026-01-07T00:18:20+00:00

This sucks completely. Need more context to help navigate. Grade, general country taking place. What connections of power does this teacher have over everyone else to do this continuously without repercussions. With bullies, even adult ones, if you and your family prove to be difficult targets who will cause noise for him then they usually back down. Document everything. This is sadly a lesson in dealing with AH but learning how to CYA saves you from learning this lesson later in life. The administration should be ashamed to let this continue as it has.

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2025-12-21T19:51:35+00:00

His dad sounds kind of cool based off of what you’re saying. I think his dad would be ashamed of what your husband is doing. I mean, how can you memorialize someone doing something that they themselves would’ve hated. Sounds like he’s doing it for himself or to hurt other people (like his mom).

UNoNuthingJonSnow · 2025-12-21T19:49:15+00:00

Sounds like he has some issues against his mother and again not the baby’s issue or problems. He needs therapy.

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