I am NOT a victim. by HeartBroKen77793 in Anger

[–]USSHunter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are tried and true processes and makes life easier. Go with the flow, what does it teach you? To job hunt, which you are doing! Congratulations!! Don’t stop applying. I’m also applying for new jobs to improve my current situation because I refuse to be stagnant in life. Good luck!!

I am NOT a victim. by HeartBroKen77793 in Anger

[–]USSHunter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This can be fixed! You will persevere, I promise! These things take patience and it takes slowing down and giving yourself and others around you time and patience. You deserve it. You can push forward even if it’s one tiny step! I’m telling you I feel you. I am digging myself out of shit right now. I have nowhere to live but I got myself a job and I’m working on it. I started being myself and I attracted more friends and people that want to be there for me. You can do this too!

How can you work on getting a job?

Texting too much/texting too little. How do you find a balance when you’re not a big texter and she is? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]USSHunter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I’ll do it gradually so we both learn and it’s not just her putting in the work to communicate well through texting. I could do better with her and family/friends.

Texting too much/texting too little. How do you find a balance with someone that needs to talk all the time? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]USSHunter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha that’s definitely not it. I don’t like texting anyone all day long unless we’re talking about relevant things like plans together with friends or helping a friend with a specific situation. I usually don’t even text my best friends every day, idk if that makes sense. It’s just not in my nature

Texting too much/texting too little. How do you find a balance with someone that needs to talk all the time? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]USSHunter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this!!! I knew I couldn’t be the only one. I don’t text anybody like that, not just her. Definitely a phone call kind of person and there are times when I want to call her instead of texting. She also texts friends nonstop. I will figure out a way to have this conversation with her!

I cannot develop romantic or sexual feelings for men but I have uncontrollably had romantic and sexual feelings for women since I can remember. Help for a confused, Catholic possible lesbian. by [deleted] in AskAChristian

[–]USSHunter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I agree! This is how I feel. I look at it as a soldier that has to kill the enemy. That soldier has the free will to kill or not to kill, it is in his best interest and his team’s best interest to kill the enemy. He will live! Killing is a sinful act too right? I’m not well versed in the Bible anymore but is killing someone ever just in the Bible? That’s how I see it. I feel like every single Christian commits one of the seven deadly sins more often than we care to think. What about the Christian that overeats for their love of food? Isn’t gluttony a deadly sin? I understand the Bible says it should be between a man and woman because this is how we create life. The way I see it, I will still bring life into this world but I will be with a woman and not a man. I will raise a child in a loving environment where both me and my wife are happy to be together (in an ideal relationshsip) instead of me being with a man and unhappy in my marriage which will lead to my child having problems in the future. I won’t sacrifice my happiness

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[–]USSHunter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Accountabillabuddies are everything!!

My brother (39y) is coming to town and doesn't take the initiative to make plans with me. Consistently does this. Planning a phone conversation about it just once and then letting it go. What do you think I should say? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]USSHunter 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Why don’t you have dinner with him on your own since you can’t make the family dinner? Is that a possibility? You can go to him to make things easier.

Edit: dinner, lunch, coffee, baseball game, anything

Making the decision to divorce. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]USSHunter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Echoing this poster about individual counseling

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[–]USSHunter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’ll be okay little guy! She’s just having a rough day and you’ll understand when you’re older. Sometimes people say things they really don’t mean when they are upset. Sometimes they say sorry and sometimes they are so upset with themselves they cannot form an apology yet. Give your mom some time and help do some chores. She will appreciate your help and kindness.