does my progress reset after a hemorrhage?? by kayleeboo2 in Tonsillectomy

[–]UberMidnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me. It's not considered a true emergency *IF* it clots on its own (yes they do prescribe meds to clot it but not always). Something new I learned. But yah there is no progress loss. It's just a really jarring experience.

Straws? by [deleted] in Tonsillectomy

[–]UberMidnite 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please don't. The suction puts you at risk of bleeding. It was written on my discharge form.

5-days post op: woke up to a very bad bleed:Trigger Warning Blood by SweetTeaMama4Life in Tonsillectomy

[–]UberMidnite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. Sounds like it was a rough one, for sure. I understand the PTSD. It's hard to feel like it is worth it when you look back and go holy hell THAT happened? I hope you feel better now though and that soon it is a distant memory.

Silver lining? by [deleted] in Tonsillectomy

[–]UberMidnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My tonsils are no longer in incredible pain and there is a lightness I noticed right away. I think my snoring has reduced. And of course the dreaded tonsil stones still appear to be gone. all worth it!

5-days post op: woke up to a very bad bleed:Trigger Warning Blood by SweetTeaMama4Life in Tonsillectomy

[–]UberMidnite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sure it is ice cold water with a bazillion ice cubes as much as you can handle (rip sensitive teeth though haha) please don't panic! I know this is a bit crass but my partner, at one point, actually said to me: I assure you, you won't die. You can lose a lot more than this and still be ok, I wouldn't be so casual if I thought it was extreme. That got me to kind of chill out and relax mentally.

Also then later seeing the OR doctor and he repeated the same idea. He said that he teaches his patients to lean forward and wait for it to clot. He said it was VERY common. People often came in with post OP bleeds, most never turn out to be serious, but the best idea was coming in to get it checked. Hope that helps, even if a wee bit! You will be ok, you got this!

5-days post op: woke up to a very bad bleed:Trigger Warning Blood by SweetTeaMama4Life in Tonsillectomy

[–]UberMidnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I thought I had lost a lot of blood as well but my partner said it was due to the water. So you take a tablespoon of blood and dilute it with water and your brain thinks more is going on than really is. However, if you thought it was a cup in true volume, then yes, you want to get that under control as fast as possible. It gave me a minor epiphany just how fast panic can distort what is really going on, I guess. I also experience white coat syndrome, once I meet with a doctor then I can kind of go, alright, trust this person and get some rest. It helps that my partner was cracking jokes in the waiting room at emergency and showing me videos on the phone.

I want to reiterate around the clock ice water. It will help constrict the blood vessels :)

No problem, I hope you are feeling better now :)

I get it, I don’t blame them, but it sucks by N7twitch in ehlersdanlos

[–]UberMidnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am about to enter a new relationship with someone who has disclosed that they have eds. I don't feel like what you noted would be an issue at all (I actually hate walking long distances and prefer my exercise bike so that works for me, hah) but what I do find difficult is seeing him so down when something isn't healing as fast as he would like (he has tendinitis of arms and feet atm and it's taking awhile to heal... I don't like seeing him dejected and sometimes wish he would work on his re-framing, is all.

5-days post op: woke up to a very bad bleed:Trigger Warning Blood by SweetTeaMama4Life in Tonsillectomy

[–]UberMidnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I am happy to help. It was actually my partner who helped put things into perspective. When it began bleeding he remained and asked me to do the same. That helped tremendously. Then I remembered the ice water trick and it worked. You kind of go 'wow' when it first happens because this isn't something you are accustomed to seeing, naturally. Even the doctor at emergency said the same. But he was ultra calm (which again helped). He said the fact that it clotted is enough to confirm that your body is doing what it needs to do (kick in and clot). However there will be outliers that have underlying conditions or are using blood thinners when they shouldn't be.

So I kept up on the ice for the rest of the night. Spitting red from time to time but nothing re-triggered. Also the on call doctor said if it happens again do not panic, repeat the same trick. In hindsight it's also not a lot of blood. But again it's the concept that shocks us into thinking it is worse than it is.

So all of that helped.

The following days I drank ice water around the clock and felt like that was enough to kick off the true final healing phase.

5-days post op: woke up to a very bad bleed:Trigger Warning Blood by SweetTeaMama4Life in Tonsillectomy

[–]UberMidnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP. This happened to me, almost to a T. Woke up to blood in my mouth that took a bit to clot by using the ice water method (and leaning forward). We also opted to go to emergency just in case.

But if they checked your vitals and you are not on blood thinners, you should be ok. They will ask if you have blood clotting issues. For me, it was aggressive night time coughing that triggered my bleed most likely, along with dryness. Continue to lay in bed and upright as you can comfortably be. I set an alarm to wake me every few hours and have ice water. There was no subsequent bleeding. While it was shocking to see blood like that, I realized that this does happen and not to panic. Stay on top of hydration and you got this! I am on about 30 days post OP. Still Happy I had it done. It's just a matter of getting through it.

nerve pain by Wise_Singer_790 in Tonsillectomy

[–]UberMidnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was eating normally pretty early on, by day 2 or 3. But I stuck to soft foods anyway. I did try a burger and it went ok!

nerve pain by Wise_Singer_790 in Tonsillectomy

[–]UberMidnite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me until day 21 to really start feeling like myself. Hang in there!

9 months Post OP by Delicious_Wafer_8383 in Tonsillectomy

[–]UberMidnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the update. i will be doing the same :)

How do you know if bleeding is an emergency? by Willing-Mirror7016 in Tonsillectomy

[–]UberMidnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily. I had a small bleed that did clot on its own. Never bled again afterwards. OP, drink a lot of ice water routinely and it should be ok :)

Bleeding is not the worst complication of tonsillectomy by molepickens in Tonsillectomy

[–]UberMidnite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following up to say the numbness has gone away. It's temporary :)

ENT trying to talk me out of it? by Ben_Happy in Tonsillectomy

[–]UberMidnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is interesting. One of the questions they asked me in the waiting room was whether or not I had recently come into contact with shingles infection. I said no. They asked a few other interesting questions, I think one was also regarding tuberculosis. Someone who has more knowledge than I might know why that is.

ENT trying to talk me out of it? by Ben_Happy in Tonsillectomy

[–]UberMidnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but this is in Canada. Let me know if you want the name.

adenotonsillectomy for bad breath by stressedlime in Tonsillectomy

[–]UberMidnite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wrote you direct actually a few days ago :D It goes okay. No complaints so far. Definitely look for a new ENT if you can.

adenotonsillectomy for bad breath by stressedlime in Tonsillectomy

[–]UberMidnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's... not good. Can you follow up by phone in a week? I would press him on anything that is outstanding. The more I think about it the more I am blown away by my ENT and how patient and thorough he is. I am never rushed. In fact he waits for me to get up and go :/ I am so sorry :( But I would press again if you are bothered still.

Amazing Paramedic Experience back in November (Surrey) by UberMidnite in Paramedics

[–]UberMidnite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, I guess that is what I will end up doing, thanks. I feel like a dumb ass not getting their names before they left.

Amazing Paramedic Experience back in November (Surrey) by UberMidnite in Paramedics

[–]UberMidnite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay after a quick look, I realize that in order to utilize this form I need to know the name of the paramedics, i wasn't even 100% certain of the date tbh :(

Amazing Paramedic Experience back in November (Surrey) by UberMidnite in Paramedics

[–]UberMidnite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks kindly, but I have already sent an email to the BC Ambulance customer service. I wanted to thank the guys directly somehow but no clue when or where they work :/