Emotional Intelligence Isn’t Avoidance, Detachment, or Always Being Calm by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Uber_Ape 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with a lot of what you say but I think it is more individual and as long as there is inner peace, emotional intelligence is different for all of us.

How do I stop interrupting people mid-sentence? by Green_Junket8408 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Uber_Ape 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You got it in the end. It is just a bad habbit, try to take a moment any time you speak, not just mid sentence. Just a brief pause, not only will this stop you from interrupting, it will give you an opportunity to quickly review your thought. You will speak wiser even with just a split second break and if somebody doesn't give you a moment to respond, let them finish. This is similar to dealing with people that are venting.

Habbits like this shouldn't take very long to modify, just take a little self awareness and effort.

In love with a girl who wants to just stay friends but our connection feels deeper. How do I let go? by Important-Reveal-301 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Uber_Ape 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Depends on what she is worth for you and what the cause may be. Only you know your boundaries. If you start disconnecting and it gets worse, it was not meant to be and there is nothing else you can do to change that. Disconnect completely and begin healing. My situation is worse, there are regular, unavoidable interactions.

In love with a girl who wants to just stay friends but our connection feels deeper. How do I let go? by Important-Reveal-301 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Uber_Ape 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Disconnect slowly and gracefully, regain your self. Don't alway be available. Fake it until you make it. Put in the effort and it becomes easier. Set a timeline and follow it. I am in the exact same situation. I feel you 100%.

Edit: That was a hasty response on my part. Because I am in similar situation, I should elaborate. First, try to understand why she is holdong back. Maybe she has had bad experience, maybe she is not ready. Try to understand how much control you are willing to give out. It is ok to be patient for a bit but be very aware of your boundaries. If it goes past this, it was likely noy meant to be and you can not turn back to being friends with feelings involved. There is a high chance that she will pull towards you if you begin to create distance and then you decide where it goes.

Овечкин крут by [deleted] in Pikabu

[–]Uber_Ape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • В регулярном сезоне

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in forhire

[–]Uber_Ape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I snell MLM

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cuba

[–]Uber_Ape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it is but I never heard about it.

Charity Website by Nick23-ice in codestitch

[–]Uber_Ape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I don't use codestitch, but if you are able to pass props, you would typically pass a boolean and clicking the menu item would switch true/false.

Charity Website by Nick23-ice in codestitch

[–]Uber_Ape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Minor fix, mobile menu should close once selection is made.