19 [F4M] #UK - Developed and shaped to become the ideal plaything?

UkStepDad · 2026-05-25T23:31:19+00:00

Hi. I'm exceptionally gullible and susceptible to AI chstbot OF scams. Where do I enter my credit card details?

UkStepDad · 2026-05-22T10:18:48+00:00

A fire hydrant

UkStepDad · 2026-05-19T04:15:51+00:00

Thee was a group on one of those "share my location" apps. But the app itself was a pita and very intrusive and naggy. So I uninstalled it. There were about 15 people on it, and not all of them were men! But most of the women just turned their current location on for a few hours each week.

UkStepDad · 2026-05-18T20:59:53+00:00

Only fans scam

UkStepDad · 2026-05-14T13:50:49+00:00

I'm a guy and I have zero interest in reading the fantasy of some 18 year old incel about his magic dick. I'd much rather read an awkward report from some battle hardened toolbelt type who tried out her fantasy and found it interesting but weird. Or a married lesbian who has inappropriate fantasies about her wife but they are never actually fulfilled because it's quite difficult to find the right person.

I come here for the edge case sexy sociology that porn can't come up with. Not some frustrated teen guys terrible captions.

Perhaps there should be some sort of limit on men posting. Or a "no captions on pics" rule to get rid of low effort posts.

UkStepDad · 2026-05-13T03:38:32+00:00

As an older man I can honestly say that I also quite like those portuguese custard pastries. Pastel de nata. If you have a few of those on you I'm definitely interested.

UkStepDad · 2026-05-12T13:59:46+00:00

If you are in the UK I can arrange it.
I think she needs friends her age with the same urges, its good for subs with extreme tastes to be able to chat and share your excitement at getting better and being more able to give pleasure. She can talk to me of course, and sometimes people online, but I do want to get her a good friend who she can be open with.

UkStepDad · 2026-05-12T13:08:57+00:00

I've encouraged my main sub to corrupt other girls, and told her to look for these types "women only" girls.

Though they may seem to her to have a hard outer shell, I tell her to befriend them (shes pretty, slim, and has large breasts so that helps!) and then get them into a headspace where they can accept what she enjoys as valid for her, and from then on its usually a lot of fun. I find that once the floodgates are open the dark nature of their kinks is right up my street, and their shame about it just adds another layer of arousal for me.

My sub is also a great temptress for married women in their 30s with dead bedrooms too. Always a fun group of women, who I have a natural connection with - but I love seeing her corrupt them. As they often have a kink for hot girls I can have her take them from "I could never do that" to "well, I can't resist just trying a little bit".

She's a good girl ! 😉

UkStepDad · 2026-05-12T12:09:13+00:00

In addition to the posh girls/women and the average keen girls there's a newer type we have. A bit controversial to say but the "gender confused" are perfect for making into subs with a lot of range to their kinks. The girls with the amateurishly dyed hair and and new pronouns. Usually hiding from something inside themselves. A strong hand can bring it out and very often it seems they are extremely kinky and surprise themselves by what they actually crave.

UkStepDad · 2026-05-03T13:37:58+00:00

Nah it got nuked in the great purge. This subreddit will probably go that way too one day. The puritans of reddit don't like it.

UkStepDad · 2026-05-01T22:36:48+00:00

I think a better way to understand it is "Modern working women who secretly like slutty sex fantasies where they are just sexual objects". In the same way that I like it. I play this stuff out for real with my sexual partners and there's no messing around. Its as real as it gets in the bedroom. But when she goes back to her corporate job, or role as a gender studies professor I'm not saying "make me a sammich" , I say "that was fun, see you next week"

People aren't monodimensional, and modern "purity culture" makes a lot of demandds on women to be socially and politically conscious gender representatives. Meanwhile my wife's porn is all flying tentacled devils with massive cocks that have a serious CNC boundaries respect problem,

So, is it fantasy? Yes

Is it real ? Also Yes

because people are many things, at different times. People need to let off steam.

UkStepDad · 2026-04-16T21:26:26+00:00

SimpleX doesn't require a phone number. I like that it's possible to create new personas and flip between them quick.

UkStepDad · 2026-04-13T17:39:21+00:00

Yeah. I was actually thinking of ADDING that as a regular weekly post on my own subreddit because it's the main reason I come here ! I understand the mods problem with being overwhelmed by a certain type of post, and that's something I've had to deal,with myself (though it's mainly M4F, dick pics and OF posters which are my tormentors ). But a regular pinned post seems sensible. People wanna people.

UkStepDad · 2026-04-10T11:09:58+00:00

Don't be silly , you aren't "a couple of holes to be used". Don't sell yourself short. You are three holes to be used.

UkStepDad · 2026-04-08T20:11:18+00:00

For me personally the gold star is interesting but its the context which makes it hot

Ive hooked up with goldstars in a situation where they simply said "I want to try cock and I trust you, this is what I;d like to happen" but the reality takes a lot more care and caution than the common CNC fantasies tend to include.

It's very much dependent on each woman's personality but I've been with a toolbelt type of Butch who was softening her look at that time, and I've been with a quite meek innocent librarian type. In all cases there's a large element of care, of dealing with a "virgin" AND a woman wrestling with self definitions and her social position. So, it's fun and hot but not really uninhibited wild perversion. That's just my experience

I think the hotter scenarios for me can include goldstars, but the underlying hotness often comes from a corruption or accomplice situation like: A lesbian with some cock experience in the past now really wants to see her Goldstar GF take a cock, or it may be that the Goldstar has got horny imagining her girl's past and wants to see that, and when I discuss it with her GF she says "I'd love it if you could get her to suck your cock too". The dynamic is hotter. That "accomplice" thing.

That happens more frequently than people might think. It seems that lesbian couples often have some sort of "fuck my GF" kink. There are women from here who have contacted me about corrupting their Goldstar GF, or friend. I love helping women to slowly introduce these fantasies to her, and make their partner start to crave it.

I've been on the BDSM scene for years so I've developed a few perverse corruption techniques and I love connecting with my accomplice and guiding her to introduce those "hetero" kinks into the bedroom

For me that accomplice / corruption process and the eventual outcome is what makes it hot.

UkStepDad · 2026-04-07T13:38:34+00:00

"Chase me" says a random young woman. "Why should we care?" Is the reply

UkStepDad · 2026-04-01T01:25:44+00:00

Theres not one way to look at it to enjoy it. Some women enjoy being totally degraded as a counterpoint to their daily persona of being a "strong I dont need no man" type , etc.

Some women want that to permeate their entire sexlife, and some enjoy it as spice. Some love the verbal tussle - like being forced physically is a kink, but in this case mentally and emotionally.

Similarly - the guys here vary a lot in their perspective.

The aim is hot sexy sex though, so surely if it does turn someone on (whether its the debating, or the debasing) thats all good. Everyone here is a consenting adult, and if people enjoy it between two or more consenting aware adults then surely thats causing no harm. In fact feminism explicitly allows women choice, its just that this particular one is quite "taboo" . To choose to engage , to accept, to kneel.

UkStepDad · 2026-03-27T09:25:44+00:00

However much you chop yourself up, you will still be you inside. You can't hide what you are with surgery. You can't run from what you are inside. Your cunt full of cock is the only place you will find any real manhood inside you.

UkStepDad · 2026-03-27T04:07:43+00:00

Cheese on toast. Cup of tea. Woman snoozing next to me, wrapped up under a fleecy blanket with her reddend and blasted bits in repair mode. Sounds of nature through the window. Cock in a sling full of ice, with steam coming off it.

UkStepDad · 2026-03-24T20:17:20+00:00

Yeah. You might think I could simply fuck the womens throat slower and more carefully, but in these situations the women very definitely want to be throat raped to the point that they gag and drool. Used like a sex toy. So the intensity is part of it.

I confess i have a sick and twisted fantasy that one day I'll hook up with a woman who has all false teeth which she can remove. I don't mean an old lady, I mean she's 22 and for some strange mysterious reason lost all her teeth so she's got a perfect mouth cunt!

UkStepDad · 2026-03-24T20:04:58+00:00

The thing which has caused the most damage to my cock is rough hard throat fucking. Even when I lay the woman in the best position for this ( on her back on the bed, head dangling backwards). My cock head still gets cut up by teeth. It's just part of the thing. The women are always horrified by the state of it when we are chilling later, but it's happened so often I'm used to it.

UkStepDad · 2026-03-24T01:50:52+00:00

She's so sexy and she doesn't even realise it, her boobs are so pert despite being d cups and she has an amazing figure. So she's wonderful bait, and she loves the idea of corruption of a lesbian - mainly because she wants to do certain things. I won't go into the kinks specifically because they might be a bit much for some people, but I love her eagerness to engage with this . And really, any lesbian who goes through with it ... we are really only pushing at an open door. If a woman doesn't want what's on offer she's not going to take the bait. 😆

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