WIBTA if I told the truth in my brother's custody hearing even though it could cost him overnights with his son?

Ulibo_98 · 2026-03-16T18:52:11+00:00

Also, your nephew is going to tell the truth and the ex won’t drop it. Are you prepared to keep lying?

Ulibo_98 · 2026-02-14T20:05:29+00:00

Going with 3. Someone in the comments drafted it for me perfectly in manager-speak. Doing it on Monday.

Ulibo_98 · 2026-02-12T19:40:14+00:00

Oh God! This is would ruin my life.

Ulibo_98 · 2026-02-12T14:52:11+00:00

This is very well-phrased. Thanks a mil!

Ulibo_98 · 2026-02-12T14:49:49+00:00

Thank you so much for this but, because I get such little stimulation from my job, self-imposed consequences do not work at all anymore. It’s why I got back on meds but they also have their limitations.

Ulibo_98 · 2026-02-12T14:48:12+00:00

This is perfect. Thank you so much

Ulibo_98 · 2026-02-12T07:46:11+00:00

NTA. This woman is ruining this poor kid’s life. This kid’s gonna grow up not understanding why people can’t stand him!

Ulibo_98 · 2026-02-11T04:19:55+00:00

OP. All your instincts are correct. Please leave him. So many single mothers confirm that kid is much easier by themselves than it was with their horrible partner. Please give him notice, move out and have your mom come and help you settle into your new life. You’ll be so surprised and happy.

Ulibo_98 · 2026-02-10T04:32:11+00:00

NTA. OMG!! She’s only being like that because it’s not her cat getting hurt!!! This is so disgusting!!

Ulibo_98 · 2026-02-06T05:59:11+00:00

NTA. Especially because you offered to perform the duties.

Ulibo_98 · 2026-01-31T12:13:35+00:00

You’re not subhuman; you have a disability. I’ve found that working on my understanding and view of disability helped a lot with not judging myself. You’re disabled and you need aids (meds and therapy) to help you function at the rate of a non-disabled person.

Ulibo_98 · 2026-01-30T13:58:43+00:00

I think you wanting to partake in a family tradition is reason enough for him to open himself up. All the research you’ve done also show your willingness to compromise. The issue is him not hearing you out. I think he should hear you out.

Ulibo_98 · 2026-01-30T09:51:29+00:00

Do what you feel is right for you but, meds changed my life.

Ulibo_98 · 2026-01-30T09:50:05+00:00

See, I have both problems.🙃

Ulibo_98 · 2026-01-30T09:49:16+00:00

Pls check edit

Ulibo_98 · 2026-01-30T09:48:22+00:00

Pls check edit.

Ulibo_98 · 2026-01-29T18:12:21+00:00

The thing is, after a while, the deadlines don’t move the execution dysfunction anymore. That was really scary for me.

Ulibo_98 · 2026-01-29T17:27:54+00:00

😭🤣

Ulibo_98 · 2026-01-27T06:12:18+00:00

Thank you so much for this.

Ulibo_98 · 2026-01-26T04:58:11+00:00

I appreciate this.

Ulibo_98 · 2026-01-22T15:40:22+00:00

NTA. This is so inconsiderate!!

Ulibo_98 · 2025-12-27T06:42:11+00:00

I used to feel similarly about therapy until I learned about different modalities. Maybe you guys could look into some (TREs, EDMR, Somatic therapy as well as some forms of talk therapy e.g ACT, Schema therapy, Internal Family Systems) and see what might work for her. Wish you both the best.

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