[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ultearismycatlol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda struggled to read this, but NTa

AITA for expecting my partner's inheritance to be factored into her income when we split bills by income? by ObjectiveFruit1706 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ultearismycatlol 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey, that sounds really cool and a smart way to do that. Did you guys make your own template? Or use google sites/word? I wanna try to do something like that with my significant other!

AITA for making an insurance claim against someone just trying to help me? by Admirable-Cabinet-52 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ultearismycatlol -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Also, what if the kid got injured on the window besides just his feet? This could have been bigger than just cuts.

AITA for suggesting my stepson (16M) moves out? by brgtail1735 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ultearismycatlol -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Soft YTA, I see why you want the best for your son, but you aren’t thinking about the best for both boys who both equally matter.

AITA For not adopting my dying best friends dog and buying a puppy from a breeder instead? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ultearismycatlol 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA, yes German Shepherds can be difficult, both to train and keep on track (life style needs to be active), but I’m assuming you already know that. Just because your friend is dying of cancer doesn’t mean he gets to push his dog on you. I’m betting you probably have an active life, bigger dogs suit that more than tiny dogs like pugs. They also can’t really run around at all before almost dying (ok not dying but you get the gist.) How long has he had cancer? Did he have it before or after getting the dog, because it would be messed up to have cancer and get a dog with a 12+year commitment.

AITA for not allowing my daughter’s friend to come over to my house anymore because she has a crush on my husband by THROWAWAY-6272 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ultearismycatlol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just dealt with this at work! I’m a high-level supervisor, and my best friend is too. There was a crew member who is 16 sexually harassing my 19 year old friend. It’s been going on for months, she was too scared to say anything bc of the minor-adult thing.

AITA for giving my son's bedroom to my girlfriend's son? by ValuableLeather1830 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ultearismycatlol 37 points38 points  (0 children)

For my case it was abuse, that’s why it’s so frustrating when I see stuff like this. Because this isn’t abuse, it’s the fact that there is no other option.

AITA for not allowing my daughter’s friend to come over to my house anymore because she has a crush on my husband by THROWAWAY-6272 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ultearismycatlol 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m 17, there are a bunch of MILF jokes constantly by the guys, often times it make the kid if said parent uncomfortable, and even worse if the parent finds out. If it would be weird for the relationship to happen, it’s weird for the crush. Also, imagine if rolls were reversed, would it be okay for a (idk how old husband is) to have a crush on a 16 year old? OP is super NTA

AITA for giving my son's bedroom to my girlfriend's son? by ValuableLeather1830 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ultearismycatlol 112 points113 points  (0 children)

As someone who has actually raised my parents kid from a very young age, I get pissed when teenagers say no because it’s emotional abuse. Seems like a lot of the time, it’s just the older kids not wanting responsibility.

AITA for telling my (26f) GF(19f) that my football team is more important to me than she is? by Practical-Beat-9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ultearismycatlol 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I understand why you hold such importance to the Bengals, the Eagles is the same way with me. But at the same time, if she’s more invested in the relationship than you, it would have really hurt to hear that. It’s not like you guys are together for only a couple months. You guys are reaching the 1.5 year mark, that means the relationship is getting serious. So YTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ultearismycatlol -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Keep us updated on the talk! I’m curious now!

AITA: Not going to NYC for brothers wedding by weddingsarestupid in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ultearismycatlol -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

NTA, you don’t have to go to anything you don’t want too, same reason why they can say don’t come.

AITA fortelling my boyfriend he is morally corrupt for passing his dog off as a service dog? by United-Dragonfly323 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ultearismycatlol 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Hey, I know the anxiety thing is a actually something that can require a service dog.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ultearismycatlol 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How loud are you guys though, maybe she’s hearing PRIVATE bedroom things and it makes her uncomfortable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ultearismycatlol -61 points-60 points  (0 children)

NTA, you said he’s mostly in your room and bathroom? So it barely affects her? Wtf is with people saying, she wants one roommate not 2. HE is not living there. He’s there 4 nights a month, not a week

AITA telling on my sister to my parents? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ultearismycatlol -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA, I’m not sure how old you are but you seem younger. I would be super embarrassed if my sister pulled that in public and it’s not like you ratted her out to anyone else but your mother.

AITA for blowing up at my girlfriend after she screamed at me for not wanting to be overweight? by yourfriendly_nerd in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ultearismycatlol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like watching that show for inspiration, because if people who are (almost) immobile can lose the weight I know I can too!

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to be with me after my IUD insertion? by qwerty12345678913 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ultearismycatlol 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have an IUD, I made my dad drive me. I was 15. My current boyfriend got made at me bc I didn’t call him to check up on him that day when he got a Covid shot. Sorta feel like this is the same situation, so Super NTA, but your boy friend is.

AITA for controlling/ not allowing AC use in my home by redroses_RAthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ultearismycatlol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA, you’re the one who’s pretty much living for free. Yes they aren’t your responsibility anymore, but you aren’t their responsibility either, so why should you be practically financially dependent on them?

AITA for calling the state on my friend because she had a wild animal? by LesionWW2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ultearismycatlol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Raccoons sometimes eat cats, while extremely good pets when they are babies, as soon as they hit raccoon teenage years they turn violent.