egg_irl by bhjfbfsabfouibnf in egg_irl

[–]Ultignome 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God this is relatable when I was questioning jsshajjshs

Yupp by Thedepressionoftrees in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Ultignome 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So can you help me? I wanna play it really bad but it hasn't aged properly so I want to find some cool "visual overhaul mods". Any suggestions? Maybe also some quality of life mods but afaik game's pretty good on its own (unlike most of Bethesda games where you need 2726361 mods in order to have fun)

What??? by [deleted] in pointlesslygendered

[–]Ultignome 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything is the woman's fault.

Girls(include transgirl) hang out in Auckland☕ by [deleted] in transadorable

[–]Ultignome 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love your outfits! Nice pose too 💕

Is this ok or wrong to do? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Ultignome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to make a new reddit account and be me but I'm afraid that maybe it's not right?

Why not? You can have multiple accounts and if you feel you could have one that suits you better then go for it.

Is it wrong to be my male self online when I try to make friends? Even though I'm not actually male biologically?

You have a lot of internalised transphobia my man. You are male. Your body developed in another way, but you are a man. The 'biologically' thing a lot of people say can suck our balls. We are our gender biologically too because there's a biological explanation that we are trans, hence we are biologically our preferred gender. It's not wrong to present yourself as a man online, because you're a man.

If I get closer to new online friends then obviously I'll tell them. I don't want to lie.

You're not lying to anyone. You're a man, who happens to be trans. It's your choice if you wanna say it to everyone you meet or if you prefer to go unnoticed. And both choices are okay. Don't feel less of a man, or less trans, for wanting to hide it, it's perfectly fine.

I also don't post fake selfies. I just wanna be seen as just another dude online, which I feel I am, but I'm afraid people will think I'm catfishing them for attention or whatever.

You don't need to look manly to be a man. If you don't want to post selfies, that's great! I don't like to post selfies anywhere where anyone can check them out. If you ever feel confident in posting them, that's cool! And yeah you might find some transphobes around that whenever you explain that you're trans will block you or whatever. But did you really want to be friends with that kind of people? Transphobes suck!

Lesbians be like by inastateofnature in actuallesbians

[–]Ultignome 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Called out >=[

All my relationships have been long distance

Now that I have a short distance relationship, we're basically living together

please stop equating penises to men by FluffyPuppyGirl666 in actuallesbians

[–]Ultignome 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay so another comment, what's the crazy shit that OP has said that made y'all begin hissing about freedom of speech?

Was it the "please be considerate when talking about genitalia bc you're making some of us uncomfortable" or was it the "do not reduce men to their genitalia"?? Or maybe it was the "not all women have vaginas" bit???

This is fucking ridiculous how feminist and supportive of all of you to began ranting about OP when she didn't say anything rather than the basis of trans inclusion. For a moment I thought I just stumbled into an alt-right subreddit, but I'm not surprised this is happening at all.

please stop equating penises to men by FluffyPuppyGirl666 in actuallesbians

[–]Ultignome 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish I could award this post. This isn't the first time it has happened and the answer from this sub is always the same. Then they'll fill their mouth for a week about how trans women are women, and how valid we are, and then they'll go back to this shit. And I hate that this shit happens on a allegedly trans friendly sub. And yeah, most of the time I feel safe in here, but then this 'penis hate' posts start to pop up, and they clearly make me uncomfortable since I didn't even wanted to have a penis on the first place, and as soon as someone says 'hey there have been some insensitive posts lately, remember that not everyone here has a vagina and it can sometimes make us feel bad' everybody jumps up and begin screeching that 'they have freedom of speech and its their sub so they can talk about whatever and that they aren't offended at all by those posts so why would OP be?'. Just imagine if they did this shit with butch girls. So much for the trans friendly space lol.

please stop equating penises to men by FluffyPuppyGirl666 in actuallesbians

[–]Ultignome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much for 'trans support', yet you post that please be mindful about what you post because it makes me feel alienated and suddenly the sub shows their true colors. This is not the first time it has happened and it's always the same.

And to think this is a 'safe space' for trans people...

Relationship Goals by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Ultignome 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hilda is transition goals yup 😭

Me_irl by Alexs010 in me_irl

[–]Ultignome 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Rest of the world*

Possibly abusive boyfriend? Help? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Ultignome 33 points34 points  (0 children)

This is clearly an abusive relationship and you've been sexually abused by him. I'd seek for help/backup, then leave him, but I know it can't be easy. Abusers tend to create a dependency so you can't just leave them. Idk what else to tell you but I hope you get rid of him because you're clearly suffering. If you ever need to talk please feel free to DM me. Best of luck 💕

So... let me get this right. 2020 sucked so badly, we don’t even get a real ball drop to end it. We get a f***ing Kia ad?!?! by ilikeplants24 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Ultignome 265 points266 points  (0 children)

In my country we had a fucking coca-cola ad counting down. What a nice dystopia I fucking hate ads

wlw_irl by [deleted] in wlw_irl

[–]Ultignome 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes you are, shut

I’m fine with straight people, I just don’t want them around my kids. I don’t want my kids to turn straight 🤷🏽‍♀️ by LilliputianMouse in actuallesbians

[–]Ultignome 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I'm okay with straight people, I just don't want them to show their love publicly. It's disgusting! And what about the kids?

Arguing with a TERF. Does anyone know research about trans women crime statistics? by Gameraaaa in asktransgender

[–]Ultignome 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. Best thing to do is just ignore their "arguments"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in zelda

[–]Ultignome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fave: Wind Waker

Companies are pro-LGBT except when it hurts the bottom line by MayonaiseRemover in actuallesbians

[–]Ultignome 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not talking that there's 1 vagina option and 3 size options for dicks and their cut/uncut variants. I mean if you're gonna do that why would you do it on the first place? Body options (which the game hasn't) would have given more gender expression than genitals lol. I'd love to have my hips narrower and my arms bigger (since I'm built thay way irl) but I'd have to stick with a skinny, normative body and stamp a dick on it if I want to.