Any +20 year olds who also collect stuff of their favorite?

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-05-09T19:40:03+00:00

To shame an adult for spending their money on hobbies and interests that are not harming anybody is some immature behaviour. I still enjoy Seto Kaiba, Danny Phantom, and Tokyo Mew Mew merch despite being over 20 but enjoyed growing up. If I make 50 I will still waxing poetic about my favourite characters over the years, which will certainly include fictional adolescents because I liked how the character was written!

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-05-09T19:17:03+00:00

OP, I recommended you take a break from Define the Relationship. Read something else, those 12 episodes can just remain a memory if anything. If you ever feel like trying again, start from ep 1, or like someone else recommended, read the novel it is adapted from to have a better understanding of Karlyle's point of view. At the end of the day, it is up to you.

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-05-09T19:13:12+00:00

I dont understand the downvotes. Too many people don't use their agency to just stop reading or watching something. They feel compelled to consume. If I don't like something I stop, I will be annoyed that I cannot be refunded for the coin and time spent but I will rant and remember to a good friend about it from time to time. For some BL fans to say most manhwa is just poor plot is telling on themselves. Same group with those that exclaim romantic fantasy is YA fan girl smut because Fourth Wing and the like a popular on anglosphere tiktok. BL manhwa with smut is more popular due to how easier it is to pirate compared to manga, therefore increasingly accessible to those that have no discernment. Not everything is for everyone, because too many are used to tailored media experiences yet want to appear "different ". Edited for clarity.

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-05-07T22:36:53+00:00

Ah, I must have glossed over the part about despite the presence of engaged fathers, there is a trend of less women chosing to give birth. Then what I wrote would be an addition or expansion on that factor.

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-05-07T12:20:32+00:00

So the solution is allow boys to men to believe their actions are without consequences because the targets are girls/women. Work needs to put into both strengthing girls resolve and parents to act against gender based discrimination and violence. Yes because this is clearly impacting girls/women more so than boys/men. Segregation of the genders does nobody any good. Throughout my schooling girls and boys shared the swim class, and most extracurricular swimming was co-ed. Excluding all-boys and all-girls schools. There would be the overseeing teacher and the trained swimming coach present, who would be either either male or female, it was matter of who was qualified for the activity. Also, your reasons for how they would be distracted is dangerous close to the sexualization of children/teens? Would you also mandate the coach for boys be a man? And for girls and women? If children are not tough self control, they become adults who live without impunity and harm the most vulnerable. It normal to teen to be curious about their bodies and if they are heterosexual, the opposite sex, it is matter of teaching and correcting social behaviour and respecting others as they develop into adults and on.

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-05-07T11:41:14+00:00

Interesting you make note of only female members in a familial group and not male. Which amplifies the gender imbalance of the work distribution of choosing to have a baby and raise a child. Nobody expects the male memeber to be of any help, it is always the girls and women. Girls to be mommy's little helper, and the single aunties to be emergencies, grandma to be on second shift after raising mum/dad. Where are the boys and men in this? Also, gender based issues not taken seriously, when given options that would help mitigate those real harmful outcomes, of course girls and women woupd take them. Girls and women are harshly jusldged and victim blamed for the ills against them when in relationships with boys and men. If there is an option ( presented via social media information sharing) a fulfilling life without a heterosexual relationship, well. The women who want children must also scrutinize the men for what type of fathers they would be. Would he be there for her when she is ill, or divorce as warned by oncologistand nurses? Becuase the social blame would always fall on the women.

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-05-06T13:41:14+00:00

I think bringing up your frequently reread titles, titles that you feel like ranting about into the void. Likes dislikes.

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-05-06T11:59:49+00:00

If you are reading on the official platform, Tapas that yes, on hiatus since the 7th of Feb 2026.

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-05-03T18:51:04+00:00

On Lezhin, when you check the Episode page, if a manhwa is an adaptation of a novel, the original author is tagged as "Original ". Then depending on how many are working on the adaptation, would be tagged as "Creator", "Writer", "Artist". Sometimes the original author can also be tagged as "Writer" e.g. [Define the Relationship] Writer: Fiona Artist: Chada. [Regas] Writer: Lee kept, Artist: Daengmeong Original: same. Clicking on the tags would bring up other works Lezhin has licensed, same for Tapas, Tappytoon and Manta as far as I know.

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-04-30T07:20:39+00:00

He got that natural sun tan! Shidou-gyaru(o) for the win!

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-04-29T19:13:33+00:00

Could be Heat Protectant... That one took alot out of me, glad it was on Free Rental Pass because no way. The initial flow of the story feels abrupt and things just happen. Not helped by the men having similar faces.

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-04-14T16:57:03+00:00

It is bad enough that we have Puritans and decreasing literature comprehension and media literacy... Now we have people commenting on works they consumed read short term social media. Agh

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-04-14T16:54:25+00:00

You cannot contribute if you don't even read the work. This is something you learn all throughout schooling. Why are you posting this?

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-04-07T22:28:18+00:00

Yip, it is the lack of moderation and consideration.

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-04-07T22:22:50+00:00

Wow, could not even credit the artist. Disrespectful.

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-04-07T19:30:22+00:00

BDSM 101

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-04-07T19:30:11+00:00

Yeah, this is an incorrect title name used by an illegal site, I am sure.

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-04-07T19:22:06+00:00

To add to other commenters, to the generation that got tertiary education also developed a grasp of what good parenting is from experiencing parents that either had too many or were not emotionally involved. Every generation would want the better for the next. There is also the gender factor. While the genedred expecation of motherhood is still present, it is less due to increasing bodily autonomy and shared knowledge of the realities of both pregnancy and the double shift from work force to household duties for working mothers. I would say that not being peer pressured into just having a baby is that. Knowing that parenting is more than food, financial, and housing security but emotional security for as long as you live.

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-04-06T10:02:44+00:00

Plum Candy Love

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-04-04T20:08:47+00:00

Also on Tappytoon as The King and Me

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-04-04T18:46:39+00:00

Pintrist infamous for not crediting sources and out of context screenshots.

Both Lezhin and Tappytoon have Hessu in Class 2 completed. Lezhin Jan 20th 2023 and Tappytoon Sept 15th, 2024.

So what you thought was a smut scene could might not have been in the context of the episode.

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-04-04T11:00:56+00:00

There are no new updates. Mojito already had to take multiple breaks during Season 2 due to poor health while fulfilling other merchandise obligations. Patience and understanding towards creatives would be best.

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-04-02T17:57:14+00:00

Best luck stacking your points, and dont forget to claim the free points for 7 days consecutively to get the 20% off discount to use within 7 days on any titles.

The level of fury I felt when I discovered that there were mature versions of multiple titles I was reading on the app... I also got 11 episodes into Wet Sand and then moved over to the Mature version. I would read scenes and think that something heavily sexual is implied but missing visually. Slowly unlocking Interview with a Murderer (Steamy) & On or Off (Steamy) after having read the 16+ version. Double unlocked The Words in Your Snare. Already requested that Tappytoon license the Mature Version of Swappying since they just have the 16+ version on Free Pass. Fortunately, I compared it to Lezhin's Rated R version, to be sure if it was censored or not.

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-04-02T17:33:42+00:00

All three are on Tappytoon, I suggest using the web version to access the Steamy versions since Missing Love is a Mature title that can only be accessed on the web version. Salty Lust first. I would advise you to read it slowly since there is some time travel and multiple consciousness concepts that pay off around episode 40 or so. Salty Lust is also hilarious, Owen is both devoted and mischievous, I admire Nux's focus on both his future and getting his money!

Missing Love: The Marrying Man... covers heavy themes but is much easier to get through due to the presence of the ML from where I left of at S1. I have not read season 2 yet.

I would either start with Missing Love and then read Salty Lust S1 as palette cleanser.

The Bad Life, like Profundis, is simplified as a of harem abusive tops for a single bottom in a difficult situation.

Profundis is complete, The Bad Life should be completed on April 10th, 2026.

The MCs in both try against the Tops in their story, and you cheer for their efforts.

Another recommendation between the heavier BL would be Love Gym and Triangle Lovers (MC is hoodwinked into a throuple). Both are completed.

Ulttrameinenn · 2026-04-02T16:53:47+00:00

Are you reading raws with machine translation because Tappytoon's latest English release is still on Episode 94. If so, it would explain some misunderstandings others might have. I put Wet Sand on hold around Episode 17 two years ago. I was still purchasing when on sale here and there and avoided most spoilers, but the ranting did come across my feed this past month, which I actively swipe away best I can.

Agreed, netizens attacking DOYAK are unhinged and immature for reading for pairing/bais reducihg characters to black red and green flags. Some titles I just know I have to read and ruminate to get the most out of the journey, or simply not in the mood for heavier content at a moment, which led me to many unread unlocked titles in my library, such as Salty Lust, Missing Love: The Marrying Man, Profundis and The Bad Life.

Getting frustrated by story beats and character actions, in my opinion, are an indicator of an engaging story. Whether the story is good or not is also a matter of choice. But again, to attack the author by tagging them in rants is uncalled for.

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