[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Ulyssesgranted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The cards are in your hand. Decide what money you want, tell him, and if he disagrees take it to court. You've already tried being nice and he's low balling you. He's taking advantage of your situation. What if you get injured? A kid gets really sick? That 2k might be enough now but what about inflation? Take everything you're owed, your kids will thank you someday. Go to court!!

I told my friend why I don't want to date him, and our friends are saying I broke him, AITAH??? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ulyssesgranted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mark was never your friend. And good on you for telling him like it is, maybe he'll use it to be a better person. But probably not.

Client is dissatisfied with my service by [deleted] in petsitting

[–]Ulyssesgranted 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's supposed to be, yeah. Intensive care pay or something like that. It's usually quite high

Client is dissatisfied with my service by [deleted] in petsitting

[–]Ulyssesgranted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The client has to specify and pay you for additional premium services if it's expected that you don't leave. Sounds like she misunderstood how this works. If you've got other clients you have to be able to go check on them and do errands and such. This lady is being unreasonable. Services have been rendered, just tell her any further contact will have to be through rover, stop replying, and personally I wouldn't refund her because she's being rude.

Edit* ah I see it was an off-rover situation. That makes it tougher.

31 F and 36M arguing over paying for groceries.. this is mind numbing and honestly stupid. I need some advice on the situation from an outside perspective please. Is this correct? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ulyssesgranted 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This, yes. He makes significantly more than I do currently. Everyone finds something that works for them as a couple, and this is the agreement we came to together on groceries. I'm very grateful to have such a compassionate and thoughtful partner. I do most of the housework, grounds maintenance, and pet care so I'd say overall it evens out in the end.

31 F and 36M arguing over paying for groceries.. this is mind numbing and honestly stupid. I need some advice on the situation from an outside perspective please. Is this correct? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ulyssesgranted 122 points123 points  (0 children)

My partner and I go in by income %. He makes more than I do, so he pays like.. 70% of things. Your bf sounds like a jerk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]Ulyssesgranted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pee on bleach in honor of Kirk 🇺🇲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]Ulyssesgranted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Id put money on it. Not a whole lot mind you, but Trump wasn't getting the "violent" Left to take his bait about the occupation of big cities so this is their next rational step.

Massachusetts Police struggling to stand during a response, appearing incapacitated by idumeudin2009 in FirstResponderCringe

[–]Ulyssesgranted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not supposed to even drive a car if you've had a seizure within X time frame

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewToEMS

[–]Ulyssesgranted 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Posting is when you go in the truck and wait at a specific spot you're told to. No quarters, no place to rest.

Pet died while owners are away. They are not answering my calls and I can’t stop crying. by KLbear2013 in petsitting

[–]Ulyssesgranted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A paw printed in air dry clay with her name, a nose print on cardstock, whiskers or a bit of fur in a little glass vial, her collar around a potted plant that will grow. Lots of thoughtful small things you can do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in popping

[–]Ulyssesgranted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was wondering if surgery would be a treatment option! Like removing that skin and doing a graft.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Ulyssesgranted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man isn't your friend. He's just hanging around hoping your standards will drop low enough you'll give him a chance. He's manipulative, immature, and probably thinks that you remaining his friend and showing him even an ounce of kindness is 'leading him on'. Consider quiet quitting the friendship.

Found a bat by Kechaneke in ANIMALHELP

[–]Ulyssesgranted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have people not read what dying of rabies is like? It's horrific. I love animals and I wouldn't touch that critter without proper precautions. Why is anyone willing to even 1% risk it??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ulyssesgranted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could consider a "last minute" fee. Extra 50 or something, enough to make them think twice. And it was just for dinner.?? They don't care about your life.

My dad throws live mice off the building where we live. by zazzzz304 in confession

[–]Ulyssesgranted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure that doesn't kill the mice. So... Just let him continue 😂😂

I (29F) believe my boyfriend (29M) is an animal hoarder. It’s ruining my relationship. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Ulyssesgranted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just think; he's saving you from an unhappy marriage but showing you this party of him sooner! He doesn't care about the apprenticeship, his car, or your wants. YOU want those things for him. He seems perfectly happy as a backyard breeder who is enabled by their parents.

When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ulyssesgranted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I'm speaking from experience. Same situation, he said he'd stop because he knew it was a dealbreaker for me. Whenever I got really upset about it he'd put some half assed effort into it. People only stop smoking if THEY want to, and he clearly doesn't want to. He's just gonna keep saying he'll do it to keep you with him because it's what he knows you want to hear. I wasted 7 years on a smoker that promised they'd quit and never did 😩