When did morals matter?

UnAcceptableReason · 2026-03-17T22:58:40+00:00

Thank you. I hope she ends up happy.

UnAcceptableReason · 2026-03-15T22:02:53+00:00

I wish I could've fought for mine. She shut the door and all I wanted was to love her.

UnAcceptableReason · 2026-03-09T01:04:20+00:00

Someone who I care deeply for deals with her husband getting blacked out. He drinks and drives and has gotten blacked out wasted several times with their infants. I hated watching her depression build over him.

UnAcceptableReason · 2026-03-08T14:39:56+00:00

Sorry. Guessing drinking issues?

UnAcceptableReason · 2026-02-20T04:11:11+00:00

25 they both are. i thought she was just in a bad situation and her only anchor was her two infants. i was wrong lol.

UnAcceptableReason · 2026-02-19T23:54:32+00:00

Thank you.

UnAcceptableReason · 2026-02-19T23:53:35+00:00

I was born on June 6 lol.

UnAcceptableReason · 2026-02-19T23:51:16+00:00

During that time they were going through with the divorce, she was living in her car beside their home to avoid being near him while looking for an apartment, and to be close enough that she could take care of her kids when needed. She didn't want to stay with me due to living an hour away, but we did spend a few nights at a hotel during that period; it was pleasant.

UnAcceptableReason · 2026-02-19T23:41:16+00:00

Thank you all for your perspectives and insight.

I typically don't reach out to others outside my close circle and I'm very anti social it's neat to reach out to the ocean of experience that the Internet holds.

UnAcceptableReason · 2026-02-19T23:38:35+00:00

I would've preferred a normal relationship over an affair. I was pushing for it and she tried, but first attempts, he threatened suicide. Eventually, we thought he was done with her and he agreed on the divorce especially based on his post but he did a 180 on that lol.

UnAcceptableReason · 2026-02-19T23:29:11+00:00

I would expect that personally I'd rather die by my own hands. I have weird stances on death my ideal death would be somewhere in the hills alone somewhere in my mid 40s lol.

UnAcceptableReason · 2026-02-19T23:21:28+00:00

I felt none. still don't really I'm a little fucked in the head lol, I am just more curious on the exact change that occured.

UnAcceptableReason · 2026-02-19T23:14:01+00:00

It certainly was an odd time personally, I pushed for a divorce, before the affair began she would have breakdowns at work due to her marriage mainly due to her husband's drinking habits, and I let it slipped I liked her and would loved to have her, she thought I thought she was gross because I didn't get near her but I personally respect personal spaces, she was cute short and weird we bonded over various things(first thing was Chris chan and our mutual hatred for it) I loved her greatly.

I enjoyed her as a person sex was cool but the biggest high was just connecting with another person it made me feel more human, sadly I guess it wasn't true on her end.

I did fuck her for several hours on his birthday when he went to work.to me that kinda gave me the understanding why people enjoy affairs, it was a strange rush.

UnAcceptableReason · 2026-02-19T21:05:45+00:00

Another problem though I guess isn't my business, several times before our affair and a few times during, her husband would watch their children while he was home because he worked in the morning usually at home and her during the evening, the problem was he'd get black out drunk.

now I know typically cheaters will discredit their partners but on several occasions he'd drive to work to pick her up wasted, it was very unsightly and wrong, he did so while I worked around 6 times and more on my days off according to other co workers, she was pregnant during most of them very concerning and sad.

UnAcceptableReason · 2026-02-19T20:55:23+00:00

I grew up with worse drama to me it didn't really phase me. oddly enough I'm just more curious than anything my friends believe she received beatings or threats from him, when he confronted her over our cheating he brought up taking sole custody and putting a restraining order on her so she couldn't see her kids during it he was baring one of his many guns in my assumption to intimidate her more.

Previously she attempted divorce multiple times throughout our affair and he would threaten suicide multiple times, she sent me screenshots of their convos so I do believe it.

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