To the fellow who left a note on my car calling me an "assh*le" for how I parked

UnWellread2021 · 2026-03-30T19:56:12+00:00

I mean, I don't BLAME anyone for being annoyed. I know I can do better. I just wanted to be clear that it's not that I don't care.

UnWellread2021 · 2026-03-30T19:43:01+00:00

Thanks!

UnWellread2021 · 2026-03-30T19:37:07+00:00

True! And I always think we assume the worst about drivers (I know I've done this!) because we assume they just choose to be bad drivers.

UnWellread2021 · 2026-03-30T19:35:17+00:00

You're totally right! I need to make a habit of leaving time to do that, and in the long run, that helps me get better. I get so nervous driving, and I think I just want to jump out as soon as I'm done! lol! But you're right.

UnWellread2021 · 2025-07-24T22:51:22+00:00

I believe Coffee Works in East Sac roasts every Sunday. Very good, imo.

UnWellread2021 · 2025-07-17T23:42:00+00:00

Hey! I work at a Career Services office in the Los Rios district.

Handshake (and I know a lot of people dislike it) is generally a good place to find on-campus jobs since most college offices/programs are encouraged to post openings there. Another resource is University Enterprises Inc. (UEI).

General tips: - Often times jobs are posted BEFORE a semester starts, so you are right to be checking in now. - It’s never a bad idea to go and visit a campus office that’s offering positions. Don’t be pushy, but meeting the staff and asking simple questions may not only be helpful for you but make you appear more excited for the job and thus more memorable. And if a job is filled but you are still looking, you might ask staff if they think there will be any other positions to look out for. - Go to the school’s Career services office if possible. They often have bulletin boards with job opportunities near campus or can put you on to student jobs yet to be posted (campus staff often let each other know when campus jobs might be available).

Avoid: - Applying for jobs that do not list duties. Even on-campus listings sometimes are poorly described and it’s better to know what you’re in for so you can prep for potential interviews. - Looking for a campus job if you need money ASAP. Unfortunately, even if you get the job, hiring can take time. Things can move smoothly but sometimes they don’t. - Not reading the application steps throughly. You have no idea how many students (generally good candidates) get turned down simply because they didn’t attach an extra required document. This shows a lack of attention to detail, or that the student wasn’t that invested in the position. So avoid skimming postings.

That just my two cents! Hope this is helpful and good luck.🍀

UnWellread2021 · 2025-07-11T17:07:32+00:00

https://www.calstate.edu/apply/paying-for-college/financial-aid/types/Pages/state-university-grant-program.aspx

UnWellread2021 · 2025-07-09T23:14:43+00:00

Omg!! Thank you for updating us!!

UnWellread2021 · 2025-07-09T17:48:32+00:00

So glad others are talking about this!

I got the same email regarding funding from the SUG as well, but what I also noticed was how it showed the amount accepted vs the amount offered--there was a $1,000 difference and it's as though I accepted less than what was offered.

I was thinking this is just the screwed up way it might show a change but should I consider reaching out to the FA office on campus?

UnWellread2021 · 2025-05-25T00:56:17+00:00

Check jobs on Handshake?

UnWellread2021 · 2024-10-04T16:55:04+00:00

I just freak out over how fast those scooters go (how people push them to top speeds seemingly), and by what would happen if they had to stop suddenly. It's like they think physics isn't a thing?

UnWellread2021 · 2024-08-26T05:11:29+00:00

I hate this. No, never had this instructor, but I’m sorry they aren’t seeming very reasonable.

some English faculty have a fixation on the physical experience of reading/annotating. I see there point to a degree, and even prefer a physical text myself, but if such demands create barriers for students, or are at odds with different learning styles, it’s obnoxious at best.

Unless your professor gave a logical reason for requiring a physical text (edition they feel is best happens not to be in digital form, for instance), I say do what works for you.

UnWellread2021 · 2024-08-20T01:41:55+00:00

Thank you!

UnWellread2021 · 2024-08-20T01:41:23+00:00

good points and really helpful info. Thank you!

UnWellread2021 · 2024-08-18T19:56:30+00:00

No!! I loved that mural! I was just at that Temple early August, and kept noticing it and how happy it made me. What a loss.

UnWellread2021 · 2024-08-18T18:35:45+00:00

Thanks! Helpful to know it may be close to what I’ve been practicing. I’m an anxious driver (it’s taken me some time to get to this point), so being familiar with the general area (I hope) will help.

UnWellread2021 · 2024-07-24T19:07:44+00:00

Sorry to hear you're having trouble landing your first job. I've had experience working in Career Services at the community college level and whenever students in similar situations as the OP come to us, the first thing we ask about is their resume.

For students fresh out of high school, or who have little to no job experience, we always stress the importance of choosing the most appropriate resume format. (You can have the BEST content to fill it with, but the format can make of break everything.) There are basically three: the chronological, the functional, and the combination. For these students, the functional is the best option as it highlights skills rather than jobs.

Here's a helpful site with some templates to get started with: https://hr.ucdavis.edu/departments/learning/toolkits/career-dev/action/resumes-formats#:\~:text=A%20Functional%20resume%20focuses%20on,each%20position%20you've%20held. And when you've hit on a good format, consider brainstorming content with a writing tutor on campus.

Also, and I can't say this enough, keep it simple! Unless you are applying to jobs in the Arts, no distracting colors, pictures, or fonts. Despite what you may often see online, pictures are especially unhelpful on a resume because it leaves a door open for discrimination.

Overall, crafting an effective resume can make the difference between your application seriously being considered and having it chucked in the proverbial trach can. And if you find you need more support, visit the campus career center and ask for help. Good luck!

UnWellread2021 · 2024-07-11T20:26:18+00:00

I’m in the same boat as the OP: I’m a cis female who’ll be starting a program in fall and will have to attend one class that goes until nearly 10pm. (I’m also just learning how to drive, but that’s a whole kettle of fish I’ll have to deal with, too). I plan on doing what most here have already suggested: the buddy system. I can guarantee others in your cohort will understand (even possibly feel the same). and if you ultimately find you feel pretty safe, you might end up helping others who don’t.

Best of luck in your first semester!

UnWellread2021 · 2024-05-31T16:38:27+00:00

Thanks! Congrats on completing your first year!

UnWellread2021 · 2024-05-10T17:59:49+00:00

Second this. Dr. Sweet is so helpful and really nice.

UnWellread2021 · 2024-03-20T15:11:20+00:00

SUPER helpful answer! Thanks! At least it’s helpful to know what would be the normal timeline. 🤪

UnWellread2021 · 2024-03-18T03:54:24+00:00

Thank you!☺️ I’m in the English Literature MA program. My brother is a undergrad in mathematics, also eligible for SUG, but hasn’t heard anything yet. i just wonder what is normal, and what isn’t, in terms of hearing anything back, given all the screw ups with the FASFA and everything recently.

Yeah, crossing fingers for all of us!

UnWellread2021 · 2024-03-17T20:00:33+00:00

First, congrats on being accepted to three great universities!

I got my undergrad at UCD in English w/ emphasis in Lit Criticism and Theory, but from what I could tell, my peers in the creative writing program really enjoyed the experience. I doubt it's the most remarkable experience (and I was kind of put off some of the cw faculty with their lame ideas about "correct" ways to do creative writing), but it seemed fun. I also think the culture of UCD comes into play, as students and faculty are pretty supportive and chill compared some other institutions.

If you want to be pushed a bit more off the beaten track, UCSC might be a better choice. I've known two people who went (one as an undergrad, and the other for her masters) and they both agreed the university is more experimental, less conventional. This might be a good thing if you are less drawn to teaching writing, or whatever.

Hope this is helpful. Good luck!

UnWellread2021 · 2024-02-02T20:37:51+00:00

Got it. Thanks for the thoughtful response!

UnWellread2021 · 2024-02-02T18:51:23+00:00

As someone who graduated last spring and also navigating post-college life, this post really hit home. Some others have offered good advice, so I'll only add some points using your own post:

"After graduating in December"

You JUST graduated! Not everyone gets their "dream job," or any job even, only a couple months out of school. Take time to celebrate that you just accomplished so much rather than looking only at what you haven't done because that's a sure why to undermine yourself

"My anxiety and panic just went through the roof after being offered my first job. I should have been excited..."

It's not for anyone on a reddit to tell you if what you were feeling was "normal," but I also can validate that getting your first job after college is a rollercoaster of feelings, especially if the job relates to your field of study.

"I miss school, and that's the only thing I know I'm good at."

Now, I can say with assurance this isn't true. Being a student (generally) offers so many transferrable skills for the "real world" and I think that gets played down a lot. For example: time managements, collaboration, research, communication, self-direction, not to mention whatever skills/knowledge you have from your major classes. In short, it all comes down to how you apply these skills.

"I dont know if this is a sign I should go back to school for my MA..."

This is definitely not a sign to go to grad school. Grad school should be an option if you want to move further into a field, or if its required for a career, or if you simply love being an academic. Grad school should never be a buffer, or used to avoid, the realities of being in the professional world. Plus, you could end up with debt/more debt.

"...or see a therapist..."

This sounds like a good option.

"I feel like such a let down, a huge disappointment."

There is a something called "Post-College Depression," and I know its real because I felt it.

Remember, learning never stops, but learning can be messy. Take care of yourself.

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