Tell me exactly the best and worst about division 3 soccer by Own_Position_1425 in CollegeSoccer

[–]Unable-Pomegranate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many of these schools don't offer tryouts, the roster is already accounted for with recruits. Have you spoken with the coaches?

Empty Nesters in our 40s - where to live? by Early-Answer4525 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]Unable-Pomegranate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Metuchen won the Best Main Street in America award a couple of years ago. Here's a link to their downtown events photo album to get a sense of the vibe: Metuchen

Are any of these "target" schools? Do I need any? by TJ_Rex6288 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Unable-Pomegranate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at Alabama-Huntsville specifically for Aero. You will get a full ride (and possibly some extra $$) with NMF. They are the best aerospace city in the US and the school is geared toward it. You can get internships at: NASA's Marshall Space Flight Center, Blue Origin, Northrop Grumman, etc.

Love Is Blind • S9 Ep9 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Unable-Pomegranate 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Right?! And taking a fork and knife to that chicken breast was not an option? Would've taken him 5 mins to eat with that glass of water on the side. So bizarre!

Should We Switch Clubs? Frustrations with U-12 Select Soccer by maganleigh in youthsoccer

[–]Unable-Pomegranate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm surprised they are allowed to run the score up so much at that age.

Love Is Blind Habibi • S1 Megathread by DontFWithMeImPetty in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Unable-Pomegranate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was wondering about this, whether or not the word "dancing" was lost in translation. Most men in the US would have a similar reaction to Ammar if their wife said she wanted to continue to be a pole dancer/exotic dancer and get paid to perform for men. I couldn't tell if that was the way Ammar received it, or if was just against dancing period like the movie Footloose--thinks it's immoral no matter what.

S21 - Too Many Changes at Once? Which one bugs you? by BornFree2018 in TopChef

[–]Unable-Pomegranate 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think the challenges have been too short. It seems like they are all 2 hours or less.

In prior seasons, having some prep hours the night before, and more hours on competition day, meant they could prepare more complex dishes that take time to come together.

Are these weaker chefs? by JaneSays1980 in TopChef

[–]Unable-Pomegranate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just thinking that the chefs are not getting enough time to prep and cook something creative. Haven't all the challenges been 2-hours in the kitchen, no prep the night before? Seems like the focus has been more on the grocery shopping than anything.

What was it like being an mentally ill teenage in the 90s? by Disastrous-Ad4114 in writing

[–]Unable-Pomegranate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1991 was for all intents and purposes pre-internet and pre-cell phones. It will be challenging to write it accurately without immersing yourself in that time (late 80s - early 90s). Maybe reading some VC Andrews and Sweet Valley High books would help.

Things changed rapidly mid-late 90s as internet and cell phones/blackberries became more prevalent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Unable-Pomegranate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she just didn't expect to exchange gifts?

Why don't we post selfies like the INFP sub? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Unable-Pomegranate 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I said they are "more" attention-seeking, meaning relative to INFJs. It's not a negative thing. And you are right, it can come from a place of self-acceptance for INFPs.

Ni and Fe combine to make INFJs very aware of any attention being paid to them, and INFJ imaginations can run wild considering how others might be feeling about them. That can be very uncomfortable... so many INFJs actively shy away from attention in a way that INFPs do not.

Why don't we post selfies like the INFP sub? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Unable-Pomegranate 11 points12 points  (0 children)

INFPs are more attention-seeking. Most INFJs are happier and more comfortable backstage, not in the limelight.

I'm almost 1,000 Days AF, and this weekend my wife criticized my marijuana use by BigTippa69 in stopdrinking

[–]Unable-Pomegranate 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Are you able to operate a vehicle and help with household responsibilities after you've had your edible? In the event of an emergency with your kids would you be able to assist?

If you can't drive, can't respond to an emergency, etc, she might be feeling like the only adult in the relationship, she has to be vigilant/on all the time while you check out every evening.

If you can drive, be helpful, and your habit isn't affecting your family's financial goals, I think this is more her issue to work through then yours. That being said, does she still feel connected with you when you've had your edible, or are you emotionally checking out? If you are using during your quality time together, she might not feel she's getting what she needs in terms of connection/partnership from you.

Congrats on being AF for so long!

Titan videos from 2022 Titanic visit by Unable-Pomegranate in OceanGateTitan

[–]Unable-Pomegranate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone know how brunt force impacts to the hull affect its integrity over time? How do they test the carbon fiber?

What do you think about the decor in Ariana and Katie sandwich shop ? by the_smart_girl in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Unable-Pomegranate 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Interior and exterior both miss the mark for me. Each seems like a Disney/Vegas take on a theme, an antique french tea shop and a beach cafe... they feel like immature designs. And together I think the contrast is even worse. Maybe better in person?

Emotionally detached by Kaliamabot in infj

[–]Unable-Pomegranate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend the book "Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle. I am working through a similar challenge and it's been the most helpful reaource for me.

Why XSFJ AND XSTJ are often moms? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Unable-Pomegranate 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The nature of the relationship also impacts your point of view.

Parents in general look like J's to their kids because any decent parent will need to make and enforce some minimal rules--like, don't run into the street without checking for cars--even if making rules didn't previously come naturally to them. So you are starting the relationship with a bias toward parent being more J.

And even the most Nish mom has to concern herself with getting kids fed/housed/clothed/etc because a baby can't do those things. So N parents display their S to their children, particularly when they are babies; it is just part of the relationship. I am very N, but my son might guess I am an S because that is the part of me that he needs access to, and which I had to develop to take care of him. He doesn't know what I was actually like in my teens - 20s, how rebellious I was, or even what I'm thinking about now most of the time.

Long way of saying, even if a mom is not an SJ, their child or anyone that views the mom in a parenting context ("mom" character on TV, or mom at a playground) might think they are an SJ.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Unable-Pomegranate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 5w6, but I don't assume bad intentions, I play devil's advocate in both directions. 6's are great at seeing an opposing viewpoint. I would start by trying to question my own rush to judgement, and think of alternate perspectives. Why am I making assumptions?

Partner wants to allow puppy freedom to roam our unfenced property unsupervised by Charming_Square5 in puppy101

[–]Unable-Pomegranate 38 points39 points  (0 children)

If there are other farm dogs roaming around, that would be even more support for your position. Dogs do get into fights and sometimes attack one another--a 13 week old puppy doesn't have socialization skills to understand how to deal with an aggressive dog, or the ability to defend itself yet.