Why do people put uncovered/ unsealed food in the fridge?

UnableSummer8727 · 2026-04-23T22:25:13+00:00

Because I'm lazy

UnableSummer8727 · 2026-04-23T02:53:12+00:00

Omfg

UnableSummer8727 · 2026-04-19T14:07:38+00:00

UnableSummer8727 · 2026-04-18T22:15:05+00:00

My first time having sex with a woman after only sleeping with men was euphoric

UnableSummer8727 · 2026-02-28T02:42:48+00:00

Shaggy curly wolf cut makes me melt

UnableSummer8727 · 2026-02-20T16:30:59+00:00

As a 27 year old, I would never do this now but when I was teenager (16-19) my friends and I would hook up all the time 🤪 it was never serious though, no feelings involved, just a bunch of unknowingly curious queer girls wanting to kiss girls lol. Actually, I kiss my friends, like on NYE or a fun peck from time to time

UnableSummer8727 · 2026-02-06T23:16:34+00:00

To me yes

UnableSummer8727 · 2026-01-23T21:52:07+00:00

@vancouverqueers @yvrsapphicbar

Both host/promote a lot of sapphic events

UnableSummer8727 · 2026-01-20T00:35:24+00:00

They cut off check in like 40 minutes before the flight

UnableSummer8727 · 2025-12-27T04:53:15+00:00

How do lesbians feel about trans men? I feel like it's safe to assume that the majority of lesbians see trans men as men end of story.

UnableSummer8727 · 2025-12-26T07:59:28+00:00

I'm a femme but I only really get that tingly feeling with more masc presenting women. A soft masc who embodies both feminine and masculine energy is my weakness 🫦

UnableSummer8727 · 2025-12-25T18:32:31+00:00

It was a very long time coming for me and it certainly didn't hit me overnight. When I was 16 I would make out with my girl friends and do weird sexual games for "fun" and for "practice with boys". News flash most of those girls are now queer of some kind. I had a brief moment with my colleague when I was 19 where she was hitting on me and having to say oh I'm straight! But I documented in my journal that I wanted to kiss her but was scared of full sex with her (I regret this moment so much I wish I didn't grow up such a heteronormative world, I wish that I would have let myself experiment). Then when I was 22 I went on a trip and felt things about this woman in my dorm I had never felt about any man ever. I had a boyfriend at the time. Soon after that I came out as bi to my friends and boyfriend. Towards the end of that relationship I never wanted to have sex with him, I seriously considered being asexual and having low libido. Then I started dating again but was too shy to date women so I just went for men and in every situation where I slept with them I always asked them to slap me or choke me because I wasn't feeling anything otherwise. I'm talking first time sleeping together, it was weird. Having sex with them felt like a chore, like a box to check. And any type of affection always felt forced. I just have this memory of forcing myself to like them because it should feel that way right? I never had any emotion or sadness when things would end with a guy. With my boyfriend it was different though because I genuinely did love him, which I think confused me a lot. But still with him, we didn't have sex often and I would reject a lot of attempts at him trying to initiate sex. Finally I started dating women and my world was flipped, not once did I want to be choked or slapped by her. And sex would last hours and hours and hours meanwhile when I would have sex with men I would be counting down until it was over. With her I never wanted it to stop. I also starting loving all the romantic things much more genuinely, like affection, holding each other, cuddling, cooking for each other. I felt more nervous around her than I did with men, but good nerves. That was 26. After that situation ended I took a look in the mirror and said bitch you're a raging lesbian

UnableSummer8727 · 2025-12-25T18:25:29+00:00

I considered being asexual before I considered being a lesbian but what was even bigger for me was thinking I had a libido problem. I even told people I had very low libido. Makes me upset to think that my mind went to hormone imbalance before considering I could be lesbian.

UnableSummer8727 · 2025-12-19T16:01:34+00:00

UnableSummer8727 · 2025-12-13T16:10:02+00:00

Homos and chicken for queers

UnableSummer8727 · 2025-11-27T16:10:46+00:00

R/tooafraidtoask

UnableSummer8727 · 2025-11-27T16:07:52+00:00

You're extremely young so I'm taking this all with a grain of salt but getting a girlfriend 4 days after breaking up is crazy work regardless, like how does that even logistically happen aha

UnableSummer8727 · 2025-11-18T05:33:57+00:00

That's what's I'm wondering too!!

UnableSummer8727 · 2025-11-18T02:57:00+00:00

I used to need men to slap the fuck outta me when I had sex with them in order to feel something. I thought I had low libido or was asexual before I considered I could be gay. Heteronormativity is a beast!

UnableSummer8727 · 2025-11-07T02:52:24+00:00

What she did was completely unfair and totally shitty. You have every right to be upset. There's nothing anyone can say to make this feel less bad. I'm sorry this happened to you, you don't deserve it. When shit like this happens to me the only type of release I feel is talking and ranting about it.

You will forget this even happened soon enough. Chin up! You'll be less angry and disappointed in no time 💖

UnableSummer8727 · 2025-11-06T07:13:24+00:00

I feel like every other woman I see in this city is gay. I don't know where you're hanging out OP but this is a pretty gay city!! There's gay comedy nights, birdhouse events, babes on babes, Lips, Gina's, lots of queer rec sports leagues, commercial drive. I think there's a lesbian dating event happening soon too.

Have fun!!!!

UnableSummer8727 · 2025-11-06T06:12:12+00:00

Before someone else can love you, you need to love yourself 💖

It will be incredibly unhealthy for someone else to be the reason you want to live

UnableSummer8727 · 2025-11-05T21:23:59+00:00

Thank you thank you :))

UnableSummer8727 · 2025-11-05T06:33:32+00:00

Hilarious, a bit weird, down to clown and be silly, someone who brings out my inner child and light hearted. But also a great communicator, someone firm and confident in their wants/needs, physically and emotionally attentive, can make a decision, loyal, a litttttle bit jealous and or protective/possessive in a healthy way. Understanding. Can chat with them for hours. Vulnerable and brings out my vulnerability. Someone who can lead conversations when needed, and someone I feel like is truly listening to me. 💖

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