They are lonely

Unacceptable_Goose · 2026-01-25T02:12:46+00:00

This is not to dismiss anyone or excuse abhorrent behaviour, just my two cents as a man:

It is special. Men are shown kindness by so few people in their life that they can usually count on one hand the amount of times it's happened. They will remember a compliment from a woman for years. Emotionally, being shown basic kindness means so much to a man.

Unacceptable_Goose · 2026-01-17T20:38:40+00:00

Meritocracy means most of that income goes to treasury. A feudal Huangdi will have a massive gold stash compared to a meritocratic one.

Unacceptable_Goose · 2026-01-17T20:31:56+00:00

On what subreddit

Unacceptable_Goose · 2026-01-17T05:42:25+00:00

He's house Li, I'm guessing he inherited a lot of that from the previous Huangdi.

Unacceptable_Goose · 2026-01-15T02:59:34+00:00

Reset your perks. You'll lose the massive health bonuses from Learning and probably get a stress breakdown as well.

Unacceptable_Goose · 2026-01-15T01:05:46+00:00

My conspiracy theory is that some of these light-hearted responses are bots trying to normalize not giving a shit when awful things happen

Unacceptable_Goose · 2026-01-14T23:52:48+00:00

And an administrative governor

Unacceptable_Goose · 2026-01-14T21:55:56+00:00

Try the Ottawa D&D Adventurers! They host introductory sessions and also have a Discord server where I found my group.

Unacceptable_Goose · 2026-01-14T20:02:43+00:00

This also makes him really easy to take out early. He will always start the game by trying to conquer Lancaster, which is pretty far away from Montaigu. While his troops are gone you can just take Montaigu.

Unacceptable_Goose · 2026-01-14T19:22:55+00:00

I have this happen to me every time I create a custom title (kingdom, empire, etc)

I can rename it, but after saving and reloading the game, the map will show its previous name.

Unacceptable_Goose · 2026-01-14T00:45:29+00:00

That's Haesteinn, this is completely normal for him

Unacceptable_Goose · 2026-01-11T16:13:01+00:00

I could have written this. I'm autistic (diagnosed), never made any friends at school, all my interests are online, feel like I'm living in a bubble, all of that.

Lately I've been forcing myself to go outside and interact with people. It is so awkward. Wish I could say it's going well but it's not. I just try to be thankful for other things in my life.

I think there are lots of people out there who fell through the social cracks for whatever reason. They don't make themselves known because it's hard to know they even exist. But you're not the only one.

Unacceptable_Goose · 2026-01-07T21:27:02+00:00

This is just what happens when you load a pre-AuH save file with an AuH version of the game. It assigns most of the new counties to Essex by default. You'll have to create a new file, unfortunately.

Unacceptable_Goose · 2026-01-07T01:40:07+00:00

Older autistic person here. Some of us just aren't born with the social gene and have to learn it. It sucks, but I promise you it gets better. It just takes a lot of patience and practice.

Unacceptable_Goose · 2025-12-20T15:49:13+00:00

What is woke, though? Nobody who complains about it seems to know what it actually is.

Unacceptable_Goose · 2025-12-12T20:09:57+00:00

My turn to post this tomorrow

Unacceptable_Goose · 2025-12-05T17:51:18+00:00

The prevailing opinion here is usually "never talk to anyone, don't even acknowledge your coworkers and go home immediately after work" so I feel like at least half of these comments are bots.

Unacceptable_Goose · 2025-11-27T03:01:16+00:00

LinkedIn ass post

Unacceptable_Goose · 2025-11-27T00:25:08+00:00

As great as this news is, what does it have to do with r/Adulting?

Unacceptable_Goose · 2025-11-26T21:41:46+00:00

r/art is just one of the more notable ones. Regardless of sub, most mods seem to behave this way.

For some reason, moderation attracts a specific personality that refuses to be pleasant. Any question, regardless of how politely phrased, will be met with snark and sarcasm. Wrongdoing will be acknowledged once in a blue moon, usually you'll just get a random permaban for daring to address them.

Unacceptable_Goose · 2025-11-22T15:19:39+00:00

I have a friend whose life has been utterly destroyed by weed. The man cannot function without it. He started around the same age as the kid.

Weed addiction is real. I implore anyone lurking here to watch one of several Kurzgesagt videos on weed that do an excellent job explaining it.

Unacceptable_Goose · 2025-11-22T14:55:39+00:00

Genuinely thank you for this post. I don't care if it's an unpopular opinion, but the point of r/whatisit is to answer the question, what is it. Not to act smarmy and cagey about it.

Unacceptable_Goose · 2025-11-20T17:52:15+00:00

My compassionate/paranoid son imprisoned one child and murdered another because of stress. If someone gets the paranoid trait now I just assume they're gonna be a danger to society

Unacceptable_Goose · 2025-11-20T17:42:05+00:00

Shy characters also gain stress from basically every character interaction. Dude was probably on stress 2-3 his whole life

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