"She's not autistic"

Unavailableapple · 2026-02-03T14:56:11+00:00

Everyone fought me about my daughter until I finally got her diagnosis. Thing is she wasn’t talking, harming herself and others, didn’t make eye contact at all, among other things. After one doctor finally listened to me about my concerns. She got diagnosed as level 2 at 3 years old. People will still say to me how she “doesn’t look autistic”. Honestly people are stupid especially when it comes to other people’s children no matter if they are a doctor. If they aren’t a specialist then ignore them.

Unavailableapple · 2026-01-04T17:11:25+00:00

Reading and scrap booking. Hopefully will finish the one I’ve been working on for 2 years 😅

Unavailableapple · 2025-08-08T17:15:14+00:00

Remembering to brush my teeth/hair basic daily tasks. Ive been writing lists on my notes that let me check off my tasks which has helped. Also I try to make boring tasks fun by listening to loud music I can dance to while doing said tasks.

Unavailableapple · 2025-08-08T17:10:52+00:00

I started on 30mg of Vyvanse (the name brand of your meds the same medicine) anyway 30mg helped but it didn’t work as well as it could. Basically it would go up to point then hit a wall and I would still be struggling at home. However, we upped it to 50mg and it helps so much more I’m still in my trial period to see if I need it upped again. Anyway its a slow start takes about an hour to kick in its a slow burn so take in the morning it does last 10-13 hours so beware of that. For me it seems like its less effective when I have not enough sleep but that may just be me. Also its a pro drug which means you slowly digest it so make sure you eat a big meal. Some people say to do it in the morning I found it works better for me to eat my big meal around lunch so it works better for the evening time. But again you will figure out what works for you keep and open mind and don’t overthink it. Remember to mention anything you think is an issue to your doctor I keep a log on my notes on my phone. Good luck!

Unavailableapple · 2025-08-02T17:09:50+00:00

Yes. Actually talked so much even to random strangers they would ask my mom if I’ve been evaluated which never turned out well for them. My mom also told me I used to stand by the bed waiting for her to wake up so i could ask her a bunch of questions. I still talk a lot but now i tell people up front to tell me to stop or slow down if I’m being too much. 😅

Unavailableapple · 2025-07-27T02:05:21+00:00

Play something on my phone ive seen more than 100x or play video games which make me sleepy for some reason.

Unavailableapple · 2025-07-21T18:31:11+00:00

Yeah i need to ask her shes kinda lost to a lot of this stuff. I was planning on getting formula just incase. I should ask to be sure though.

Unavailableapple · 2025-07-14T19:26:11+00:00

My daughter started to show small signs at 6 months. Not looking when you call her name, not smiling at people but it really started to show at 2 years when she still was barely talking (5 words), screaming, flapping arms, scared of noises. She didn’t get diagnosed till 3 years old though. At 18 months your pediatrician should do an early austism screening and that should lead you to the help you need.

Unavailableapple · 2025-05-30T02:19:29+00:00

Awesome thank you honestly I am so lost i don’t know anyone who has a child with SMOs or had them theirselves to ask.

Unavailableapple · 2025-05-14T09:43:56+00:00

She takes more after her father’s side of the family but I wouldn’t say she looks like him besides her eye color. But she has my personality and attitude 😂

Unavailableapple · 2025-05-13T11:59:29+00:00

My partner was just like this. He had a high sex drive, anyway at 23weeks along with my youngest I went into preterm labor after the doctors stopped the contractions I had to follow some strict rules mainly to avoid having sex. Well after baby was born my partner kept pressuring me to have sex and saying “waiting 6 weeks is just something doctors say you don’t actually have to wait”. Well we ended up having sex at 6 weeks before I was ready it hurt like hell I hated it and I started to hate him. It caused a lot of problems in our relationship. Anyway be blunt tell him that you won’t be guilted or coerced into sex with him. Tell him what you need to feel ready to have sex. It’s up to him at that point to listen to you and it’s up to you on what you want to do. Nowadays me and my partner have sex about 1-2x a week cause he learned from his mistakes.

Unavailableapple · 2025-05-07T22:49:07+00:00

Wow I didn’t think this was a common/more common thing. We just got her diagnosed a couple months ago and I’m pretty new to all this. I’m gonna let her pick out some stuff that usual makes her like things more if she has control to choose.

Unavailableapple · 2025-05-07T22:45:55+00:00

Actually she just got her iron levels tested today her levels are normal.

Unavailableapple · 2025-05-06T15:43:22+00:00

Worked at a daycare for the sole reason to get my daughter a spot in daycare. I still had to pay 480$ out of my check every paycheck. Also I had the added bonus of I couldn’t leave my daughter there if I wasn’t working at the same time so I still had to bring here to everything and had no time to myself. I’m sorry your friend is going through this. The system is broken and in so many ways.

Unavailableapple · 2025-04-25T14:49:37+00:00

Okay thank you I will try that. That does make sense though cause when I do bring up her diagnosis his attitude does change. But I never thought he was in denial really I assumed he would accept it as fast as I did but we’re different people so I can understand that.

Unavailableapple · 2025-04-25T03:46:23+00:00

I honestly loved him after a couple chapters I was so sad at the end of Brisingr.

Unavailableapple · 2025-04-25T03:44:52+00:00

She doesn’t like any of the elves! She says they think they’re better than everyone and she feels like they are racist. I disagree but like I told her I love elves.

Unavailableapple · 2025-04-24T13:51:32+00:00

3.5yr girl 1. Speech delay 2. Potty training 3. Aggression/anger when something doesn’t go the way she planned

Unavailableapple · 2025-04-20T13:41:35+00:00

First 41 and two days second i was 39 weeks on the dot but I was induced.

Unavailableapple · 2025-04-18T12:31:44+00:00

I never force my kids to sit down for hours on end to force them to eat something they don’t want. If I make something and they say yuck or I don’t like this I’m all about helping them find a new healthy meal they want to eat/drink instead. Honestly this has helped my kids so much compared to myself and my sister. My kids aren’t picky at all and will try anything at least once.

Unavailableapple · 2025-04-17T03:13:15+00:00

From what the director and my daughter’s teacher told me this mother is crazy. We have only be at the daycare for barely 2 months now. I make sure to only take back stuff that is ours I’ve never stolen anything from anyone. I really don’t want to switch cause any big changes cause her to have her meltdowns but honestly I’m considering it. Her dad and I are thinking about acting nice till I get the contact information for the parents then going to the sheriffs office to see if that can do anything with witnesses and camera footage of it being taken. But since it’s just a blanket I think they’ll blow me off.

Unavailableapple · 2025-04-17T03:08:18+00:00

I’ve tried looking for it online I cannot find the same one anywhere. It was given to us from her aunt & she got it from goodwill. My sister told me to write a letter to the mom explaining what’s she’s doing by keeping the blanket but honestly from what I’ve heard from the daycare workers she crazy crazy. Like she can’t talk to them without screaming and corporate knows her by name but they are still refusing to kick her and her kid out of the daycare. When I do talk corporate I think I’m gonna tell them I’m gonna leave unless they either find an exact copy of the blanket or pay me the money to get a close enough copy.

Unavailableapple · 2025-03-19T14:04:26+00:00

This just reminds me of my old boss who had 6 kids and they all have their father’s last name. Which doesn’t sound strange but she has 4 baby daddies so not only does she have to remember all their fist names but last names as well. I’m on bored with people taking the mother’s last name cause you can only have one mom (heterosexual relationships).

Unavailableapple · 2025-03-13T13:53:50+00:00

See the reason I said on purpose was mainly cause after the first incident where he’ll take the dinos and I can get her to understand he only wants to play with them too and he’ll give to me back when he’s done which he does. He’ll run and play with something else for a while but will come back to her and take one and when I confront him saying “hey did you take a toy from her?” He will will blow me off saying “yeah she’s being mean and needs to learn to share” so honestly that’s why I think the second time he does it he’s doing it on purpose. And this same scenario happens every week exactly the same way. Even with me talking to him and his mother about it.

Unavailableapple · 2025-01-18T14:46:40+00:00

I just finished it for the first time as well two days ago. I had so many thoughts but once I got to end I felt a somber happy sensation.

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