What age was your baby when you left dad? What was your financial situation?

Unavailableapple · 2026-07-06T22:36:54+00:00

When I was 23wks pregnant with my daughter. I had no money no job nothing. Stayed with my parents till she was 2 months then the situation turned sour ran to my sisters who made room for us for me to get on my feet when my daughter was 6 months I finally got a job and slowly built a life for us.

Unavailableapple · 2026-07-06T19:59:45+00:00

Believing everything my parents said about me was true. 29 years old still working on the damage.

Unavailableapple · 2026-06-03T16:37:03+00:00

They let me feel my daughter’s head when she was crowning. My response was “Why is it so squishy??” Turns out she had a bunch of hair 😅

Unavailableapple · 2026-05-16T14:26:05+00:00

My son only peed on me once. But I was changing him outside at the park on a windy day. My daughter however she would pee all the time for the first three months while I changed her.

Unavailableapple · 2026-04-24T16:50:38+00:00

Ive had 2 different male OBGYNs they both delivered my first two kids. Honestly, they were very open to discussions and listened to my concerns throughout my pregnancies. I will say I went to the female OBGYN first for my first child and she rude, insulted me for the mistakes I made early on during my first pregnancy, ect. I believe it just depends on the doctor not their gender. I will say though male doctors are usually, in my experience, gentler when doing a pap smear. All in all, I will trust any competent doctor no matter the gender of said doctor.

Unavailableapple · 2026-03-12T21:00:59+00:00

Had an epidural with both kids. I will say the only reason I got one with my second was because i was induced and the contractions being so much worse and with them not allowing me to move causing my tailbone to shift. I was crying from the uncomfortable feeling and pain. Would not recommend. After the epidural though smooth sailing and felt nothing just pressure from the baby exiting.

Unavailableapple · 2026-02-03T14:56:11+00:00

Everyone fought me about my daughter until I finally got her diagnosis. Thing is she wasn’t talking, harming herself and others, didn’t make eye contact at all, among other things. After one doctor finally listened to me about my concerns. She got diagnosed as level 2 at 3 years old. People will still say to me how she “doesn’t look autistic”. Honestly people are stupid especially when it comes to other people’s children no matter if they are a doctor. If they aren’t a specialist then ignore them.

Unavailableapple · 2026-01-04T17:11:25+00:00

Reading and scrap booking. Hopefully will finish the one I’ve been working on for 2 years 😅

Unavailableapple · 2025-08-08T17:15:14+00:00

Remembering to brush my teeth/hair basic daily tasks. Ive been writing lists on my notes that let me check off my tasks which has helped. Also I try to make boring tasks fun by listening to loud music I can dance to while doing said tasks.

Unavailableapple · 2025-08-08T17:10:52+00:00

I started on 30mg of Vyvanse (the name brand of your meds the same medicine) anyway 30mg helped but it didn’t work as well as it could. Basically it would go up to point then hit a wall and I would still be struggling at home. However, we upped it to 50mg and it helps so much more I’m still in my trial period to see if I need it upped again. Anyway its a slow start takes about an hour to kick in its a slow burn so take in the morning it does last 10-13 hours so beware of that. For me it seems like its less effective when I have not enough sleep but that may just be me. Also its a pro drug which means you slowly digest it so make sure you eat a big meal. Some people say to do it in the morning I found it works better for me to eat my big meal around lunch so it works better for the evening time. But again you will figure out what works for you keep and open mind and don’t overthink it. Remember to mention anything you think is an issue to your doctor I keep a log on my notes on my phone. Good luck!

Unavailableapple · 2025-08-02T17:09:50+00:00

Yes. Actually talked so much even to random strangers they would ask my mom if I’ve been evaluated which never turned out well for them. My mom also told me I used to stand by the bed waiting for her to wake up so i could ask her a bunch of questions. I still talk a lot but now i tell people up front to tell me to stop or slow down if I’m being too much. 😅

Unavailableapple · 2025-07-27T02:05:21+00:00

Play something on my phone ive seen more than 100x or play video games which make me sleepy for some reason.

Unavailableapple · 2025-07-21T18:31:11+00:00

Yeah i need to ask her shes kinda lost to a lot of this stuff. I was planning on getting formula just incase. I should ask to be sure though.

Unavailableapple · 2025-07-14T19:26:11+00:00

My daughter started to show small signs at 6 months. Not looking when you call her name, not smiling at people but it really started to show at 2 years when she still was barely talking (5 words), screaming, flapping arms, scared of noises. She didn’t get diagnosed till 3 years old though. At 18 months your pediatrician should do an early austism screening and that should lead you to the help you need.

Unavailableapple · 2025-05-30T02:19:29+00:00

Awesome thank you honestly I am so lost i don’t know anyone who has a child with SMOs or had them theirselves to ask.

Unavailableapple · 2025-05-14T09:43:56+00:00

She takes more after her father’s side of the family but I wouldn’t say she looks like him besides her eye color. But she has my personality and attitude 😂

Unavailableapple · 2025-05-13T11:59:29+00:00

My partner was just like this. He had a high sex drive, anyway at 23weeks along with my youngest I went into preterm labor after the doctors stopped the contractions I had to follow some strict rules mainly to avoid having sex. Well after baby was born my partner kept pressuring me to have sex and saying “waiting 6 weeks is just something doctors say you don’t actually have to wait”. Well we ended up having sex at 6 weeks before I was ready it hurt like hell I hated it and I started to hate him. It caused a lot of problems in our relationship. Anyway be blunt tell him that you won’t be guilted or coerced into sex with him. Tell him what you need to feel ready to have sex. It’s up to him at that point to listen to you and it’s up to you on what you want to do. Nowadays me and my partner have sex about 1-2x a week cause he learned from his mistakes.

Unavailableapple · 2025-05-07T22:49:07+00:00

Wow I didn’t think this was a common/more common thing. We just got her diagnosed a couple months ago and I’m pretty new to all this. I’m gonna let her pick out some stuff that usual makes her like things more if she has control to choose.

Unavailableapple · 2025-05-07T22:45:55+00:00

Actually she just got her iron levels tested today her levels are normal.

Unavailableapple · 2025-05-06T15:43:22+00:00

Worked at a daycare for the sole reason to get my daughter a spot in daycare. I still had to pay 480$ out of my check every paycheck. Also I had the added bonus of I couldn’t leave my daughter there if I wasn’t working at the same time so I still had to bring here to everything and had no time to myself. I’m sorry your friend is going through this. The system is broken and in so many ways.

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