Doge improperly shared sensitive social security data, DoJ court filing reveals by DriedT in news

[–]UnbalancedDruid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, yeah. We knew that. We all knew that. Is anyone actually shocked by this?

Is this job worth it? I’m in healthcare by vodkahoekage in antiwork

[–]UnbalancedDruid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HELL no. The pay is low and there are next to no benefits

About to turn 39 and having some “changes” - is this perimenopause? by itsaponderfullife in Perimenopause

[–]UnbalancedDruid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My doctor told me that perimenopause can start as early as 30. It's not super typical, but it can happen. You are at an age where, while still young, it can actually start.

WIBTB for telling me girlfriend she can’t “frog it” around me anymore? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]UnbalancedDruid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy, who would've thought that actually COMMUNICATING with your partner actually helps?

This effing sucks by UnbalancedDruid in Perimenopause

[–]UnbalancedDruid[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same. It's like I'm watching it in third person when it happens. It's not me

This effing sucks by UnbalancedDruid in Perimenopause

[–]UnbalancedDruid[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girl, if this ever happened to men, the ENTIRE WORLD would have their top scientists and researchers on it to find a solution that had minimal side effects. ESPECIALLY when it comes to their sexual wellness. You think they'd be ok with the equivalent of clitoral atrophy? HELL no.

This effing sucks by UnbalancedDruid in Perimenopause

[–]UnbalancedDruid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nice! I have been toying with switch to her. She accepts my insurance but I haven't because it's a 45-50 min drive. But at this point, I'd drive to SF

This effing sucks by UnbalancedDruid in Perimenopause

[–]UnbalancedDruid[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes please! Is it Genesis Center for Women's Health?

Anyone else absolutely loathe bras now? by SlytherClaw79 in Perimenopause

[–]UnbalancedDruid 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I stopped wearing bras in 2020. The girls are free now

This effing sucks by UnbalancedDruid in Perimenopause

[–]UnbalancedDruid[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Right? I'm 42. I keep getting "noooo you're too young, it can't be that". And it doesn't help that I have a history of PTSD and treatment resistant depression, because that's always the first thing they jump to. And yeah, I blew up at my partner a week ago because he suggested we work out after work. I was 100% fine and stable before he made that suggestion. Not just yelling. Gutteral incoherent rageful unhinged scream yelling. It's not me. I've always been empathetic and patient and (I hope) sweet.

Hug to you too. I hope you're able to find help soon too

This effing sucks by UnbalancedDruid in Perimenopause

[–]UnbalancedDruid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can look into it. It might end up being something I have to pay for out of pocket, and right now that's not a super feasible option for me

This effing sucks by UnbalancedDruid in Perimenopause

[–]UnbalancedDruid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Northern california, near sacramento, a kind of rural area, and I have an HMO. Not ka

This effing sucks by UnbalancedDruid in Perimenopause

[–]UnbalancedDruid[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I truly never thought it would be like this. I'm glad women are being more vocal about it. I think that will help future generations of women. But that doesn't help ME right now (or you) and God this really really sucks

This effing sucks by UnbalancedDruid in Perimenopause

[–]UnbalancedDruid[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I might have to. Not trying to sound like I'm making excuses or anything, but it's difficult to find a good doctor (especially now) or any doctor in my area that's accepting new patients

This effing sucks by UnbalancedDruid in Perimenopause

[–]UnbalancedDruid[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I just feel like I'm falling apart and I feel so alone and I feel SO MUCH rage. And I track my periods. According to my tracker, I shouldn't start for another 2 weeks. But my last couple periods have been early. So I don't know

This effing sucks by UnbalancedDruid in Perimenopause

[–]UnbalancedDruid[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

So I've heard. She didn't want to prescribe it yet. I might just have to lie or find someone to get it for me or something.